I have always been attracted to a specific type of man. And, I've found, a very hard man to find. I don't care much about looks, but a self confident, masculine attitude is what turns me on. In the way of Hollywood, it would be Tommy Lee Jones, Russell Crowe Nick Nolte. Passing by a road construction site always makes me slow down. Some gay guys try to adopt the look, but it just doesn't do it for me.
I love imperfect bodies that were made by manual work and faces that have had exposure to the elements - hands thick from years of work. In fact, I get hard just watching a man's hands.
When I'm cruising personal ads, the pictures of gym built torsos or unlined, moisturized faces actually turn my off. In my younger days, I was less choosy and could get a fantasy going while I blew a guy who wasn't my type. Though there were some incredible guys too, like the retired Navy Seal with the big fat nine incher....oh, man! Now, it's what I want or nothing, so it's mostly nothing.
I was wondering if having such a specific interest is common and how much it limits others. At least it's not the worst. Imagine only being turned on by amputee dwarves?
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