(First of all - HELLO!)
You've read this story a hundred times already...
I'm a "straight" guy who has always had sexual thoughts towards men, but never really acted on those impulses due to social pressures. It started mainly in my early teens, me and a friend would fool around - we both now pretend those experiences never even happened.
I've had many girlfriends over the years, and I am definitely sexually attracted to women - and still have female fantasies. As I've gotten older I feel like I'm embracing these bisexual feelings more positively and recently (drunkenly) opened up to a gay friend that I am - or at least think I am - bisexual. It was a great feeling to say the words out loud to someone. (He actually recently contacted me on Facebook to hang out more).
I think my view on sexuality is that I've never really felt the need to put a label on what I'm interested in. There's so much stigma and taboo still surrounding the LGBT community, that I personally have never understood.
I mean - I get it - but my ethos is mainly "who are you to tell me what to do?"
Now I'm approaching 30, I feel like it's time to be fully true to myself and explore these feelings more, even if it means shocking a few people.
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