In order not to hijack another thread, I am starting this one!
The idea was brought up there that girls who peg guys are basically looking at them as a pussy. And from one POV I can see where they might think this. I have had several people in chats ask me if I enjoy him being submissive to me when I do this, even going so far as to ask if I like making him the girl.
At the same time, I really don't think that is what I am doing. My partner is way not submissive, in any sense of the word. As an extremely bi female, (meaning I actually prefer sex with a woman, but enjoy cock too much to ever give it up) I have never used anything other than my own body parts and an occasional vibrating egg on another woman. I have no desire to use my strap-on with a woman. To me, a woman's body is for soft touch and taste.
When I have him either on his knees or his back, its all about his pleasure. Not that I don't enjoy it immensely. I do, I always enjoy giving him pleasure, however I do it.
So my question is twofold. What about the guys we are pegging? Do you see it as feminizing? Is it a submissive power play for you?
Also, for any bi females who have used a strap-on on both guys and girls - in that particular situation, do you feel more dominant towards one or the other?
Thanks for the input!