Hey folks, I’m new to this site. Glad to see so many people here. I just thought I’d comment on being both a married man and bisexual. I’ve seen a number of posts already about guys who seemed worried or are/were in trouble with their spouse for their bisexuality. I understand the whole “I’m going to be open” thing. I did that long before I was ever married. So outing myself as bisexual is old news. Its not something that I feel I need to shout from the mountaintop so to speak. And its not something that I feel my wife needs to know about. She’s never asked and I’ve never said. Some might say its that way out of fear, but I’d be quick to ask – why get married if you plan to be with more that that one partner? You can be both bisexual and married. Heteros do it all the time, and gays have been fighting the long fight to have legal marriage. There’s nothing wrong with being bisexual and being married. From the bisexual perspective, you are choosing the one person you want to be with. As a good person would do when getting married – you remain true and monogamous with that one person. I love my wife and I’ve never cheated on her, nor will I. That doesn’t have anything to do with my bisexuality. And because I am married to a woman doesn’t mean that I am straight. There’s nothing wrong with being bi and married. Be bi, but also be true to your spouse.
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