Hello everyone, I need advice! FAST! I'm a straight woman with a situation, Im trying to keep an open mind. I just came to the realization that my boyfriend is trying to tell me he is bi. He didnt say it straight out but the story he told me indicates that he wants me to know without losing me.
Story...
He went to hang out with one of his guy friends the other day (we'll call him D-man) and was four hours late to pick me up. I asked him what happen and why are you so late. He said D-man wanted him to hang out longer. I asked, why didnt you just tell D-man that you had a date with me.
He said, D-man would be so jelous cause he's gay and he likes me. I said, doesnt he know your not gay, havent you told him about us yet. He said, he finally told D-man about us after D-man tried to kiss him and that D-man got mad and threaten to call me and tell me everything.
I said "what is everything" He said, D-man asked him to have an orgie with him and another guy. My boyfriend agreed and told me that was the last time he would do that with his "guy friends" cause he only wants to be with me and be commited to only me.
I didnt know what to say, I was calm and tried to be understanding. I told him I need some time to think about what I just heard. I said to him that I love him and dont wanna lose him but I really dont know how to react to this situation. I told him, not only did you cheat on me, but you cheated on me with 2 men! He took it all back and said he was joking and that it was a test to see how much I loved him. He said he was fucked up cause he drank alot. (why would a straight man tell a story like that to try to test my love? He's bi!)
I didnt leave and we made love that night. But I am still confussed and Im pissed off at him for cheating on me. (if he loves me why would he cheat on me) Did he need a last orgie session with his boyfreinds or is cheating, cheating?
Can I trust that he really wants a m/f relationship with only me! Can I have a realationship with a bisexual man.?Signed,
a confused girlfriend
(We are crazy in Love and I dont wanna lose him either. He says he's never felt these feeling with anyone else. Im his first true love and he wants to marry me. I said yes. But Im scared now because I dont know how to react to his bisexualality.)
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