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  • I prefer men.

    327 36.01%
  • I prefer women.

    581 63.99%
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  1. #61

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I prefer romancing with girls as so far the guys iv met are mostly just all about the sex really. I'd say I'm 40/60 in favour of girls and that 10% swing is mostly because of the intimacy.

    That might change in time if I meet the right guy though. Until then I'l carry on as Iv done for ever. Going out girls who understand me and are Bi too and letting guys come and go from my life.


  2. #62

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I have been reading most of the entries on this topic and find them all so fascinating. The diversity of interests and desires is intriguing and I found of course many practices and interests similar and identical to my own.
    As far as voting goes, I couldn't do it simply because sexually I enjoy both very much....when I am with a man, I am totally into those moments sexually and the same when I'm with a woman. However, for me I am interested in women in a much broader scale and for this reason, I have not made a connection with a woman in the way that I would prefer. Alot more is involved and I know when I'm interested in a woman in depth, the intensity of everything changes down to my daily living.
    I have never been able to connect romance, emotions, and sex with males. With guys, I am only in it for the sex and only when the desires are stirred.
    For example, when I'm out and about in public, I don't really take notice of men at all...I am captivated constantly and continuously by women.
    There is the rare ocassion where a male might capture my attention.
    When moments of sex are happening, how I love all the wonderful intricacies of what is special about both sexes. I am so tuned in by whichever sex I am playing with and totally devoted to that moment and sensations.
    Though I get involved with women emotionally and not with men, I am capable of enjoying a woman just for the sex if that is what is understood from the beginning. This especially applies when I have played with married couples or devoted boyfriend/girlfriend couples; I never infringe upon what they hold dear with one another. I am merely the guest there to enjoy them both.
    I absolutely adore women in so many ways, but even when in love with a woman, I have always felt the urge eventually for a cock....
    This has created problems for me with the women that wouldn't share me with anyone else. I was able to stay devoted without playing with other women outside the relationship, but my appetite for male sex I have never really been able to put a cap on...and it's not because anything was lacking sexually or any other way with the woman.
    I realize many would say that were I truly in love with the woman, I would never stray to anyone else for any reason. But it's more complicated for me. I have tried countless times to deny my urges for male sex when in a relationship with a woman, but to no avail. For years, I hated myself and my urges for male sex when I was in love with a woman.
    I finally made peace with this many years ago and through the help of my counselor. Though she is monogamous and heterosexual, she has never judged me for my inability to not stray from the woman I was in love with. She has studied bisexuality for many years and according to her, there are many individuals such as myself that truly do love their partner but cannot get around the desire for same sex indulgences. Her advice to me was to make peace with it and trust that there are women who do accept this in their male partners and allow them to play and sometimes participate with their men and their male sex partners. I already know of several couples where this is true.
    I know that many here would judge this and do judge it. I am not by any means proposing that everyone adhere to this kind of situation; we all individually are who we are. I would never judge anyone for their choices and it sure would be nice if the same were true for me. But I know too well after so many years, this is not the case. I am at peace with this as I don't expect everyone to understand or accept.
    So, in closing....in ways of emotions, romance, etc........I do lean towards women....but sexually, I am most definitely interested in both equally.

  3. #63

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Eunic View Post
    I have been a Eunuch for more than 20 years due to an illness. I have been married to a woman who is 12 years younger than I for over 30 years. Since I cannot perform intercourse, I do oral. I have since had oral with a man several times and so far I enjoy that equally as well.
    How did you become a Enuch? Can you ejaculate, have an orgasm, or get an erection?

  4. #64

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    Right now, I'm more attracted to women than to men, while still being attracted to men on occasion. Ten years ago, I think it was the opposite. Ten years before that, it was the opposite of that. It came as a great surprise to me in college to find myself romantically drawn to a man for the first time.

    I had a very emotional, tender, romantic relationship with another man in my late twenties. I wouldn't have given that up for the world. (Although I kinda wish that he had been bi, too, so we could have picked up women together from time to time). It was a little tough telling him -- years after the relationship was over -- that I wanted to start dating women. I think he was a little disappointed.

    Honestly, the sex I've had with women recently has been just about the best of my life. And, while it's not clear-cut, I think, on balance, I prefer M-F sex to M-M sex.

    So maybe for me, bi doesn't mean a steady 50-50 over the lifespan. It's much more fluid than that. But I'm not someone who responds "sexually" to one sex and "romantically" to another.

    But here's a funny question. Lots of guys seem to enjoy sex with men and women, but only have relationships with women. I'm wondering if there are any guys who enjoy sex with both, but prefer men emotionally. If so, how do they pull it off? It would seem to be hard to have a primary relationship with another man, but have female sex buddies on the side.

  5. #65

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Quote Originally Posted by littlerayofsunshine View Post
    I am married to a man, but my sexual attraction to either sex sways different directions in different parts of my life. Could I love both? Yeah maybe... if I found the right woman. I have always been drawn to polyamory even though I haven't ventured there yet. I guess all in all, my possibilities are open.
    You KNOW I'm that woman right? lol.

  6. #66

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    "But here's a funny question. Lots of guys seem to enjoy sex with men and women, but only have relationships with women. I'm wondering if there are any guys who enjoy sex with both, but prefer men emotionally. If so, how do they pull it off? It would seem to be hard to have a primary relationship with another man, but have female sex buddies on the side."

    fred fencesitter

    Ah, I wonder if this is where LDD got the idea for his quirky "type of bisexual" poll?...

    I think that you are correct that few women would accept being not the primary relationship with a man. I do recall a friend stating that he knows a male couple where the one man had a very close relationship with a woman. However, I do not know if it was sexual. In some cases that may be where "fag hag" comes in? In other cases a "fag hag" is usually not sexual in nature.

    I agree with those that write that "preference" has varied over my lifetime and at this point I wouldn't say which is the overall preference. At this point though, guys are much easier to deal with.

  7. #67

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Years ago, I traded e-mails with a guy in a M-M relationship who had watched a lot of straight porn with his boyfriend and had become fascinated with cunnilingus. He was looking for a M-F couple to try it out with. I don't know if he succeeded, but he did have a serious prospect. He agreed with me that he was more of a Kinsey 4-5 than a 6.

  8. #68

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Quote Originally Posted by rissababynta View Post
    You KNOW I'm that woman right? lol.
    *grins* uh huh uh huh uh huh *shakes her head up and down like a bobbledoll*

    After all these years, the fires still burn and age has only made us more beautiful and brighter.

    You still owe me a date my sexxy vixen.

  9. #69

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I´m more into women, all the way. The most fantastic and wonderful lovers I have ever had have been people of the opposite sex. I dont deny that there are some men who can be really sweet and kind when they want to. But when it comes to sex, I prefer doing it with a woman, because most men I know are only in for a random sexual encounter without more contact. However, when it is a woman, I love the taste of her lips in my mouth when I give her the first kiss, the embrace of her arms as she hugs me like there is no tomorrow, like she is never going to let me go. I love the feeling of being inside her and the warmth of her breath as she falls asleep beside me. And waking up besides her and watching the sun making her hair glow... although I love to please both sexes, there is no doubt that I would prefer to be with a girl that wigh a guy. I have read that actually, when it comes to bisexuality, only a 5% of the people who identifies as such is attracted to both sexes equally. The rest usually prefers one sex over the other.

  10. #70

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I go back and forth on this question. Depends on whether I'm predominantly in my straight or my gay mode

  11. #71

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Krysta View Post
    I have read various books and websites about bisexuality and they say that very few bisexuals are Kinsey 3s or equally attracted to both men and women when it comes to both sexual attraction and romantic attraction, and that most bisexuals do prefer or lean to one gender over the other.

    I do agree that it's impossible to be equally attracted to both genders both sexually and romantically at all times and I've never met anyone who actually is bisexual who claimed to be equally attracted or 50/50 and was equally attracted both sexually and romantically to both genders at all times.

    I'm more into men but I have had more sexual experiences and relationships with men and while I do enjoy sex with women at times I do not want a relationship with a woman like I do with a man.

    Are you more into men or women? Who do you prefer sex with or fall in love with and why do you prefer that gender?
    I am totally agreement with Krysa here. A relationship wit a woman is needed in my life with a man I am interested only in his cock, if there is sex to be had. I have known men that I had BI relations with that lasted as long as 10 years. All of our play time was Bi never M2M alone. We did g out to club, maybe or have a meal but always as Bi couple. A romantic relationship with a man I no place on my radar.

  12. #72

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Yes. Now that I've become more comfortable with myself.

    I've always been attracted romantically and physically to men more. There ARE certain women I am attracted to but I couldn't always tell you why, it's not necessarily because when you say "Hellooo" it echoes down cleavage canyon either.. (giggles).

    Seems to be a combination of things. I was raised by a single mom in a divorced household so in a way I've always viewed women more like "sisters" than objects of desire and who wants to have sex with your sister?! A lot of my good female friends, some of which I would've loved to be with - confided in me and at that time in their lives they seemed to need a friend more than a lover (sighs).

    Men I lust after, women I've always had to work harder at, but the feelings are definately there.

  13. #73

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    fantasized of having of more than just sex with a man but not sure if i can stand it.

    married now so relationship with wife is good but sexually, i think i like taking cock more.

  14. #74

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    This has changed for me over time. Romantically I am more drawn to women and I look at them much more in real life but my fantasy life is now more leaning toward men/homosexual fantasies. So perhaps call me a 4.5

  15. #75

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    women only from 1965 til last year, except for thoughts. now more into men, not for romance , but just for sex. did some male/male stuff prior to 1965 and then sucked one male around a year ago. I loved it.

  16. #76

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Women by far. Guys only when the urge to be taken is particularly strong and quite honestly I'm only in it for their cock in me.

  17. #77

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I enjoy being treated like a slut bitch in heat by men! Course, I enjoy that from women too! But have had relationships only with women, and married a wonderful woman

  18. #78

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    Kind of odd one. I like women's looks. Their shape, Breasts, ass, legs, etc. I find that I am not attracted to overly hairy guys, or heavy tats, etc. So I end up looking at more women than men, but when it comes down to pubic area, while I will go down on a woman and bring her to multiple orgasms, physically, I prefer a cock down there. I don't know what it is. I have only had one cock in my mouth and it was brief, but I am more attracted to cock than pussy.

  19. #79

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I definitely prefer women for companionship, romance and sex. Although I have not done it in quite some time, I enjoy sex with a man, both oral and anal. Howeve, there is nothing quite as thrilling and wonderful as sliding my cock into a warm, wet pussy!!!

  20. #80

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Couldn't answer the poll. My response is lop-sided because I favor one woman but many men. I think I am more romantically inclined to women but I only want the one so I don't know if it is the gender I favor or the single personality which is the dominant factor. And yet a crave a deeper relationship with a man.

  21. #81

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    I have always had a preference for women over men, though I think that the preference has been reduced over time...in my 20s it was maybe 75% into women/25% into men and now I'm closer to 60/40. I think over the years I've become more comfortable and knowledgeable about myself and my sexuality, and also have let go of some of my hang-ups about masculinity and being sexually fluid.

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  23. #83

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    This is so incredibly hard for me. For so long everyone has known my desire for young women, but in the back of my mind that's private trees been occasions where I've gotten the hots for a young male too. For the record men who like teenage boys disgust me. Always have. So when I tell you I was 27 and had sex with a student that could have gotten me arrested, you'd be right to call me a hypocrit. In fact the 21 year old hottie chick I was going out with exposed as a reaction to her anger. You see my whole life I've hid my secret lists for girls and boys of ages 13-17 that I so often longed for. So when after a party I realized there was a mouth watering kid, athlete, ripped, 6pack and a tight perfect shaped butt that I was just horny enough to grab my attention. With my date soundly asleep with the other 6 or so who passed out drunk at a friends house, I made a move for Christopher. When he awake and kissed me so passionately with his tongue I took my hand and unbuttoned his jeans and palmed his 'still growing penis' and fondled his perfect feeling balls. I Remeber thinking how I really wanted to put his balls in my mouth and nibble on them while stroking his cock and after that I wanted to as a 27 tear old man take a risk of horrific consequences and toss he salad with all the sleeping witnesses that close to prof I was at least bisexual if not a complete homosexual. I Remeber pulling Chris' underwear down and starin at his cute cock of just under 5 inches. That turned me on too.
    He didn't have a hair on his body and his skin was so perfect. Then my conscience asked me right then if I was about to have gay sex with a ten he boy who had at least been through puberity or was I about to have sex with a minor and risk my entire life. Chris wrapped his sexy legs around my neck and my decision was made, except for a voice that whispered 'go ahead and suck that boys penis you closet homo, your nothing but a great big butt pirate and I'm gonna let everyone know I saw you take advantage of a teenage boy. I was so hard, and so was Chris, but soon others could wake up, and I'd be forever shamed. Right then Chris asked if I was a coward or if I was man enough to let people know you are who you are. Just then I leaned forward and kissed Christopher and I could hear people moving around and I knew that was it, everyone wa staring at a sight they couldn't beleive, me of all people having gay sex and publicly. I though couldn't resist this kid, I coukdnt, even my fears of social condemnation weren't enough to allow me to pass on this perfect male body. I Remeber hearing insults while we had interxourse. Nasty terms were being uttered and someone threw a banana at my head and said stick that up your ass while u fagets are are poking each other's poop holes you ferry. I came inside Chris and after I did reality set in, I felt so small laying there stuck to Chris and everyone knowing I couldn't resist cumming inside a boy am not my hot date or public ridcule could save me. In one day I went from popular kid for 20 years in a city to a homosexual who likes little boys. Are they right? I can't flat out deny it I know that, Chris would agree

  24. #84

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    I prefer men over women. I would say that for every woman there has been in my life, there have been five men. I just adore sex with men and do anything for them.

  25. #85

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    Interesting subject for me. I grew up having a sister that would get my brother and me naked and suck our dicks and then have us lick her to orgasm. After she would finish with us, my brother and I would continue in our bed until we both had orgasms in each other's mouths. This went on for years until I met an older man who had me sucking his cock two or three times a day. After getting married, I talked my wife into meeting other guys and getting them to fuck her whenever she felt like having a cock other than mine. This turned into a fantastic relationship where I got to watch her get her pussy pounded several times a week by other guys and as she increased her intake of cock. She went for 6" cocks to 10" cocks over a period of 35 years. I got to lick them as they fucked her and clean her up after they finished. Now, I am into enjoying the male cock without the addition of the female body. Love to feel a big hard cock throbbing in my mouth.

  26. #86

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    I have had love relationships with both sexes,It seems on a rotating basis. I can truly love either sex.Depends on the person,not the plumbing.

  27. #87

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    I am capable of deeply loving a woman sexually and emotionally, to the point that I easily remained faithful despite my secret mm desires. I am 60 and have been married twice. I did not desire men for the 1st 32 years of my life, but once I was introduced to oral sex with men at that time, I was forever erotically attracted to bi men and their bodies. Over time, I began to enjoy romance with men as well as sex. I have never had, nor will I ever have deep feelings of love for the men I go to bed with. Paradoxically, I feel and project romance with men and make love to them with as much passion as I do with women, but with much more lust for male lips and bodies than for females lips and bodies. At this point in my life, I more often feel sexual lust and desire for men than for women. I seek no-strings romance and sex with male FWBs much more often than I seek women for the same, but that could change if I once again met and fell in love with a special woman. So for now, put me down as more into men

  28. #88

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    Romantically more into women and that lifestyle, but still very sexually into men

  29. #89

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    Quote Originally Posted by BiEd9 View Post
    I have had love relationships with both sexes,It seems on a rotating basis. I can truly love either sex.Depends on the person,not the plumbing.
    Very true. I suppose "pansexual" is a more accurate description for me. Most of my experiences have been with cisgender men, but I have had crushes and one experience with a cisgender woman. Almost three months ago, I fell in love with a trans woman who is now nine months into her transition. If (God forbid) this relationship ends, I'm willing to do more exploration. It really does depend on the person rather than the gender identity.
    "Fire shines brighter in the darkness." -- Suzanne Collins, "Mockingjay"
    "Life's a game made for everyone, and love is the prize." -- Avicii, "Wake Me Up"

  30. #90

    Re: Are you more into men or women?

    For me sex is always more intense with a man. But I have two bi male friends and we all agree that women complete the circle. We're all with women at the moment. However, my favourite thing is cocksucking. I love the smell, taste, texture... And swallowing another man's load is indescribable. I figure I'm 70% str8, 30% gay. But, I could settle down with the right guy.

 

 

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