sexless marriage

[sissyjackie]

How many married guys here are in a sexless marriage? I haven't had sex with my wife for the last 11 years.

[Neonaught]

I'm not in a sexless marriage but all my male playmates are. Their wives loss is my gain!

[Sammyz]

Going on three years now.

[marine20]

well jackie , i'm just like you . this is eleven years for me too. my wife has some medical issues that prevents her from fully enjoying sex. i sometimes get lucky with other women and men. of course it is a lot easier getting sex from men. so i have been sucking a lot of cock over the years. i love sucking cock , but i wish i could get more pussy. i like to be well rounded.

[DD788Snipe]

:( I am, and it's been 15 years for me
How many married guys here are in a sexless marriage?
I haven't had sex with my wife for the last 11 years.

[Lucky 61]

I'm at over 16 years now.

[rem59]

18 for me

[bikurinpa]

I often wonder what percentage of men who are in a sexless marriage do seek sex with another man and are more open to wanting it. I wish I knew how to find one who is!

[Johnyonenut]

Over 15 years without any type of sensual contact. Did have one short fling with another woman. For me, at least, the bisexual urge has always been there but has come more to the front without any female connection. But probably at 78 it will continue to be just a fantasy.

[Footstep40]

Ooooof… my ex wife shut down the shop for about 2 years, it was about 6 months in that we had a conversation about opening up our marriage. She experienced the “change” early on, so it was a gradual transition. I started seeing guys, and that didn’t bother her at all. We’re actually better friends now than we were. I think both of us were square pegs, trying to fit into society’s round holes. She told me years later, that had I started seeing women, she would have been jealous and spiteful. In the beginning, she would like hearing about the details of my escapades, but that waned, and it was more like office mates. It all worked out the way it was intended to, it made it easier for her to take the promotion in Paris, where she met a wonderful woman who she married, and I remarried to a wonderful older man, thankfully, there is no drought in our marriage, more of a monsoon.

[Curiouz1]

I often wonder what percentage of men who are in a sexless marriage do seek sex with another man and are more open to wanting it. I wish I knew how to find one who is!
I wish I knew how to find one too

[NEWTOOTHIS]

I definitely think my wife's loss of interest in sex is what has me thinking about my teenage years with my buddy and how much I enjoyed it then and wondering what it would be like now !

[centillini]

Yep there too, 13 years. My wife older and after a procedure lost interest. When was younger played with a bi couple, so when she lost interest, found a good guy willing.

[csreef]

How many married guys here are in a sexless marriage? I haven't had sex with my wife for the last 11 years.

And some people wonder why men become Bisexual.

[SAW1969]

It's been around 5 years for me, I've been sleeping on the couch down stairs for the last 4 years. I've been considering myself as gay the last few years now. I would definitely date a guy exclusively if I was single.

[skuz69]

It's been more than 16 years for me. Though I really love pussy, it's just easier to find other men in the same sexless marriage position that I'm in. I have found that I like to suck and love cum.

[Neonaught]

The women who quit sex due to medical issues I can understand but those who quit just because hey want to are a mystery to me. One friend told me his wife said "We've had our kids so what's the point of continuing to have sex?". Really? Some do this at shockingly young ages too. Most of my male sex partners are in this same situation. Hard to get my head around that.

[chongster]

The women who quit sex due to medical issues I can understand but those who quit just because hey want to are a mystery to me. One friend told me his wife said "We've had our kids so what's the point of continuing to have sex?". Really? Some do this at shockingly young ages too. Most of my male sex partners are in this same situation. Hard to get my head around that.
Some of that may be the guys fault, if he doesn't make sure she enjoys it as well. My wife and I still have sex in our 60s, not near as often as we used to but when we do I always make sure she has an orgasm. She still enjoys a good cum.

[Joystick1957]

I am new here and in the same situation. I am trying to figure out what to do with my sex drive, wich is strong at 58. Th replies are helping.

[bikurinpa]

It's been more than 16 years for me. Though I really love pussy, it's just easier to find other men in the same sexless marriage position that I'm in. I have found that I like to suck and love cum.
I wished it was easy to find men!!!!!

[Jondent11]

Be careful looking. I was chatting with a guy who ended up just trying to blackmail money out of me or share the info I shared. I just came out to my wife so it wouldn't work.

[Joystick1957]

Which brings up the question, how do you go about finking someone you can trust to be discrete?

[DLazguy]

I'm not in a sexless marriage, but we do have less sex. I look outside of my marriage for a few reasons.

1. I enjoy giving and receiving pleasure.
2. Sneaking around and cheating are a rush.
3. I enjoy the taboo of two guys pleasuring each other.

There are more reasons, but I'll just leave 3.

[CuriousSnapper]

I probably have you all beat. Its been over 25 years. It is what it is, there's no changing it.

[DMercator]

Going on 14 years since my wife and I last had sex. I was upfront with her that I had no intention of being celibate, but have always kept my playtimes discrete. Not quite "a don't ask, don't tell" situation, but close. I stay because, sex aside, I'm happy in my married life. It's a damn good life. And, while sex is brought me all kinds of pleasure through the years, it's rarely brought me happiness.

[Neglected1969]

While not totally sexless, it has been 5+ years since she has been into it. I get an unenthusiastic handjob about every other month.

[DD788Snipe]

I often wonder what percentage of men who are in a sexless marriage do seek sex with another man and are more open to wanting it. I wish I knew how to find one who is!

I've been looking for15 years. They're hard to find.

[IamWhoIamBiSex]

3 years now, I have been living a pussyfree life. I have too much anxiety when it comes to my wife or any women. But get rock hard for men. My wife is no longer disappointed by me and I no longer feel bad about trying and failing to please her. She gets her sex from our friend and her high school sweetheart and I sometimes get to play with him also.

[remington12369]

I definitely think my wife's loss of interest in sex is what has me thinking about my teenage years with my buddy and how much I enjoyed it then and wondering what it would be like now ! I was the same. As sex with the wife dwindled my teenage memories came flooding back. Now it's been about 4 years since we’ve had any sex. I found a guy who became my best friend and fuck buddy.