Well, we have been meeting up with a couple to swing with. We have met about 4 times, and the first three times were great and everyone seemed to click. The second time we met we found out the husband is an atheist, which we didn't see as a problem, because he seemed to be respect that we believed differently than him.
Well that all changed the last time we met. We were all socializing and having a good time playing a board game when theism came up. We talked some about why we believe that there is some sort of higher power out there. We did no personal attacks against atheists. He started flipping out then and yelling at us, telling us that Catholicism (we are Catholics) is stupid, people are stupid to believe in a God, and that since we are Catholics, that means we approved of the scandal that happened in the Church several years back, and even said that people who have been sexually assaulted would have been better off if they were just murdered. Needless to say we felt disrespected in our own home and offended at so many of the things he said. I have been raped in the past so that last part really offended me.
Now, after that things cooled down and we finished our board game. After the game was done, they wanted to move things along to the bedroom. We were really not interested in that and said that we were tired and wanted to go to bed. They left. The next day the wife texts me asking if we didn't want to get frisky because we weren't attracted to her anymore. I said no and left it at that.
Well, we want to cut things off, but we don't want to get in another fight or make the wife feel that we don't like her. Any suggestions on how to go about this?
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