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sissyjackie
Jun 4, 2026, 7:18 AM
How many married guys here are in a sexless marriage? I haven't had sex with my wife for the last 11 years.

Neonaught
Jun 4, 2026, 9:00 AM
I'm not in a sexless marriage but all my male playmates are. Their wives loss is my gain!

Sammyz
Jun 4, 2026, 1:56 PM
Going on three years now.

marine20
Jun 4, 2026, 3:43 PM
well jackie , i'm just like you . this is eleven years for me too. my wife has some medical issues that prevents her from fully enjoying sex. i sometimes get lucky with other women and men. of course it is a lot easier getting sex from men. so i have been sucking a lot of cock over the years. i love sucking cock , but i wish i could get more pussy. i like to be well rounded.

DD788Snipe
Jun 4, 2026, 4:23 PM
:( I am, and it's been 15 years for me
How many married guys here are in a sexless marriage?
I haven't had sex with my wife for the last 11 years.

Lucky 61
Jun 4, 2026, 7:53 PM
I'm at over 16 years now.

rem59
Jun 6, 2026, 1:29 AM
18 for me

bikurinpa
Jun 6, 2026, 3:42 AM
I often wonder what percentage of men who are in a sexless marriage do seek sex with another man and are more open to wanting it. I wish I knew how to find one who is!

Johnyonenut
Jun 6, 2026, 6:06 AM
Over 15 years without any type of sensual contact. Did have one short fling with another woman. For me, at least, the bisexual urge has always been there but has come more to the front without any female connection. But probably at 78 it will continue to be just a fantasy.

Footstep40
Jun 6, 2026, 6:53 PM
Ooooof… my ex wife shut down the shop for about 2 years, it was about 6 months in that we had a conversation about opening up our marriage. She experienced the “change” early on, so it was a gradual transition. I started seeing guys, and that didn’t bother her at all. We’re actually better friends now than we were. I think both of us were square pegs, trying to fit into society’s round holes. She told me years later, that had I started seeing women, she would have been jealous and spiteful. In the beginning, she would like hearing about the details of my escapades, but that waned, and it was more like office mates. It all worked out the way it was intended to, it made it easier for her to take the promotion in Paris, where she met a wonderful woman who she married, and I remarried to a wonderful older man, thankfully, there is no drought in our marriage, more of a monsoon.

Curiouz1
Jun 7, 2026, 8:30 AM
I often wonder what percentage of men who are in a sexless marriage do seek sex with another man and are more open to wanting it. I wish I knew how to find one who is!
I wish I knew how to find one too

NEWTOOTHIS
Jun 7, 2026, 11:51 AM
I definitely think my wife's loss of interest in sex is what has me thinking about my teenage years with my buddy and how much I enjoyed it then and wondering what it would be like now !

centillini
Jun 8, 2026, 9:30 AM
Yep there too, 13 years. My wife older and after a procedure lost interest. When was younger played with a bi couple, so when she lost interest, found a good guy willing.