Wow, what a nice surprise, if my wife ever did that my cock would be diamonds.Originally Posted by chunkysworld
Wow, what a nice surprise, if my wife ever did that my cock would be diamonds.
Same as lots of guys here, Craigs.., other hookup sites and going to ABS with gloryholes. Not perfect by any means but I feel like I gave her enough info to know what was on my mind and if she was unsure or confused about what I was saying she didn't try to take the conversation further. So I figure she doesn't want to know details or when/how/who.
So I keep sucking dick as often as I can, which is very little (3-5 times a year).
I think if I could find a regular for a once a week or every other I wouldn't waste so much time on the computer edging and looking at gay/bi porn.
I don't intend to stop sucking dick. But I do consider trying again to get her to acknowledge that she really knows what I'm saying. But I have brought it up at least 3 times and it's gone nowhere.
I posted earlier that I was married and secretly bi. Well that has changed. She now knows but it's kind of a "don't ask, don't tell" situation. She knows I get with guys but she doesn't want to talk about it. We still have sex and she loves sucking my cock. So I guess all is well.
I'm sure I'm bi. My wife and I fantasise about me having a cock in my mouth, she tells me how much she'd like to see that, so she could play with herself watching, but actually doing it is another thing. I don't look at guys on the street and think, 'ooh, I want his cock in my mouth,' but I sure do get turned on when on here or pantyhose share club, (I'm FredInTights on there) I see a nice big cock, sometimes naked, other times in lacy panties and if I am in pantyhose, which I am as often as I can, I so want to rub cocks in nylon with a guy. Doing it however isn't something I actively seek, but I'm on here, so I'm at least in the realm of being with other me and their lovely hard cocks... I remember sucking my first and only cock many moons ago and wonder / try to remember whether I enjoyed it or not. When I'm horny I'm pretty convinced if there was one there to suck I wold.
I'm 1 for 2 on this thread topic. My 1st wife was a sexy slutty hotwife and ardent swing partner who got me to try oral sex with men in our mfmf couples 4somes and our mmf 3somes. I was instantly hooked on orally pleasing a hot, hard cock almost as much as on orally pleasing a hot, wet pussy. And it didn't matter to me if it were a woman or man sucking my cock, because it felt so heavenly being pleased orally by either gender. The excitement of being secretly bisexual and sharing that secret only with my hotwife and the bi men and couples we swung with was intoxicating. We swung together every chance we got until we split up over her alcohol and party drug abuse. We were legally separated for almost 3 years. I missed having my hot slutwife, but I didn't miss having an alcoholic, druggie wife who would cheat on a good thing and fuck anyone who had cocaine or meth because I couldn't and wouldn't support her habit. So she knew I was bi and loved it and was quite proud of turning me out as bi. I moved on to having sex with other women, men and couples as a solo legally separated bachelor swinger.
It was a year until I met the woman who would become my 2nd wife. It was a long distance thing because she was in NC and I was 500 miles from her in GA. We didn't see each other but 10 or 12 times in the 2 years we dated before we became engaged. She was also legally separated from her 1st hubby. We were graphically honest with each other about other people we saw and fucked in the absences between the times that we could be together. I didn't 'EXACTLY' come out to her as being bi or admit to her that I was meeting men more often than women or tell her how much I really enjoyed being with men. However, I did confess & spill my guts about 1st wifey and I having been wild swingers and that I had done some bi things with men as part of our swing lifestyle. She told me in no uncertain terms that she would never swing with me or accept it if I wanted to be with other women or men or cheat on her with other women, men or couples. I decided I'd rather give up swinging fun and bi fun than lose her. I promised her I'd be faithful to her and I did stay faithful because I loved her. BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. As it turned out, she had a married lover she'd been fucking since before we met. I knew about him from our openness about other people we saw, but she didn't ever 'EXACTLY' tell me that she was in love with him and I was her 2nd choice. We were married for 7 years and had a great sex life before I discovered she'd had a lover on the side the whole time. I had not lost my lust for swinging and naked men. I did go to mm websites and swingers' sites and chat with other bi & gay men and mf couples and have cybersex, but I'd remained physically faithful to my 2nd wife all the while we were together. I was hurt, embarrassed and felt so stupid and naive that I had been so trustful when I should have seen all the signs she was using me. I also wanted to kick myself in my own ass for missing so many opportunities to cheat on her with men or swinging couples. So no, my 2nd wife didn't know I am bisexual or the extent to which I am bisexual.
Me, Ive been bi since I was 17, Ive been married to my wife for 10 years. Ive never told her I was bi, or even had encounters with other men. She's told me before that she doesnt care if I do, but she just doesnt want to know about it. Ive only been with 3 guys since we've been together, which is going on 13 years...the past year or so the urge to tell her has gotten stronger, especially since I revealed to her my love for being anally penetrated and eating my own cum. She's used her toys on me several times, culminating in her fucking me with her 1-3/4" dia rabbit while I jacked off, and she's had me eat her creampie numerous times.
Even with all that, Im not real sure how she would take it if I told her Ive had gay experiences...even though she's had a couple lesbian experiences
Guess I'm one of the married and secretly bi guys here....always have kept it to myself unless there's someone I trust to talk to about it!
Count me as a bisexual married male buried in the closet. There is no greater pleasure than being with a man. As I age I find I prefer sex or servicing a male lover.
In the past my wife and I have played me being bi, usually her idea, with her toys, first sucking a dildo progressing to a strapon, and yet I still can' tell her of my need for a man.
Hopefully I can muster the courage soon.
I am married and bi but my wife has no idea. But she is a prude anyway and has almost no interest in sex. I have enjoyed a couple friends cocks several times and always look forward to meeting up with them.
Mine knows but doesn't want to know about it...
Married, but sometime after age 50, I discovered (or developed) an interest in bisexual play. My encounters have been few and far between, but I have explored mutual masturbation, frottage and receptive oral sex. I love it all!
If my wife found out it would be over for me as well. Ive been sneeking around with my mistress of 5 years and with men for 2 years i dont do it often but when ever i get the chance i take it ive met most of my male partners on squirt and my mistress just said to me on new years just after sex that she wants to swing which is good because now i have a place where i can have sex with men who cant host
Secretly Bi here, play when I can.
i'm married, but not secretly bi, i just wish i knew where to get dick in omaha
I'm in the same boat, who have you ever found to talk about it? I had one night stand with a girl I met on the road years ago. She made me use a condom saying her husband was bi. As I prodded her about it she admitted she kind of enjoyed that he was bi. We had been drinking and I ended up confiding in her about my past. She was turned on by me telling her and wanted more details. While it felt good to tell her about it I was still very nervous the next day. It was a random event over 20 years ago and never happened again. All I remember was how good it felt telling her and how it felt good hearing how she felt a large percentage of men had same sex at some point in their youth.
If my wife would find out I am bi, no telling what she would do. I don't think she would acccept it. I would like to see her with another man, but when I hint at it, she just laughs it off. I do suspect she did have a brief affair, but that doesn't help with my desires. I do masturbate thinking about blowing a guy while she is being ate by another man or woman. I guess I will just dream.
Not married (anymore), but in a very long term live-in relationship with a woman. She has had bi boyfriends in the past, so I don't think our relationship would end immediately if she knew. But I have always found it much easier, with much less tension and potential for emotional drama, to keep those parts of my life and sexuality separate. I made the "mistake" of telling my first long-term girlfriend many years ago, and she would always bring it up when we were arguing or at times of emotional insecurity. I think it ended up standing as a barrier between us, and created pointless doubt about my hetero masculinity and my commitment. Since there's really no chance that I'm going to be leaving a woman for a long-term relationship with a man, and since I am very careful about health concerns, I see no reason to create undue drama or pain. No need to rock any boats but my own.
Me! Married and secretly VERY BI in Southern California. Love sucking big cock and am a deep throat expert. What I crave the most are bi women who LOVE watching bi guys and share cock with them...
Cum play with me!
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I'm surprised to read on here that some who's wives don't know they're bi have told them it's okay if they are... How would that just come up in conversation?
If a male/female couple are open and honest about their desires and fantasies, bisexual desires are easily discussed.
i understand that but from what I've read there are some who say their wives have no idea they are bi. Then they go on to say that their wives have told them it's okay to pursue or okay if they suck cock. Now I can see how it would come up if you were doing mfm or cucking. I guess some just don't give enough information about their situation.
Came out to my wife 2yrs ago the urge to explore my bi curiosity was getting intense as I approached 50. She was completely supportive and accepting.....she fully understood that this was something she could not help me with. We agreed the best for me to explore this would be with another couple with a bi male, not interested in cheaters and single guys. Met two couples over the past 2 yrs.....wife's interest has now grown to looking to participate, currently chatting with a bi couple.
I do have an amazing wife and we have no secrets between us......it has created a deeper bond between us.
Love my wife very much, but sex is much too important to trust to a woman!
One of my fantasies is to have someone else in the room while I’m enjoying a guys cock!
to be able to let someone else in on my ‘secret ‘ so to speak...
45, Bi M, westmont IL, would like to find a FWBs who enjoys clean fun. Enjoys, foreplay, 69, making out, Jo. I think some married guys secretly interested after watching porn with the wife. But but are afraid to try, thinking it will move them. To thinking it will make them want more. I think if you want to explore, y not try. When I was married I found myself. Very aroused by it more when she wanted me to do it. Not knowing she has been thinking of it. For a long time, just didn't know how to all me
I am married and Bi also! I have kept my Bi feelings hid for the last 50 years!! They have surfaced over the last few years!! But I do not play outside of my marriage!! Not in the mood for a costly divorce!!!
Married and secretly Bi. I haven’t told anyone. I have been with two guys before my marriage. They are the only ones that know. I definitely can’t tell my wife because she would t accept it. I would loose everything I’ve worked very hard to build.
Same as you my wife found a post I posted about what I wanted to do with a guy she has been pretty good about it I told her I would never cheat on her and ask her. I ask her about maybe having a 3some with another guy but she don't want to.
Married 15;years she is not accepted I am bi so I sneak a cock on occasion I wish I had a regular playmate
It is very good that my wife is accepting of it. But she is of most things sexual. I can go to strip clubs cuz that will be to her benefit. If if I had a massage with a happy ending, no worries. A guy, well she doesn’t have a penis so she recognizes that’s not an itch she can satisfy. There are rules I need to abide by that makes her comfortable. Besides the whole idea of her manly hubby sucking cock and getting fucked is a major turn on.
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