No pun intended, but I can go either way.....I have topped and bottomed, even once was in the middle while screwing a gal while her husband topped me. It's all good, depending on circumstances, and (in my case) whether I can comfortably accept the size and shape of the other guys.
im totally a bottom lol my cock is saved for my gf but she doesnt like to play with my ass
I am technically a top the rare times I engage in anal sex with a male partner who I am in a relationship with or dating, and have never bottomed for anal sex and do not want to; but in reality I am neither since I am more into oral sex. There are some men who are versatile, but a lot of men are strictly a bottom or a top only for anal sex.
total vers here.. but prefer to fuck pussy, but will fuck a nice ass also.. I was with two guys one time, one was a bottom, the other a top and I was sandwiched in the middle.. it was incredible..
For those guys who are tops.. I have one word for you.. Prostate.. the male g-spot.. you don't need to get fucked by a guy to experience stimulating your prostate.. check out http://www.aneros.com/.. I use this when I fuck my female friends and it makes me have an incredible orgasm and she notices a difference when I use it.. plus.. it is recommended to stimulate your prostate to keep you nice and healthy.
Believe in yourself, that is really the only person who matters..
BiJohn-I think that sex toys are gross and I don't like to put them up another man's ass and there's no way in hell I would put one up mine. I also do not want to have a woman or a man put a sex toy up my ass. I am a true top and I do not even enjoy having a finger inserted up my ass and when a man I was in a partnership did this to me it just feels like a prostate exam when my doctor does it to me. Rimming or having someone lick your shit hole is disgusting and there's no way in hell I am ever going to do that to someone and I have never had a man or woman rim me.
I believe my husband would be like you if he opens up to and MMF sex, any MM would be because of me anyway, at least I believe at first. I think he will find anal with a real penis is going to blow his mind like it does me and he'll get addicted to it like I am. Oh goodness at the pictures I will get to take and the moooooovies I could make...Originally Posted by chapsmccall
Can you explain what you mean? What do you do? How do you use this? How does it help you have incredible orgasms? What difference can you lady friends tell and how? Thanks for your reply.
I am versatile slightly leaning to the bottom side...but to answer the o.p.'s question, I would say yes. At least in my own experience, versatile people seem fewer and further between than those that are just one way or the other
BiDave I agree with you 100 %. By looking at me you would never think that I enjoy sex with men. There have been guys into play with myself and a lady that were taken aback when they found out that I do enjoy having a cock or a toy in me.Even when I am being topped I am in control of the play. That is the reason that I like it best when I am riding a cock while he is on his back. I control the tempo and the depth of penatration. I can bring him to the brink and not let him cum until I am ready.I can also use the talent that I have of being able to milk him without moving up and down.I am into anal with a lady, but have no desire to top a man.Anally I am a total bottom. With oral I would rather get than give unles I am being pegged or sharing giving head with a lady. So orally I am a top. I have been on several sites where in the ads it asks if you are a top or bottom for both oral and anal.
I have come across lots of top only, bottom only and vers. Me personally I like both.
Wow so much great insightful information - thanks so very much guys! You have helped me so much. Now I love bringing up this topic with my lady friends. Asking them if their husbands are tops or bottoms and now top or bottom orally and anally. I never processed that. My husband is currently neither with a male BUT I had him all worked up this weekend and asked him about it. We are pretty certain he will be perfectly fine being a bottom (if I am getting this correct) orally - where he is receiving oral from me and a man or a man and his wife. As for him giving head, he knows how much I desire to do this with him and he may one day do it with me but for now not happening. I did ask him, "Seriously - this husband and wife suck you off and you wouldn't return the favor with me???" When I put it that way he was more flexible. I mean, he loves cum, certainly more taps, more cum, more love, right??? Now with regards to anal, he is certainly both with regards to woman. He'll let me do practically anything to him anally and he loooooooves to do me, but has no interest what so ever in doing another guy. In the heat of the moment while I am doing him I have been able to get him to relinquish that he would love to feel a nice throbbing cock cumming in his arse. So he is clearly going to be a bottom when it comes to that. Again I posed the question, "So you are going to take, take, take, and never return the favor? He put it like this, "Honey, I'll do most anything for you and when the day comes that I give in to all your kinky little fantasies with men, why on earth would I want to do some thing I can do with you? I might be able to let you suck me off with a guy, I might even be able to let a guy cum in me anally as well as orally for you, but these are things that you and I as a couple cannot reproduce, so I get that and am okay with moving in that direction. BUT - I do mean BUTT, I love yours, an am attracted to yours, there is no way a man's butt is going to do anything for me...!" As his wife I get that, I respect that, it makes perfect sense. However, I know he would have no problem riding some other wife than me anally so why not the couple as a pair? Gotta love sex and all its intricacies.
Totally bottom here... Love to give head to a nice cock and have recently learned the pleasures of being fucked.
I have always considered myself strictly bottom...until recently. To me, being bottom is to be a bit on the submissive side...I prefer my partner to "lead the way" in a sense. Plus, I just LOVE the feeling of a cock gently slipping and gliding in and out me...feeling him pulsing deep inside me. However, I have also come to the realization that wanting to satisfy my partner as much as possible, this might mean that I would also need to be top. So, while having never done it yet, would most definitely do so if my partner wanted me to. Although, I think I would still want to remain predominantly bottom.
I think I get why some guys are top only and some are bottom only and some are versatile either because that's what turns them on most or at least because they like fucking and getting fucked too, and they like each one enough to do more than just once.
And it's not just a physical or sexual pleasure thing. There is also a non-physical component that sometimes can matter as much or even more than the physical sensations. A top is in control and he's the man who fucks his boy bitch's boy pussy. A bottom is on the other side of this mental power game.
I personally am a total bottom. For both the physical pleasure and mental vibe reasons and they're equally important factors or close to that.
If and when I'm in the mood to fuck someone in the ass I'll fuck a hot babe's hot ass. Because for me a woman's ass is hot to me sexually and very few male asses are or even could be.
I am 100% bottom, and will only "top" women
so true! Thankfully there are men that love to fuck my ass! Yeah for tops! Without them, there would be no adventuresome MM sex!
A lot of guys writing personal ads define themselves as a top or bottom or vers. As soon as I saw the term oral bottom, I started using it as I am not an anal bottom and want to make that clear. When looking for an fwb, I think it's important for a bisexual to be specific. We have a shitload of categories and we may cross into more than one. I don't want to waste time meeting a guy to see if we get along just to find out he really likes to pound an ass hard. That said, after a relationship develops, boundaries can be moved around. It's good though, to have a common starting ground.
I have been both but my buds know I prefer to bottom. I do enjoy the feeling of a rock hard cock sliding in and out. Some times I have a couple of my friends breed me. After they pop I lay there with 2 or 3 loads leaking from my ass. My bud next door knows that no matter the time of day he can cum over and fuck the hell out of me. Its not uncommon for him to show up in my garage while I'm tinkering and want a blow job or a quick fuck. I have taken many loads bent over my tool box. Yes if you are thinking I am his whore you would be correct. He might fuck me once a week but I suck and swallow him everyday. He is 6'4 220 lbs and hairy as hell. My wife really enjoys fucking his as well. He has the best of both worlds,
as long as I have a big thick cock in me I do not care if I am on my back getting it like a woman does in which I love getting it like that or if I am riding him or if I am sleeping with my back to him and he starts to slide it in me it is all good as long as we both have orgasms at same time when he blows his hot love juices in me all day or night long
At this point of my constantly-evolving sexuality, I can't imagine myself being able to sustain an erection in order to top a hairy, masculine man. A feminine transgendered person? Yeah, could probably do that... In fact, I'd love to have the opportunity to try that!
I'd also be a willing bottom for either!
For me its 100% bottom, while I love fucking woman, when I am with a guy I want to be the one that is being fucked!!!
I agree in that I want to be the one getting fucked...hard if you please...and after I want to be the one that sucks you back to life so I can enjoy your cock in my mouth, throat and while you are there shoot that load into my mouth, on my face and rub your cock through the cum and then back down my throat and repeat till you cum some more....I wanna be your cock sucking whorebetter than cable I can be available on demand.
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I am a bottom/versatile when I am with another man, orally or anally.
All bottom cock sucker here
Im like so many of you. I absolutely love women- every part of them, and love cock- in my mouth or ass or watching him fuck a girl. I was determined to learn how to 'top' , so picked a very cute butt on craigslist, and, tho he sucked me hard, I soon went limp in his ass. Sorry guys, I just dont get turned on fucking a guy.I really wish I did, cuz, theres so many more of us 'bottoms'
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