My wife has agreed to help my bisexual hookups

**Grant_Norman** · Apr 13, 2024, 1:27 PM

For 23 years I was married to a woman who after 10 years stopped intimacy. I divorced her. I hated keeping secret my bi life years of no longer wanted intimacy. It helped, but didn't really cause,my pursuing cock sucking. I was able to keep it secret from her but it e as always a big hassle. Finally I started divorce and came out to her and everyone. I had a hip surgery and moved to Thailand. I met and olderThai girl (58) online and the day I arrived in Bangkok she met me. As my caregiver I wanted to be sure she understood my bisexuality. After we met, I clearly and repeatedly told her.

After about 9 months I asked her to marry me. She agreed and we had an online marriage from Utah. We have the certificate and license and we're officially married in Utah. I wanted her protected by USA law. She is total opposite my last wife. We 69 several times a day and she cums like a freight train. She doesnnt try to shame me for watching porn, but asks me to show her. When she gets real horny (almost instantly when I touch her, she rubs herself and cums super hard.

Today I once again brought up my love of sucking cock. I told her again I suckedv100's in the USA. She doesn't mind, but she doesn't want me to suck a Thai. Culturally here it is different than USA. Plenty of guy girl sex, and homosexual sex, but not a lot of bisexuality compared to USA. Haven't really met many English speakers. So I've asked her to help ask taxi drivers and doormen for referrals. Culturally she is a bit uneasy but she really understands my love of sucking and has agreed to help me hook up if she can. Certainly different from an American marriage.

Grant

**NJwood** · Apr 13, 2024, 1:35 PM

Like you, the second time around I told my wife when we were dating Al that I had been with guys. She was fascinated and asked to about my first time. She was extremely turned on by it and eventually watched me, via webcam, hook up with a guy. Once married, it slipped to the back burner but now she is very supportive of my pursuit of cock. Loves the videos and pics and wants to hear about it while we are making love. It’s like she wants to reclaim me, lol.

**Flipper60** · Apr 13, 2024, 1:44 PM

There are so many Farang in Bangkok, and many many men looking for hookups. Start with literally any place in the Silom neighborhood and you’d be hard put to not find a cock to suck. Doormen and taxi drivers won’t help you find Farang, and the wife knows this.

**Grant_Norman** · Apr 13, 2024, 7:43 PM

Originally Posted by Flipper60

There are so many Farang in Bangkok, and many many men looking for hookups. Start with literally any place in the Silom neighborhood and you’d be hard put to not find a cock to suck. Doormen and taxi drivers won’t help you find Farang, and the wife knows this.

Thanks. I was originally in Silom but didn't get out much. After 12 year no sex with my previous wife I was spending all my time watching porn and eating pussy. My wife can't get enough of it.we need to do some night life in Silom. While I still have the strong bi feelings I just can't be as motivated with pussy in my face and her sucking. Still she hasn't felt a cock for 30 years and now ED I can't insert in her. I'd like cock a guy and get him hard and havher ]suck and fuck him also with me. I can tell from t tongueing and fingering her super muscular pussy she really needs to feel a hard

Cock

Grant

**Hubie** · Apr 14, 2024, 3:22 AM

Originally Posted by Grant_Norman

Thanks. I was originally in Silom but didn't get out much. After 12 year no sex with my previous wife I was spending all my time watching porn and eating pussy. My wife can't get enough of it.we need to do some night life in Silom. While I still have the strong bi feelings I just can't be as motivated with pussy in my face and her sucking. Still she hasn't felt a cock for 30 years and now ED I can't insert in her. I'd like cock a guy and get him hard and havher ]suck and fuck him also with me. I can tell from t tongueing and fingering her super muscular pussy she really needs to feel a hard

Cock

Grant

Did you get around the Patpong bars? What about around the ladyboy bars in Nana? We do know the Jomtien "Walking Street" is aimed towards gay/bi men. Enjoy Songkran, madness on Sukhumvit last night.

**Flipper60** · Apr 14, 2024, 12:00 PM

Originally Posted by Hubie

Did you get around the Patpong bars? What about around the ladyboy bars in Nana? We do know the Jomtien "Walking Street" is aimed towards gay/bi men. Enjoy Songkran, madness on Sukhumvit last night.

Isnt Jomtien the name of the beach at Pattaya? I know that Silom is the traditionally gay neighborhood, my favorite gay spa is there. Ladyboys wouldn’t help GN out since they are Thai, and his wife is culturally averse to seeing her husband service another Thai.

**tenni** · Apr 14, 2024, 12:50 PM

Bisexual hook up.

fyi
There is no such thing as "bisexual sex It is same sex or same gender sex when two people of the same gender have sex together. The people themselves may be bisexual if they have sex with both men and women. We get what you mean though Also you may identify as bisexual without even having sex.

**Hubie** · Apr 14, 2024, 1:31 PM

Originally Posted by Flipper60

Isnt Jomtien the name of the beach at Pattaya? I know that Silom is the traditionally gay neighborhood, my favorite gay spa is there. Ladyboys wouldn’t help GN out since they are Thai, and his wife is culturally averse to seeing her husband service another Thai.

Seems I've seen westerners at Patpong gay bars, why I mentioned it, same with the ladyboy bars in Nana, and same on the Jomtien walking street. Possible options to meet people - westerners who are visiting, and may enjoy what GN offers. . Jomtien and Pattaya are 'side by side' but 2 different towns, AFAIK. There are many Russians in/around Jomtien these days.

**Grant_Norman** · Apr 14, 2024, 2:50 PM

Thanks ro all for your suggestions. The big problem is I also am currently in a wheelchair which puts off a lot of guys and makes thr bar hopping difficult. The main thing that has blown me away is my Thai wife's supportiveness of my cock sucking. My previous wife was so anti sex and this one is so much she can't get enough and even though culturally foreign to her she understands.

I have had sex with her repeatedly most every day for over a year. Great. But through the cocksucking and it all it has proven to me that even with all the wonderful sex with her I still crave the swallowing.

**Flipper60** · Apr 15, 2024, 11:35 AM

Is your concern about the wheelchair a mobility issue, or a turnoff to guys? I can see the former since BKK is so bloody pedestrian unfriendly. Shame that there is no longer Craigslist or something similar to advertise. I still think you should convince her to let you go to a gay massage parlor, where the boys are strong, sensitive and delicious.

Originally Posted by Grant_Norman

Thanks ro all for your suggestions. The big problem is I also am currently in a wheelchair which puts off a lot of guys and makes thr bar hopping difficult. The main thing that has blown me away is my Thai wife's supportiveness of my cock sucking. My previous wife was so anti sex and this one is so much she can't get enough and even though culturally foreign to her she understands.

I have had sex with her repeatedly most every day for over a year. Great. But through the cocksucking and it all it has proven to me that even with all the wonderful sex with her I still crave the swallowing.

**Grant_Norman** · Apr 15, 2024, 1:38 PM

Actually had a fiikup with a bi guy from Grindr tonight. I sucked hin in frint of my wife who sar 10 feet away in the other room. Unfortunately the guy was kind of lukewarm. Never really got crazy.

My great wife sat peacefully through it all not ever getting angry or upset. She said she didn't really like it but if it made me happy to do it. It was different for me because unlike my sex?ess previous wife she jusr relaxed and sat there.

I've never cared about sucking in front of others. I'm jusr grateful to do it in front of her without any b?owback.

Grant
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**Flipper60** · Apr 15, 2024, 7:23 PM

Outstanding! Now you just have to find a more enthustiac feede.

Originally Posted by Grant_Norman

Actually had a fiikup with a bi guy from Grindr tonight. I sucked hin in frint of my wife who sar 10 feet away in the other room. Unfortunately the guy was kind of lukewarm. Never really got crazy.

My great wife sat peacefully through it all not ever getting angry or upset. She said she didn't really like it but if it made me happy to do it. It was different for me because unlike my sex?ess previous wife she jusr relaxed and sat there.

I've never cared about sucking in front of others. I'm jusr grateful to do it in front of her without any b?owback.

Grant
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**Grant_Norman** · Apr 15, 2024, 8:37 PM

Yes I'll continue you to look and suck with her approval

**wifekinky4husband** · Apr 16, 2024, 12:59 AM

Originally Posted by Grant_Norman

Actually had a fiikup with a bi guy from Grindr tonight. I sucked hin in frint of my wife who sar 10 feet away in the other room. Unfortunately the guy was kind of lukewarm. Never really got crazy.

My great wife sat peacefully through it all not ever getting angry or upset. She said she didn't really like it but if it made me happy to do it. It was different for me because unlike my sex?ess previous wife she jusr relaxed and sat there.

I've never cared about sucking in front of others. I'm jusr grateful to do it in front of her without any b?owback.

Grant
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I cannot imagine any wife Not getting so darned horny from this. I think it is one of the hottest things ever. I'd have a very hard time only sitting there but it would be fun trying.

**Grant_Norman** · Apr 21, 2024, 5:14 PM

So I spent 3 days in Silom and hit the spots. I had gonr to topless bars in USA pand they were strictly hands strhans off. Here they were fascinated with doing things with their pussies. Even hunping my ?with doing things with their pussies even humping my leg. My w ife agreed to go with me was culturally unhappy but she hung in there. There was one LB I found on Grindr that had a e alsohuge cock but I didn't feel like deep throating and he wante $17. My wife is very against me paying Thais to suck although I wouldn't mind. We returned home for an hour of 69. Hell of a fall back.

Grant

**csreef** · Apr 21, 2024, 8:55 PM

Grant,

You are lucky to have the wife you do!

**Flipper60** · Apr 22, 2024, 11:47 AM

Not to be the Woke police, but a transitioning LB is a “she” not a “he”. Otherwise, well done!

Originally Posted by Grant_Norman

So I spent 3 days in Silom and hit the spots. I had gonr to topless bars in USA pand they were strictly hands strhans off. Here they were fascinated with doing things with their pussies. Even hunping my ?with doing things with their pussies even humping my leg. My w ife agreed to go with me was culturally unhappy but she hung in there. There was one LB I found on Grindr that had a e alsohuge cock but I didn't feel like deep throating and he wante $17. My wife is very against me paying Thais to suck although I wouldn't mind. We returned home for an hour of 69. Hell of a fall back.

Grant

**DD788Snipe** · Apr 23, 2024, 5:02 AM

Originally Posted by csreef

Grant,

You are lucky to have the wife you do!

Ditto Grant.

**Grant_Norman** · Apr 24, 2024, 6:48 PM

Yes ...even tonight her gaydar went off on a chef we met. I also had a slight feeling of attraction but she confirmed for me. Now thinking of ways to follow up and maybe hook up

Grant