Today, I received a a message through my website from another married, bi guy. He suggested that I should be more specific in my definition of myself as a bisexual. At first, I wasn't sure what he meant by that.
His implication was that I needed to grade my sexual orientation -- something like 60% homo and 40% hetero. Is that fine a line absolutely necessary? I mean, really, these things fluctuate from year to year, from moment to moment. Sometimes I long for cock. Sometimes, I'm hot for pussy. Is there something wrong with having it all average out at 50/50? My theory is that we are all born bi (with certain native tendencies), but that culture and our environment condition us to pick one or the other.
Why is it that everyone (even other bisexuals) needs to categorize everything in neatly definable packages?