I am new to this site and really enjoying reading about other bisexuals. I am a mature man in the Tampa area. I have had a few experiences and want more. What I have had leads me to accept that I am a cock sucker. I would appreciate any advice or the sharing of lessons learned. I have not enjoyed a load yet but I want to asap. Thanks in advance
IMO each man and mouth are slightly different .. it may take you a little while to figure out the best way to please any particular person .. hopefully they are vocal about it and speak up a bit otherwise you might be there for a while .. not the worst problem to have but after a while my jaw gets sore.
Most enjoy feeling as deep as you can take it into your mouth without choking.
As annoying as it is to look at the bleach blonde chick with her head bouncing up and down like a bouncy ball during porn, vigorous mouth action to simulate fucking does seem to make a lot of guys lose their load .. either by you moving your mouth up and down on it, or by they thrusting their hips, or maybe a combination of the two depending on how eager you are?
If it's taking a long time and the guy doesn't mind trying playing with their balls or fingering them a bit, prostate massage can produce some wonderfully powerful orgasms while you're getting your dick sucked.
It's a lot of fun if the guy is at least somewhat greatful, squirming, panting, thrusting, stroking your body or reciprocating with a 69, although it can be a bit hard to concentrate on the task at hand if it feels really good. All par for the course, have fun, especially if you find a dick that really likes your mouth, or vice versa.
I know some of you all just focus on the act or the genitals but some of my best experiences were with guys I've really gotten to know, trust and care about. Makes a big difference to me, but not everyone is going to feel that way of course.
Some people also enjoy foreplay, seduction, having different other parts of their body licked, sucked, massaged, milked .. it can be fun discovering these things together ..
I'm not sure every guy knows this, but orgasm is a separate thing from ejaculation right? It takes a lot of stamina, some lube and the ability to give up just a little bit of that control we've all been programmed to believe we have to have but it's totally possible for a man to have multiple orgasms if you are horny enough and rub yourself just the right way (less penile stimulation, more anal) for long enough.
Massaging the anus and prostate can be very pleasurable for some people. Some people go crazy with the idea of being clean down there. In my experience as long as you aren't full and you take a nice hot shower to relax yourself then you're probably okay.
If you're never experimented before it's probably best to try with your own self first. With either fingers or toys. I often imagine this to be what a female orgasm might feel like but of course I have no real way to compare.
Last edited by elian2; Jan 9, 2024 at 8:53 AM.
IMHO a good cocksucker does not just mouth and suck a cock, they worship it! Suck his full length while keeping your wet fingers stroking his shaft. Lick and suck his balls for a change of pace. Most importantly, once he starts to cum, do not stop what you are doing and take him all the way through his orgasm until he asks you to stop. Regular partners are great since we can get their bodies "mapped" after a few sessions and know what makes them feel good!
I remember my one friend being like, "let me get a towel to wipe up.." and I'm like, "I don't think you need it since I've sucked every drop out of you and licked you clean??"
the first time you take a load just swallow and dont think a bout it
Take your time.
Honor and worship the whole package: balls, shaft head, pubes, thighs. You are now where you dreamed of being, a cock in front of your face.
Nuzzle his nutsack,kiss, lick, and hold his cock against your cheek. Let the rest of the world fade away.
Lick the tip and gently wrap your lips around the head of his cock.
Feel his cock filling you, give over control to it, get to know his cock, obey his cock.
Show devotion to pleasing, your gratitude for being his cocksucker. Pleasing a cock is your greatest joy.
Relish your excitement every time his cock twitches with pleasure and grows harder in your mouth.
Savor the feeling only a cock can give you, and recognize that you crave and need this closeness.
Run your fingers lightly all over his shaft and nutsack while running your lips over it.
Enjoy the realization that this is what you were made for: serving cock and being a cocksucker.
Savor the first taste of his pre-cum. If you are a good cocksucker you can earn lots more.
Bob your head and fuck your mouth with his cock. If you please him he may hold your head and use your mouth as a fuckhole.
Keep the rhythm when he gets close. Let him decide when to unload in you mouth. Don't be greedy and try to force it.
Every spurt of his cum will send you to heaven. This is the greatest moment in a cocksuckers life. Savor and swallow every drop.
Hold his cock in tour mouth softlyand let him enjoy to the last moment.
Repeat as often as possible.
Best advice… be safe in your quest, don’t put yourself at any risks. But more than anything… understand that you are more than so many others out there. You enjoy sex, you enjoy a cock, you want more, pretty great place to be in my opinion. Never allow anyone else’s preconceived ideas to sway what brings you joy. Experience it knowing you are satisfying something that only people really accepting of themselves share. You want to have sex with another guy, you want to suck a beautiful cock… do it! Enjoy it. The only thing wrong is other people and their lack of understanding how much more the sexual world opens up to you when you let yourself be who you want to be. Like I said, you don’t have to put yourself in any risks, physically or emotionally. Just don’t dent yourself the joy! Yeah, I love women in all shapes and forms. But accepted long ago I can feel the same way about another guy. I used to live in St Pete. I wish I was back down there with you! Just be safe, and don’t say no to what makes you feel good!Originally Posted by Giggleme
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