I just scanned most of the posts in this thread and noticed that few mentioned being in relationships. Being relationship oriented, the thought of having sex with anyone, without getting to know them, first, is not an option, for me.
Even long before AIDs, I was never intimate with any guy I didn't know well and learned to trust, first. I've never had sex with any males, who I didn't develop a relationship with. No one-night stands, ever, with any male.
I admit to having superficial first impressions, regarding someone's looks and physical attributes, but, in the end, their intrinsic qualities were always what drew me to them.........….or, repelled me.
I realize these were fantasies for the posters above, and there are few limits in things one dreams of doing, but it dawned on me how different I feel from most, here. I am most attracted to being in mutually rewarding relationships, that are non-jealous, non-clingy and open, but honest and loving, where reciprocation is freely and sensuously given.
Since I was very young, I always had a strong need to learn a potential partner's personality, quirks, and interests, as well as whether, or not, we're compatible, before any sort of physical interactions take place. I want to build a foundation, first. I held my carnal desires in check, until I got to know a potential lover.
( And, I did begin this journey when I was probably much too young)
I'm not condemning anyone for their thoughts, or fantasies, just commenting on how different some of us are.
I suspect that I'm probably one of the oldest members, here, but also one of the luckiest....I have lived my fantasies! And, I presently have two loving partners (one of each gender) with whom I share one of the most rewarding relationships, ever!
Regardless of my differences, I hope each of you have your fantasies come to fruition, as I have! Good luck!
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