Oral and staying safe.

[dowmass]

A few years back, at least the general impression was that sucking dick was safe or safer than regular sex.
Then word started circulating that oral sex was as unsafe as bareback sex.
So here?s the issue: There are many guys who are Interested only in getting a blowjob to completion. With some, When one asks them if they are healthy , STI/HIV free, the conversation ends there, for whatever reason.
so one would say, find a healthy, honest dependable,FWB.. Sounds good but we live in a world of instant gratification. Even if I am willing to build that relationship the guy with the hard dick doesn?t want to invest some time, because there are more cock suckers than cocks to be sucked.

It?s a tough situation- at least in the DALLAS, TX area, where I live.

[sissyjackie]

Do what I did went on PrEP and got all my hepatitis shots for protection. If you don't know what prep is look it up it's a med that prevents you getting HIV. In the late 80's I stopped sucking cocks because of HIV or AIDS. About 12 or 13 years ago they came out with PrEP. 10 years ago went on it and suck cock freely. I love sucking cock I do bottom but mostly suck. Like you said sexual instant gratification is great.

[DLazguy]

A few years back, at least the general impression was that sucking dick was safe or safer than regular sex.
Then word started circulating that oral sex was as unsafe as bareback sex.
So here?s the issue: There are many guys who are Interested only in getting a blowjob to completion. With some, When one asks them if they are healthy , STI/HIV free, the conversation ends there, for whatever reason.
so one would say, find a healthy, honest dependable,FWB.. Sounds good but we live in a world of instant gratification. Even if I am willing to build that relationship the guy with the hard dick doesn?t want to invest some time, because there are more cock suckers than cocks to be sucked.

It?s a tough situation- at least in the DALLAS, TX area, where I live.

I know what you mean. It seems like guys are willing to suck or fuck anything with a hole (mouth or ass) and a pulse. I would like to find ONE guy, that I can trust to be clean, safe, and not fuck everything out there. If I could find that, I'd let him pump his load into my mouth or ass as often and as much as he wanted.

[bikurinpa]

I know what you mean. It seems like guys are willing to suck or fuck anything with a hole (mouth or ass) and a pulse. I would like to find ONE guy, that I can trust to be clean, safe, and not fuck everything out there. If I could find that, I'd let him pump his load into my mouth or ass as often and as much as he wanted.

Have fun finding a regular who wants friendship as well! I been looking for years with NO luck!

[tongueteaser]

No guys want a scheduled and regular guy with ongoing planned or regular meets. They seem to just want it sucked once and done with you. Spur of the moment deal and will reply to your posts in the middle of the night. Yeah they know you work and have to sleep and you explain it and the idiots still email like 3AM and say Suck Me Now. I get so pissed and would never ever mess with that kind of guy,. That is an uncaring and has no life type of whoever. You would be crazy to suck their cock. If you post for ongoing you get no reply's. These guys must live some fucked up lives and weird individual's period. I am like so damn cautious that I pass up most replies as they dont make sense to me or have some off the wall nonsense reply. I gave up basically all together.

[DLazguy]

Have fun finding a regular who wants friendship as well! I been looking for years with NO luck!

I didn't say that I wanted friendship. I just want one cock that I can trust to be clean and to play with often.