Hey folks, Iím new to this site. Glad to see so many people here. I just thought Iíd comment on being both a married man and bisexual. Iíve seen a number of posts already about guys who seemed worried or are/were in trouble with their spouse for their bisexuality. I understand the whole ďIím going to be openĒ thing. I did that long before I was ever married. So outing myself as bisexual is old news. Its not something that I feel I need to shout from the mountaintop so to speak. And its not something that I feel my wife needs to know about. Sheís never asked and Iíve never said. Some might say its that way out of fear, but Iíd be quick to ask Ė why get married if you plan to be with more that that one partner? You can be both bisexual and married. Heteros do it all the time, and gays have been fighting the long fight to have legal marriage. Thereís nothing wrong with being bisexual and being married. From the bisexual perspective, you are choosing the one person you want to be with. As a good person would do when getting married Ė you remain true and monogamous with that one person. I love my wife and Iíve never cheated on her, nor will I. That doesnít have anything to do with my bisexuality. And because I am married to a woman doesnít mean that I am straight. Thereís nothing wrong with being bi and married. Be bi, but also be true to your spouse.