What should I do?

[DLazguy]

When I play with a guy, I like to be able to see his face and for him to see mine while we're playing. I don't know why I like it. It's like, "Yes, you are getting a bj from another guy", or "Yes, you are sucking another man's dick." I know it's a guy, he has a dick, It's just another visual confirmation.

My problem is that I don't play often and I don't play with anyone local. I married (to a women), I'm VERY DL and intend on staying that way, but my craving for cock is through the roof right now. I am very picky on who I play with and could easily play with someone that meets my requirements or I could easily lower my standards/requirements, but the problem is that they are still local. I've been thinking of trying anon play with me wearing a mask. We meet up, few words, and I suck his dick. I've also been wanting to try bottoming again. I've only bottomed once and we had to be very quiet and slow because others were nearby and I didn't get to thoroughly enjoy. I've fantasized about leaving my hotel door open and inviting someone to come over and fuck me anon style, but I want video where you can clearly see that it's me sucking and getting fucked.

The question is: Should I try an anonymous hookup with a local, with me wearing a mask and see if I enjoy it? Have you or do you have anonymous sex? I'd still keep my requirements, just my face would be hidden.

I need a cock to suck and DEFINITELY want to experience having my ass thoroughly fucked.

What are your thoughts?

[bikurinpa]

I prefer to get to know someone first. I think anonymous hook ups are way too risky. Because if he knows he has something, he knows he probably won't ever see you again and won't tell you!!

[DLazguy]

I prefer to get to know someone first. I think anonymous hook ups are way too risky. Because if he knows he has something, he knows he probably won't ever see you again and won't tell you!!

That's what I fear. I prefer QUALITY over QUANTITY. My requirements aren't ridiculous, ATTRACTIVE (by normal standard societal norms), DECENT SHAPE (thin, average, or fit. I'm not into overweight or obese), NOT HAIRY (some body hair, but not a fur coat or ass), BIGGER THAN AVERAGE COCK (7" or more. I'll play with smaller, but he better look really good), WILLING TO CHAT FIRST TO SET SOMETHING UP (not looking for someone that hooks up with just anyone instantly. Yes, I know what I looking/asking for limits my choices, but I'm looking for quality. I like 7" or bigger because I want to work at fitting as big of a cock in my mouth and hopefully down my throat as possible. It's not possible to deepthroat 6". I also want bigger for when I bottom. I know I can handle an 8.5" cock (the only time I bottomed), I've also played with a 10" dildo. I also get off on knowing that I've enjoyed bigger cock than my wife ever has or will. I like the full, stretched feeling and I like feeling every inch sliding in and out of me. I won't play with just anyone, man or woman.

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[Neonaught]

You looks very fuckable to this top! I would find a guy wearing a mask when we got together to be just plain weird. As bikupina said, you'd be better off placing an ad on a hook up site stating what you want and then taking the time to get to know each other and get comfortable before meeting. Then not only do you not have to mask but you can have regular sessions if you two like each other. Otherwise you night as well be attending a glory hole in an ABS with all the STD risk that entails. Married men tend to be safer since they don't want to bring anything home to the wife.