Are your sexual fantasies usually straight or bisexual?

[Annika L]

Interesting, and somewhat arousing. I could fantasize licking your pussy while you stand on the soapbox and, er, split your hairs

Seriously, though, I had an interesting thought while reading this, which is that my fantasies of men are almost always of married men, and I'm most aroused by men who are sexually active with women. Rarely is the woman present, but the fact that the cock that I fantasize exploding in my mouth is regularly lubricated by his partner's vagina is definitely part of my arousal, and often an image that puts me over the edge. So I would call that a bisexual fantasy, because although the fantasy (and reality) is a homosexual act, the heterosexual component of the object of my attraction is decisive.

Can we have a scholarly opinion on this? Perhaps from a Jesuit who likes married men?

*cough* lol

Um...I'm not sure what I said that was arousing...I think that part came from inside you.

But I agree that your fantasy is bisexual, as you describe it.

My issue is simply with the equation of bisexual = same-sex as an exception...when for me, same-sex is my usual, and it's hetero sex that would be the exception. You're not making this equation...so I'm afraid we can't fight about it *snerk*. We'll just have to wait for that Jesuit to weigh in.

[loveslace]

Definitely bi-sexual, involving my wife.

[whispering]

*cough* lol

Um...I'm not sure what I said that was arousing...I think that part came from inside you.

But I agree that your fantasy is bisexual, as you describe it.

My issue is simply with the equation of bisexual = same-sex as an exception...when for me, same-sex is my usual, and it's hetero sex that would be the exception. You're not making this equation...so I'm afraid we can't fight about it *snerk*. We'll just have to wait for that Jesuit to weigh in.

Any time girls with glasses talk about sex, no matter how dryly, it's arousing ...I wonder who might be dressing as a priest tonight--perhaps I can, ah, interview him.

[Annika L]

Any time girls with glasses talk about sex, no matter how dryly, it's arousing ...I wonder who might be dressing as a priest tonight--perhaps I can, ah, interview him.

Wait...are you calling me dry?? And what makes you think I have glasses? (beyond martini glasses...yeah, I plead guilty to those) Ok, damn it, I *do* wear glasses...but what have I said that tipped you off? (I do take them off during sex, btw, if that makes a difference. I see quite well without them.)

I'm pretty sure priests all over the country will be dressing as priests tonight...pretty sure they can't help themselves, so maybe you could help them *wink*.

[fatboytom]

Absolutely bi-sexual.

[bellavella]

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[loftycraig]

In the last few years, my fantasies have been primarily bisexual/gay oriented. Often about men or even more often about male body parts. It's this shift in fantasy that made me re-evaluate my Kinsey rating recently. In the past women were much more involved...although I still enjoy MMF porn a lot but I noticed my focus was more on the men's cocks now.

yours mirrors my feelings

[cuttin2dachase]

My fantasies and sex dreams are mainly bisexual. Most involve mfm 3somes with me enjoying sex with her and him. But I also fantasize a lot about 1 on 1 mm sex and male group sex. My most exciting actual experiences as a bisexual man were in mfm 3somes with my 1st wife where I had sex with her and him. That's probably why mfm 3some fantasies are foremost.

My hottest str8 mf fantasy involves passionate lovemaking and being totally pampered by a very exotic Asian woman or by 2 exotic Asian women in a fmf 3some. I have a recurring sex dream along the same lines and one of those dreams was the most intense, lifelike wet dream I've ever had !

[mikeyd270]

I am bi but think about cock a lot and my fantasies lean more toward men.

[Switch53]

Mine used to be all female but over the last few years I find mine are gay or bisexual. Now to make it come true.

[johnnyb]

My sexual fantasies are usually about women, very orally focused fantasies. But I regularly have fantasies about sucking a nice sized cock, along with some great mmf fantasies.

[man4girlgirl4man]

They can be either or both depending on my sexual mood. My gay fantasies are usually the hottest

[mjohn]

my have been mostly about men but one about women can sneak in once in a while.

[cocklover911]

My sexual fantasies are men, but I am bisexual, I like a girls and want to have sex with her.

[bellavella]

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[Outofthis99999]

I've had the most straight sex in a long time these past few years. I still fantasize about the sex I've had with men. Very hot

[playtoy70]

Both for me both men and woman. I want to have a guy fuck me while I eat my wifes pussy. Then trade places have him eat her while I pound the hell out of his ass. I like to pound hard doesn't matter if its ass or pussy I'm rough and like to slam my cock hard.

[kyachan]

Hello, I am bisexual woman, too. and I don' t mind my sexual fantasies is men or women. before, I just like, I was so confused, most of the time what I can do is find some bisexual dating sites, such as www.datingbisexual.net, because only here, can I find someone I want. But now, I understand, I must accept myself and I should follow my heart. do you understand me? Follow your heart!

[naztypanty]

My fantasies fall on the two ends: straight or gay. I don't have that many that are "bisexual," meaning a sexual encounter with men and women at the same time.
I want a compliant, very horny, cock starved woman out in the woods. Or perhaps a half-dozen at once.
Or I want to be in a gay spa playing with a half dozen men.

[loftycraig]

I'm a bi female, but for the most part my sexual fantasies are about women. My sexual dreams that I can remember, are usually about men. When I view porn it is mostly about women, but I also enjoy male, gay porn (naked kombat ) . Of couse at different times I'm into different fatishes and fantasies, depending on my mood. Just wondering if other's fantasies are usually straight or bi?

bi male, late 60,s for last 10 or so yrs almost exclusively male

[TNT33852]

But I must say to the OP that "bisexual" is not the opposite of "straight". Having sex with the same sex isn't bisexual, it's homosexual. *Desiring* both kinds of sex is bisexual. I don't know if a fantasy can be "bisexual", unless it's of a 3+some with at least yourself plus another man and woman (and you participate eagerly with both)...but I somehow don't think you meant anything that specific.

New to this website and first time posting. I thought Annika's point was well made, and with it in mind, I have to say my fantasies are mainly bisexual. Mostly they involve my wife, I, and at least one other male guest star in all sorts of combinations. Ironically, I had been fantasizing about this for at least fifteen years before I realized I fell somewhere in the bisexual sphere (the folder of collected erotica has stories dating back to my Windows 95 PC, and the same theme was there even then). The really nice thing was the slow process of opening up to my wife and learning her fantasies primarily revolve around her and two men. The nicer thing was deciding those fantasies could become realities.

[void()]

Yes. ...

[void()]

My fantasies fall on the two ends: straight or gay. I don't have that many that are "bisexual," meaning a sexual encounter with men and women at the same time.
I want a compliant, very horny, cock starved woman out in the woods. Or perhaps a half-dozen at once.
Or I want to be in a gay spa playing with a half dozen men.

I too 'flip-flop' or do have fantasies of being the meat between a guy and gal. Thus, i responded, Yes.

[mcliff128]

My fantasies are mostly bisexual, with some gay fantasies also. It seems the older I get the less straight fantasies I seem to have.

[cheil77]

The more cock that I get the more I am fantasizing about guys and dicks. Still love pussy but something about a hot guy with a hard cock just gets me going. May also be ththat I've had a bunch of women and only a few men. My cock is throbbing and need dicks in my mouth and ass thinking about sex get me horny

[jackofbothtrades]

My sexual fantasies are primarily homosexual (usually about 2 men). On the other hand, my emotional desires and fantasies are mostly about women (I'm in love with one and we've started dating). I don't know why this is, I just accept it.

[lizard-lix]

Porn, all over the map.... Fantasies bi or MM.

[jackofbothtrades]

Mostly my fantasies are homosexual, usually involving 2 other men but I do have the occasional bisexual and straight fantasy.

[Safebutcraving]

Usually a bit of both but recently my fantasies have been leaning heavily to the bi end. My "go to" scenario is an MMF threesome with ex GF where I am made to suck cock before or after they fuck.

[Masscpl4fun]

I mostly fantasize about men lately