Since Craigslist has shut down there are a lot of folks that are left out there with out!! My suggestion is to go old school.. use eye contact and body language.. the eyes are the easiest to figure out at first.. if you see a guy that you like and could be interested in look at him look straight into his eyes.. linger looking at him.. if he is looking back and kinda starting back at you.. there is about a 75% chance he is interested too.. try it 2-3 times to make sure.. if he looks away he is not interested.. if he is then motion to him to come over.. if he dose chances are getting better.. then talk to him.. while talking to him ask what he is looking for.. add it all up.. see where it goes..
There is a number of the online dating website. Here I would like to suggest you all go with "Naughty Dating Only" to meet local single.
Oh my goodness that is so hottt!
I think that going to club is one of suggests.
just found this site looks like old craigs list called kinyads https://kinkyads.org/signin and Doublelist http://www.doublelist.com
Question ? How do I meet people ?
Answer : I don't look. Then they come to me. Lesson learned, its good to be me !
Silkyhoselover, I too am older, 57 to be exact and after many encounters while traveling you would be amazed at the number of like minded men who feel the same way. Here’s some advice advice , when I travel to a strange area I often find a cigar bar or other avenues that older men frequent. You would be amazed at the results once you strike up a conversation with another cigar smoker. Try joining a gym to work out, early mornings at least for me seem to work best. It seems us older guys are early risers and the odds are vastly increased of finding a like minded buddy.
I tend to to stay away from younger guys as they are not as clean as older married guys. Older married men tend to be very discreet and thankful to find a like minded friend. I have 5 men that I frequent and none of them are under 55 yrs old. Road cock is the same , I seek out older men who I know will probably be safe and sane, so far so good. Good luck and happy hunting.
Before there were websites and apps, you had to get out there and meet people and in any way you could. You could go to a local gay bar but you could also start to feel like you're not welcomed there or even be ignored. I know that even today, when I go looking for a guy, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack but I'll be damned if they don't somehow manage to find me. I never bothered with CL; I'd heard too many horror stories coming out of there so when it went away, it didn't bother me one bit. The best way is to do it old-school - get out there, mingle when and where you can; talk to guys even if it's just to make a new friend - there's no telling where things might go from there.
My protege is an app/website guy and I get on him about it and tell him that as a hunter, he's gotten lazy and he's forgotten how to get off his ass and go on the prowl for the pussy and dick he says he so desperately needs on a daily basis. Some guys will just mysteriously gravitate toward you - gaydar? I dunno... but what I do know is that if you don't get out there so you can see and be seen, the guy you wanna have sex with isn't just gonna magically drop into your lap. Looking for an FWB? You gotta do some work to cultivate such an arrangement... and sitting behind a computer or cellphone screen, while a beginning, shouldn't be the only way you go on the hunt to capture your "prey" or to advertise that you're willing to be another hunter's prey.
I was never into picking up girls at a bar. I did it but never really was my thing. I found joining things (gyms) or groups (hiking, biking) is the best way to meet. BUT how to bring up bisexuality!!! I found the old site shybiguys was great. I actually have a few guys as friends not sex mates on there. Also I found silverdaddies to be a good place to meet. I have a friend from that site, again non-sexual. I could have had sex with any of these guys but I choose not to.
Silverdaddies has a decent chat room and one can easily exchange emails. I found this is a good way to weed out the undesirables. Everyone has their own undesirable threshold. When exchanging emails guys can really get a decent feel for each other, some want quick meets others prefer FWB. To each their own.
This is the question I been asking but every one replies with ideas about meeting "out" gay men at bars who are obviously gay and who are out as a sore thumb! No one has a answer to how to find out guys who you may be around every day or a good way to introduce a conversation to find out without being outed.
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Okay, I have a question. I have avoided the CL thing. My friendships were with a friend and his wife who liked to play, tried cruising once, ended ip in a jerk off session in a park. And an accidental encounter with a customer, who, it didnt go far because he was too damn big (yeah, there)
Hopefully bringing this up wont offend. If you look at my pictures, obviously, I like something a little different (and thank you to the nice people who have been encouraging, I hve never shard pictures before). But, the question, what about safety ?
No, I dont mean disease, everyone figures out there level of protection, but, the safety of meeting random guys. For me, and the way I prefer to dress, there is an added issue in this. There are people who would like to do me harm, and there are the A-holes who are on a power trip and want to exert it
DO people let people know where they are in case something happens, do you leave a note in the car with the other persons plate number, a trusted friend with information ?
Hopefully wont get slammed for this, but, it is serious questions that have made me wary, its not the same as genetic girls who meet new people, we have the bashing to also add in
i have the same fears. i get enough of a bad vibe just chatting with some guys online who want to hookup with me RIGHT NOW! i don't really fear "undercover" gay bashers but they are a thing, also religious homophobes who think they are doing the work of the lord. self righteous pricks! but going back to ur point it's definately 1 thing that makes me hesitate to meet guys. i know there are genuinely nice guys out there but i know there are agressive assholes who only care about themselves & totally inconsiderate of whoever there with.
I didnt think about the religous Zealots, good point. But yeah, there are still gay bashers out there. I also think with the whole bathroom thing has brought unneeded attention
i get public bathrooms are a convenient place to hookup with guys. but i'm generally against sex in public places. like u said too much attention plus i don't wanna force anyone unwilling to see what's going on. i don't necessarily wanna watch other people either.
apology, I meant people who are similar to me using different bathrooms depending on the circumstances, its a hot topic issue
I have had a lot of luck with Doublelist. I'm 68 and recently discovered that I love to suck cock. I have a couple of regular cocks that I suck every week and a new guy just this morning. He said he wanted to just meet and say hello, but I talked him into allowing me to suck his cock and he got off in about 2 minutes.
Well guys I have to once again explain how to find like minded men our women, this world is filled with like minded individuals who are in the same situation as most of us are. When I travel I have never gone to a gay bar or advertised on a website for sex. That to me is not only dangerous but stupid. There are many men and women who are in situations that allow them a lot of latitude to play if given the right circumstance.
Most people give off vibes if you will and will and if you know what to look for it’s easy to figure out who is in need. As a bisexual I have bedded not only men but lots of women. It all boils down to conversation and key words to turn normal conversation to sex. I travel often for work and find myself in situations that allow me to take my time and evaluate my surroundings. Reading body language is key here, I have gotten more pussy and cock by just reading people. Most are married and in the same situation they just want to play with a clean like minded person.
I never come out out and say what it is I’m am in need of, conversation is the trigger, example is last week when I was in Omaha NE sitting in a hotel bar enjoying my beverage and struck up a conversation with a guy who was ther to help with flood relief. After a few beverages we talked about home life and kids and what ever popped into our heads. I learned he grew up in Arkansas and was the 6 of 8 kids and we talked about hand me downs from our older siblings, and how we learned from our older siblings about sex either through masterbation or other means. As the conversation progressed I knew he was hinting at wanting to play. The key word in this whole thing was when he asked me so what do you do in private when you travel, without hesitation I said I love being naked and jerking off to porn he laughed and said wow yea that’s what I love to do as well, he said he really loves traveling so he can play like he wants too without the wife.
After the conversation turned to sex, it wasn’t long before I had him confessing to being naked with another man. As we talked I could see him adjusting his junk as I knew he was getting horny. He in a quite voice admitted that he loves eating his own cum, I said me too but it would be wonderful to taste another’s. That’s when he smiled and said I don’t mean to be too forward but any chance of you getting away for some man play. I said your room or mine?
I could tell he was he was a bit nervous but I said that your call as long as we can shower before playing, he agreed and paid our tab and left to go to my room, once there he was a lot more open and free talking as we undressed and his cock was awesome it was a fat 6 inches and his balls were huge which is my favorite. He started slowly stroking his cock until we jumped in the shower at this point I told him my love of cum and my kink was sucking cock as long as I can. After washing our selves both of us sporting hardons I went down on him and swallowed his cock balls deep and within a few minutes he started moaning a said shit I’m going to cum I told him to let it go we have all night, he filled my throat with a nice load. Jumping out of the shower we both had to call our wives and afterward we laid naked in bed watching straight porn and getting hard again. For a country boy he sucked cock pretty well and we 69ed and he reached around and was fingering my ass and I said you want that? He said don’t think I’m weird but I love cumming against an ass I said you do whatever you need to do so he laid me on my back and closed my legs and after a few strokes rammed his cock against my ass and shot his load he said you do the same so I worked my cock and put the head of my cock on his ass hole and cummed hard , that was fucking awesome he said and thanked me for a great night.
So advertising for sex is not needed, just time and the skill to identify who else is looking. Happy hunting.
I do feel this is the best way of meeting someone, online is a JOKE! My problem is getting a conversation to go that direction without being too obvious! I got a few regular friends I am around all the time that I would love to get into their pants, but never could figure them out or get a conversation started to "fish" them out.
From what I'm reading here: Those that travel alone can do pretty well. Trouble is many of us are not hotel travelers.
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