Originally Posted by
mpine86
I feel your pain guys, and it does suck that there seems to be way more flakes out there than not. I can’t tell you how many guys have flaked on me (and my wife for that matter). One thing I can say from experience is that you should never take it personally or think that there’s something wrong with you. Seriously, I just think that the majority of guys out there are scared shitless about something happening for real. Which is the most frustrating part, because if you’re not prepared to go through with it, then why string someone along and get their hopes up in the first place? I actually think the problem is two-fold: one, in the day and age of the internet I think people think it’s okay to just ghost others because there’s a fundamental human connection that’s lacking, and two, I think that a lot of inexperienced guys are still way too scared to go through with anything due to social norms, etc.
This is a super frustrating aspect of our lives, and I often find myself thinking, “why is it such a big deal to find a dick to suck on???” I mean seriously, it’s just not that big of a deal and it shouldn’t be that hard. Ultimately, don’t give up and something will happen for you. I’ve adopted the attitude of not going out of my way anymore, but I’m still going to try to sincerely connect with other guys. You may even have to adjust your preferences and standards a bit, but trust me someone will come along and help you fill that need for cock.
Goid luck gentlemen... fair winds and following seas to you all!! And, may the Schwartz be with you
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