Hi, wanted to get peoples views on what it was like the first time you tasted a guys cum and is it better to swallow or spit?
Hi, wanted to get peoples views on what it was like the first time you tasted a guys cum and is it better to swallow or spit?
I guess I'll go first. The first taste of cum was my own, out of curiosity. It certainly wasn't a fine single malt scotch but it didn't make me gag either. I remember as a kid when I would masturbate, I would sometimes catch it in my palm and drink it. "Tastes minty", I thought. I can't remember exactly when I swallowed another guy for the first time but I'd be willing to bet I didn't swallow whoever the first guy was that came in my mouth. That being said, I can't remember ever NOT swallowing and that wasn't a wise decision. Once the reality of possibly dieing from it sunk in I gave up random sex and only got intimate with guys I knew well. It made for far fewer sex partners but I'm still here. It almost seems like an insult to spit and if I can't swallow I'd almost rather not do it at all. Feeling a cock explode in your mouth and shoot down your throat is the culmination of what it's all about.
It was so long ago I don't remember my first swallow. I agree with Curious ... much better to know your partner well. If you don't know him that well, use a condom.
Dirty old men need love too.
Best to know who you are blowing. If you don't, don't swallow. No sense getting a gift you cannot get rid of just because of an orgasm.
Find a steady partner. Someone you can trust.
Can barely remeber the first time, as a young teenager fooling around with my best friend I didn't swallow the very first time, but tasted him as he exploded out of my mouth and spashed all over my face. But I was very soon consuming his load everytime I had the chance.
For Me to have my partner exploding in my mouth, to feel him cushing down my throat to taste him is one of the most gratifying experiences I have ever had, and could not imagine giving that up. But then again it's also very hot if he pulls out and splashes all over you, particularly when my wife is watching that drives her wild!
I agree with what everone else has said, we are careful, and as safe as we can be, knowing the status of our partner(s) and finding regular partners.
But OMG I love it when he comes in my mouth....
Folks, no offence here, but please listen up!
When I got together with my ex, who was HIV+, I asked the Doctor what the most important thing was, that I could do to make sure I stayed HIV- and she told me about oral sex. She explained how viruses die quickly when exposed to air, but that when a guy explodes in your mouth, it's in a lovely environment to keep any viruses alive long enough to infect that mouth, and that this would happen through the gums.
In other words, if you have gums which are even slightly unhealthy, you risk infection by making that cum pass over them in order to spit it out - whereas if a guy explodes at the back of your mouth and you swallow it, the viruses will quickly perish in your stomach acids.
I'm not a specialist so I can't give guaranteed advice, I can only say that it makes far more sense to me to swallow rather than to spit - but for all I know, if you've inflammation caused by tonsilitis or bronchitis then it's less safe (although would anyone with such conditions really want to risk friction burns as well? lol)
Anyway, apologies for sounding like a downer-type - I'm not, honestly, so on to the original spirit of the question! My first time...
Remember it vividly. "Oh no," I thought, "I've done it wrong and I've made him bleed..." I didn't want to spoil the furnishings and I thought it was just a bit of blood so I swallowed without thinking, preparing myself to rush for the first aid kit... only to find that there wasn't a mark on his member, no sign of any blood and he was unable to speak particularly coherently, whilst being very short of breath. Ah, the gift of youth- has my ability faded or am I just less able or exciting?
the first time I had a guy shoot in my mouth I was still learning the ropes (no pun intended) I was 14 and so was he, so naturally I spit, the next time we did it I swallowed a small amount and loved the way it felt and tasted, bi the next time we got together we were swallowing everything each had to offer, and I've been swallowing ever since, to each his or her own, but the spitters are missing out!!
Being Bisexual means that I can stick my hand down anybodys pants and be happy with whatever I find
Its different from person to person, Darlin. Body Physiologies vary in different people and the cum tastes different in everyone. This can be due to medications, diet, smoking, or doing other drugs, certain types of foods and lifestyles. For instance: a man that takes care of himself and who eats right, and drinks/eats alot of healthy fruits and veggies will have that "minty" tang to the cum. The ones that drink alot of citrus and pineapple juice will be sweet and pleasent.
Those that smoke have an bittery/cloying taste, and those that do weed tastes like you've mixed lemon juice and egg whites together and swallowed it.
Men on heart/high blood pressure meds can make you turn green, too. Its all about the individual and its a crap shoot every time. (No pun intended) lol
Your best bet is if you can get past the taste/texture/feel of a condom with a partner you dont know Well, then this is your best alternitive.
Have fun Sweet Baby, but be Safe at all costs.
I'm tryin' my best to leave a loving foot print on the hearts of the folks who's lives I touch..longly, or briefly..:}
Women and cats will do as they please, so men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.
Robert A. Heinlein
The first time? Goodness a long time ago.
It was from my husband to be and it just sort of happened. All of a sudden my mouth was full of goo - and it seemed to keep coming (pun not intended)
I can still remember my initial feelings - "Yurk - You bastard!" I also remember thinking "what do i do now?"
He was looking at me with that strange post-orgasm face men get, which I later learned means "look at the favour I've just bestowed upon you."
I discretely emptied my mouth into my t-shirt and raced and got a glass of water, thinking and hoping that it had been a bad moment and that surely cum didn't taste that bad all the time?
It does, but I've learned what a bonding practice it is. I also learned to swallow without noticeably gagging. Men love that!
Give me a woman's taste treat any day
the first time was my own, when someone blew me and then kissed me immediately after. I was not particularly fond of this, but politely, if somewhat less enthusiastically, finished off the session and never saw them again. I have tried to try my own, fresh from myself since, and found I'm too salty for my palette (but many others seem to like it).
As for tasting someone else's, I think I did once way back whence, but that was only pre cum and I gagged immediately. Come to think of it I think he was a smoker.
The first proper time was with a guy I really fell head over heels for big time, and it was well nice, a sort of unexpected dry-roasted flavour (for want of a better description, but I still think that one's fun at least). I was so pleased with myself and with the fact that I'd found someone who tasted nice, that I made as regular a habit as I could of swallowing him whenever we performed oral sex over other activities.
I've only ever swallowed one other person since, and that's my current boyfriend's. His is a rather mild taste.
I have found it's something you have to kinda psych yourself up for, and I do find (perhaps it's just me) that it only tastes right at the immediate point of ejaculation. Even a second in open air and it just ain't the same for me. It's a climax spur of the moment thing for me. It is also something I've lately been wanting to do more of; finding nice guys with nice "personally" agreeable tasting cums to swallow.
Again, find someone you know well and trust to be safe. And what they eat/drink/otherwise-consume does effect the 'flavour'. That, and genetics is bound to have an effect in it also.
Last edited by Bi_Druid; Jan 6, 2009 at 6:59 PM.
It's not just black and white, but many beautiful shades of gray
i was lucky i guess but my first time i swallowed the whole load and loved it
Yet to have a guy actually shoot down me throat (limited male exp), but I can offer this ...
I love the taste of cum, I simply need to get used to the texture. Thick and sticky tends to freak out one's gag reflex.
On that note, I hear cloraseptic or cepacol helps dull/eliminate gag reflex. Any corroboration?
Like many other guys I tasted my own first. Not a great taste, but I've had partners who've willingly swallowed and come back for more.
To this day I LOVE the taste of my own precum! That clear fluid is like nectar. I'll sometimes eat my own load, when I'm feeling especially naughty.
I think it is one of those things that would be better from the source. The feel of a guy exploding in your mouth seems like it would make the taste MUCH better!
Forgot to answer the question. First cum I tasted was my own..soso...then my recent boy exploits.....mmmmmm......lost my train of thought...anyhow, his tasted rather good, in my humble opinion
Like most of the others I tasted my own first. Curiosity is usually the stimulant for me to try something new. I would JO and cum in my hand, eventuly i had to put my tongue in it, not bad. Later I lapped up the whole load. I learned about "Gay Baths" and visited them frequently. Usually got sucked and fucked but curiosity got the better of me and I tried sucking a cock, not bad either. The next step, let him cum in my mouth, again not bad. I dont recall the first time I swallowed but one session stands out in my mind. He came over to my place we sucked each other etc. I was sucking him when he said those magic words "I'm Cummin". I plunged down on his cock and it entered my throat, I could feel his cock pulse as he unloaded and shot his load directly down my throat. Thats the way I usualy do it now, unless we want a variation. Sometimes I hold it in my mouth til he's thru, show him my mouthful, then swallow. I don't recall cum having a flavor, just texture. It has a texture like nothing I can think of. If I found anything that feels like cum that's all I would want to eat. By using a dildoe I found I can take 8" down my throat.
went to abs in san antonio looking to fuck a man in abs
as i was teasing him by taking him in mouth he grabbed my ears(rather large ears lol) and held on as he unloaded in my mouth went on to suck three more that aftenoon
From the age of 13, until I was almost 22, I could self-fellate. (sp?) Being tall and thin, I was also remarkably flexible. Although, I was never exceptionally endowed, I could sit on the edge of my bed, bend over and take about half of my erection in my mouth. The first time I created an orgasm that way, I nearly passed out from excitement and probably the lack of circulation, as well! I quickly learned that things I ate affected the taste of my ejaculate. As someone else mentioned, sweet oranges and pineapple really made a difference. Onions (which I hate) asparagus, coffee, garlic smoking, and some others make ejaculate taste awful.
Long time ago . My cousin and I stared messing around at 12 or 13 . Actually had anal sex long before oral . What can I say , we didn't know what we were doing and didn't have anyone to teach us . Had to learn on the job , so to speak . The first time tasting his cum was "accidental" . He was supposed to let me know he was going to cum so I could pull away . Whoops ! Well , I decided it didn't taste that bad and have been swallowing ever since .
Ok so i am Obviously missing out...one of my many desires when I find the right couple/person
I'll let you all know when it happens
Well being fairly new to the bi scene I have only tasted my own cum, really liked it and in the right situation I would not be opposed to trying someone else's cum.
The first time i remember tasting a mans cum was when i was pretty young and like many it was an accident of him cumming when he wasnt gonna in my mouth.
I remember thinking it was gross but not hating the taste either.It happened a few times bfor i really even knew.i remember spitting some of it out and keeping some of it, not sure really what to do with it.The guy i was wsith didnt talk about it so it was confusing to me what was going on.
A few years later i was with a guy and we talked about it bfor i sucked him and
i spit at first.but i sucked him so much i kinda got used to it more and more and by the time we broke our thing off i was swallowing every drop and have ever since.
I will not swallow a guy i dont know fairly well though cuz its dangerous.
The first time was mine because I was curious how it tasted.
I did not like it because it was my own. I am not sexually excited by eating my own cum.. Rather it is a turn-off for me.
I was 58 when I first tasted cum from another man.
I like it very much. If all goes well, I will only know how it tastes from one man. Maybe that is excessively optimistic thinking by me.
My first time was as a young teenager (15) with my best friend. We started out J/O together, then mutual handjobs, and ultimately blowjobs. At first we would do it in the 69 position and we were supposed to warn the other before coming and finish off by hand, but on one occasion, I felt his cock get even harder and begin to pulsate as he spurted what seemed like a continuous stream of warm and pungent semen into my mouth. With his cock filling my mouth, I had no choice but to swallow. He apologized afterward saying that he got "carried away" and couldn't stop. I pretended to be annoyed, but in reality I found that I liked the taste and texture and even more, I liked the idea of having him use my mouth as a cum receptacle. He must have suspected as much because over the next few sessions, he began to get "carried away" more frequently until I confessed to liking it after which he would always cum in my mouth and I would always swallow. I was able to hold off from coming longer than he could and when he would climax, I was still excited and wanted his sperm, but after he came he would lose interest in sucking my cock so he would jerk me off afterward.To him, sucking my cock was a means to getting a blowjob, but I found that as much as I liked getting a blow job, I liked to suck his cock even more and as a result, I became the better cocksucker. Frequently, I would suck him off without getting blown in return. Even though he had a pretty big cock, I was able to deep throat him completely and I liked it when he would come down my throat as he held my head tightly in his hands. We continued doing it usually daily (sometimes more) for about two years until we both found girlfriends.
I've had limited experience with swallowing, probably only about four times, mainly because I'm very particular and want to be selective. The first time a guy came in my mouth it was incredibly erotic and I immediately swallowed it. He was married and I was confident he was clean.
I've been told by several people and have read articles that support the statement that there have been no confirmed cases of HIV contraction from oral sex. This goes back to the issue of exposure to oxygen, stomach acids, etc. I would however suggest not brushing your teeth before or for several hours after oral sex. Using a good strong mouthwash is advisable and I always use one immediately following. I agree that it is probably better to swallow than spit it out in terms of saturation of the mouth area with the cum.
You should assume that anytime you swallow there is some potential risk and use good judgment. If you don't know the person well, you probably shouldn't be sucking his dick anyway, right. This authors opinion.
Relevant article from May 2004. Please read.
Oral Sex and the Risk of HIV Transmission
At A Glance
Unprotected oral sex has been associated with HIV infection in some studies.
Poor oral health and the presence of other STIs may increase the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex.
The actual risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is difficult to assess since research subjects may underreport sexual activities that are of higher risk.
Oral sex, particularly unprotected receptive fellatio with ejaculation, should be considered as a potential risk behaviour for HIV transmission.
The risk of HIV transmission through unprotected anal and vaginal intercourse is well known. Estimates of the probability of per-sex-act (receptive penile-anal intercourse with ejaculation) HIV transmission among homosexual men in the USA range from 0.005 to 0.03 during the asymptomatic phase of infection1 to as high as 0.1-0.3 during primary HIV infection.2 Analyses of data from North American and European studies of long-term heterosexual couples estimate the per-sex-act probability of HIV transmission through penile-vaginal intercourse to be approximately 0.001.3 However, the independent risk of HIV transmission through orogenital contact has been more difficult to study and is not as well understood.
One study calculated the per-sex-act probability of HIV transmission in a cohort of men who have sex with men (MSM) and determined that for unprotected receptive anal intercourse, the probability was 0.82% per act, for unprotected insertive anal intercourse 0.06%, and for unprotected receptive oral intercourse with ejaculation 0.04%.4 This remains the only study available that provides a probability for oral transmission, and further study is required to corroborate these estimates.
Another study attempted to calculate the population-attributable risk percentage (PAR%) for HIV prevalence associated with fellatio. PAR% refers to the incidence of a disease (in this case, HIV) in a population that can be attributed to a certain risk behaviour (in this case, fellatio). The study focused on MSM and found that the PAR% was 0.18% for MSM who had had one partner in the previous six months, 0.25% for two partners, and 0.31% for three partners.5
This report updates current information on oral sex and the risk of HIV transmission. Current recommendations on the use of condoms for oral intercourse are also reviewed.
HIV and Oral Sex
Is Oral Sex a Safe Alternative?
By Mark Cichocki, R.N., About.com
Updated: June 19, 2007
Is there a connection between HIV and oral sex? There is a commonly held belief among many lay people that oral sex carries little or no risk. In fact, some consider oral sex a safer sex alternative. But the truth is, like any other sexual activity, oral sex carries a risk of transmitting HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. The risk is even greater in serodiscordant couples (one partner is HIV positive while the other is negative), people who are not monogamous, or in people who inject drugs and/or share needles and syringes. Truth be told, abstaining from oral, anal, and vaginal sex all together is the only way to completely avoid the sexual transmission of HIV. But how realistic is that?
What are the Risks of Oral Sex?
Risk is classified as either being documented (transmission that has actually occurred, been investigated, and documented in the scientific literature) or theoretical (passing an infection from one person to another is possible). While there is documented risk when having oral sex with an HIV infected partner the risk is much less than with anal or vaginal intercourse. This fact makes it very hard to calculate the actual risk with oral sex. Another factor that makes risk determination difficult is the fact that most people who engage in oral sex also engage in other types of sexual practices, namely vaginal and anal intercourse. Still, there have been document cases of HIV transmission strictly from oral sex.
I had a few oral experiences and would not allow cum. Read a book about our former Pres Mr. Clinton claiming oral was the safest sex around. Most std's are killed while comming in contact with air.
I decided to try. First time was about a year ago. After having a great time giving my best oral, I was warned by my partner concerning volume. I'd never thought any one human could have that much in him. It not only filled my mouth it came out the sides. I was proud and wanted to show before I swallowed. It definetely was a wonderful experience.
My GF asked me if I ever swallowed. Now she wants to watch me do it. It really gives me pleasure knowing I pleased someone else. No better was to tell than a warm mouthful
Been a long time since I tasted another guys cum but i did like it and swallowed it down when he came in my mouth. I do taste my own cum from time to time and have no problem going down on my girl after Intercourse. I do think it really doesn't taste all that bad, um um cum !.
Like many, I tasted my own first. IT was rather bitter, but not too bad. At the time I drank a LOT of tea and fruit never touched my lips. Lately, I don't drink much tea, and drink a lot of water and fruit juice. My cum now is no longer bitter and tastes fine.
I've only had the opportunity to give a BJ 2 times. The first was part of foreplay in a 4-some. The 2nd time (months later) the guy came in my mouth. It gagged me a little, but I think that was mostly because the sensation of him cumming in my mouth was different then I expected. Because of the gagging feeling, I spit. HOWEVER, I honestly thing that now that I know what it feels like for a guy to cum in my mouth, I'd be able to swallow (which is what I want to do.)
IMHO, if you swallow, it is more pleasurable for your partner. But you have to do what you are comfortable with.
Of course, like many others have said, you need to be sure your partner is disease free to have unprotected sex.
"If you are bi, you double your chances for getting a date"
One of my favorite non-bi sites: