wow, you guys and gals are full of advice
Let me clarify a few things, I have taken my husband with a strap on many, many times, he loves it, I love it.
When I say "I don't mind it, most times" I refer to my selfish side, in which I want all the attention and to to be made love to endlessly. I am a selfish woman.
I have told my husband all my reservations concerning myself with him and another man, and he understands perfectly, and bless his heart, thinks I am beautiful and that any man would think so.
He also knows about my preference to have a woman with 'us' instead of a man.
I also think that if and when my husband is with a man, he would be more concerned with my reactions and it would reduce his pleasure in the situation. I am very content with hearing all about it afterward, or even being in the room, directing (that would be a great idea, if comfort level allowed)
I talk pretty big here but to be totally honest, I have never been with anyone but my husband, been with him since I was 15 and though the fantasy of another woman appeals to me, with or without my husband, another man touching me DOES NOT appeal. We are now talking about all of this because opportunities for us are coming up. We are going to be empty nesters soon.
with our house to ourselves and finally an opportunity to have privacy without worrying about kiddos hearing, seeing, something they should not.
I do appreciate all your thoughts. Thanks
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