Originally Posted by
DMercator
Generally speaking, I'm not an 'ass' person. It's breasts, cocks and pussies that come to mind when I close my eyes and begin to stroke. With very few exceptions, I don't find men's asses the least bit attractive and given a choice between fucking an ass and a pussy, the pussy would win every time.
I like ass play in that I like making my partner feel good, but it's not my first choice and rimming someone else is something I have zero desire to do.
Now, having said that, I totally love having my own ass played with. Fingers, tongue, toys, cocks... if you're playing with my ass I am pretty much putty in your hands and would do (almost) anything to pleasure you in return.
I've topped a few times to please my partner, and I dearly loved having them writhe with pleasure as I fucked them, but it didn't do much for me and thoughts of orgasm were a million miles away. On the other hand, the couple of times I've bottomed, I happily came all over myself and couldn't wait to do it again.
It's not just the difference between being a bottom and a top. For me anal is both a huge turn-on and a semi turn-off depending on which (whose) end is up.
Anyone else feel the same? Would you think less of a partner knowing they felt this way?
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