Sexual Frustrations

[goldenfinger]

What is Sexual Frustration. No, I'm not talking about one or two nights without sex, but long term, years without something you wanted but didn't get.After years of "it's ok Dear, I understand" will it in some way come back to bite you.How does it manifest itself.How do people deal with it.
I'm planning to bring it up at out next dinner party, never discussed it before, so looking for some helpers.:rolleyes:

[M. Wolfe]

I'm planning to bring it up at out next dinner party, never discussed it before, so looking for some helpers.:rolleyes:

.... Why?

[goldenfinger]

.... Why?
Why not.
Mwolfe, your too young to understand.

[bityme]

Why not.
Mwolfe, your too young to understand.

Am I too old to understand? I would have the same question, plus:

If you have never discussed the problem before, but have accepted the situation, is it fair to bring it up for the first time at a dinner party?

Will this move increase communication with a mate?

Shouldn't they be afforded an opportunity to talk about it in private first?

[Realist]

I agree with Bityme!

If you have an issue with one person, does EVERYONE else have to be involved? Wouldn't it be much better to discreetly discuss whatever is bugging you with the person with whom you have the issue?

If it's a sexual subject and it's not something that's acceptable to EVERYONE, why do they have to be subjected to it?

You didn't give much information, so I may be totally off track, here, but controversial discussions are always best done in private, with the least amount of others involved. Just my take on it.

[csrakate]

Why not.
Mwolfe, your too young to understand.

Well...I am not too young...so please explain why you have chosen to discuss this openly at a dinner party. I don't get it....

[veganbigmac]

What kind of dinner party are we talking about? If you have a girlfriend, she has the right to know how you feel first, and not at a dinner party in front of friends. Other than that, I think I need some more details before I can give some better advice.

[goldenfinger]

It was NOT meant as MY problem, but more a question as a common cold, we all get it sometime in our life.Does that make any sense. Some people can and will discuss anything after a drink or two. Why do women need so many shoes and handbags, is that a sign of sexual frustrations?:eek:
We don't discuss politics and religion here, so what is there left to discuss.:eek:

[goldenfinger]

Found this http://www.abytheliberal.com/sex-and-sexuality/sexual-frustration-driving-muslim-youths-militant-islamism
when google sexual frustrations, very disturbing, but not what I was looking for.

[csrakate]

Why do women need so many shoes and handbags, is that a sign of sexual frustrations?:eek:
We don't discuss politics and religion here, so what is there left to discuss.:eek:

We need so many shoes and handbags because accessorizing is what separates us from the animals!!! LOL!!

[darkeyes]

We need so many shoes and handbags because accessorizing is what separates us from the animals!!! LOL!!

...an clothes an lingerie an perfume an make up an stuff.. all jus so we nev havta suffer from sexual frustration a ne sort Mumsie huh?? tee hee:bigrin::tong:

[rissababynta]

...an clothes an lingerie an perfume an make up an stuff.. all jus so we nev havta suffer from sexual frustration a ne sort Mumsie huh?? tee hee:bigrin::tong:

I dont't know about sexual frustrations but I know I get all that to keep up with the image that I'm girlier than I really am.:tongue:

[darkeyes]

I dont't know about sexual frustrations but I know I get all that to keep up with the image that I'm girlier than I really am.:tongue:

*huggles n snogs girlie..*:bigrin:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Hmmm, not a topic I would expect at the dinner table for sure. Unless your having a dinner party for Very close friends or a bunch of us Swingers.
So how Do you start off this topic? "So what do Ya'll do about sexual frustration? Toys, soapy showers, KY Intense gel...what?""

Would be interesting to be a fly on the wall.
And for your information, we can discuss anything on here. We just Prefer to not broach topics of Politics and Religions. And as to why women have lots of purses and shoes...its because we Can.
Cat

[naughtyrocker]

What is Sexual Frustration. No, I'm not talking about one or two nights without sex, but long term, years without something you wanted but didn't get.After years of "it's ok Dear, I understand" will it in some way come back to bite you.How does it manifest itself.How do people deal with it.
I'm planning to bring it up at out next dinner party, never discussed it before, so looking for some helpers.:rolleyes:


ok honestly dude if you approach it that way you're probably having the oposite effect. that's kinda like ambushing her. talk to her one on one in private. if my wife did that to me i'd be embarassed st the dinner party and then after everyone left it would explode into a big fight. think about what you're doing before you do it.

[goldenfinger]

I was not going to discuss my problem,I don't have a problem, but just what is sexual frustrations. You hear it so often said, so and so is sexual frustrated.But it seems no one here knows, so we just move on to next subject.:(.

[Realist]

The way I read your first post was, that you were going to confront someone at the dinner table about your sexual frustrations. We may have misunderstood your intent...I know I did. Try your question again and see if you get a more reasonable response....I'm game to give it another shot.

[Raindrops+Sunshowers]

I have plenty of those sexual frustrations things... Mostly centers around being a lifelong shy person and still having no clue how to meet partners... Then wondering if I even want to deal with any of it because I often hate and mistrust people, figure I'll only find people who will judge me one way or another.

Why go through so much effort just to have one's fears of not measuring up humiliatingly confirmed?

[vittoria]

It was NOT meant as MY problem, but more a question as a common cold, we all get it sometime in our life.Does that make any sense. Some people can and will discuss anything after a drink or two. Why do women need so many shoes and handbags, is that a sign of sexual frustrations?:eek:
We don't discuss politics and religion here, so what is there left to discuss.:eek:

What the h*ll are you talking about? :confused:

Are you planning to bring up the topic of sexual frustrations at a dinner party, or are you going to tell the world "HEY SHE WONT LET ME HAVE ANY MAN/MAN ACTION AND ITS PISSING ME OFF"?

Thats what it seemed like (apparently) to most of us, please clarify :confused:

[goldenfinger]

What the h*ll are you talking about? :confused:

Are you planning to bring up the topic of sexual frustrations at a dinner party, or are you going to tell the world "HEY SHE WONT LET ME HAVE ANY MAN/MAN ACTION AND ITS PISSING ME OFF"?

Thats what it seemed like (apparently) to most of us, please clarify :confused:

Please read it again. NO where did I suggest that is was my problem we were going to discuss, but just the subject of sexual frustration in general. If you read the link I provided, you will see one side of what sexual frustrations can have. But that is the extreme side of it.
But in a day to day situation, those small stupid things we do, like buying too many shoes or power tools we don't really need, are they a sign of sexual frustration.Freud, where are you when I need you:bigrin:

[darkeyes]

Buying stuff we do not need is not a sign of sexual frustration.



.. nope.. but is a simple girl's necessity...:bigrin:

[goldenfinger]

.. nope.. but is a simple girl's necessity...:bigrin:
That is what you think haha:bigrin:

[darkeyes]

That is what you think haha:bigrin:

.. take it from me..me knos...:bigrin:

[goldenfinger]

Buying stuff we do not need is not a sign of sexual frustration.

Why would you bring up this topic at a dinner party anyway? You might as well bring it up and see what happens when your wife becomes angry at you and stops having sex with you.

Buying things we don't need, could be a sign, not saying it is. but the question was,,,,WHAT IS SEXUAL FRUSTRATION, AND HOW DOES IT SHOW UP,,, seems to hard for some to understand. If I discussed it with mates down the pub, would that be any better:eek:The more beer, the better the answers.In my favour of cause.But again I stress, I'm not talking about my or our problem.Try to discuss money, and she rip my bloody head of.:bigrin::bigrin: