Adult theater

[IDunnoMan]

So there's this adult theater sorta near me, the kind of place with a screen and couches no booths. I went there once a while back just to check it out but I didn't participate, but I saw a bunch of guys messing around. So anyway my fianc? knows basically everything there is to know about my sexual history and and we dirty talk alot during sex so long story short I think she's open to at least going and checking it out, now obviously I'm not gonna push her because I love and respect her and I'm also hesitant letting someone touch her or me touching someone because I really do love this woman.

I think ultimately my kinks should maybe stay kinks because after I nut I lose interest in them but when her and I have sex I obviously don't lose interest in her. It's basically a case of big head vs small head.

That being said she did give away the other night that two big turn ons for her are her getting gangbanged and me riding a dick while she rides me or all of us in doggy.

Idk im just venting I guess, really love this woman and wild kinky sex is 100% not worth risking her over.

[iamcontent]

If that's something she is willing to do make sure you have a serious talk about it. Also make sure neither of you are the jealous type.

[IDunnoMan]

If that's something she is willing to do make sure you have a serious talk about it. Also make sure neither of you are the jealous type.

Yeah we have talked about it but most of me thinks it should stay fantasy/dirty talk. Even now without it having happened I'm worried about stuff like what if she likes another dick more, what if she starts going without me.

You are definitely right, it's a serious thing.

[elian2]

When you think about it .. sort of ridiculous to expect one person to satisfy ALL of your sexual, romantic, emotional, mental and physical needs to perfection but that's what we're sold growing up. That's why we enter into relationship with others in the first place,, at home, at work, etc.

Not saying that I condone cheating ..I wish people could be as open about it as possible. but it's just something I've thought about having friends who are poly.

You may fill a bigger need in her life than three guys one time at a theater ever will. I'm sure she has fantasies just the same as you do.

[KDaddy23]

I remember talking to my youngest son and a guy who was contemplating cheating on his wife and I asked him, "I want you to think about some other dude laying the pipe to your wife and how do you feel about that?" As you might expect, he lost his shit just thinking about some other guy doing her and I said, "Well, if that thought bothers you, maybe you should also think about how she might feel about you porking some other woman."

Shit, I remember the first time I saw my wife having sex with another guy. I thought that I could handle it... and I didn't so much; I wanted to beat the shit out of both of them but caught myself and shoved those thoughts out of my head and... I was okay and got deep into having sex with the other guy's woman - and finding out that he, too, almost lost his shit to see her with me and really enjoying what I was doing to her.

Anytime you get to thinking about some other guy banging your woman, you really should think about how that might make you feel and know that a lot of guys say that they can handle it... and find that they can't and that's when things go seriously sideways and, sadly, I've seen it happen way too many times. In this, it's... not just about you; it's about her, too. elian2 correctly says that it is patently ridiculous to expect one person to satisfy all of your needs but, sure - if the two of you can sit and talk about these other needs without losing your respective shits in the process, well, if nothing else, the needs are out in the open and now doing something about them is another conversation. Nothing wrong with having the fantasy but making it a reality could prove to be a very different kettle of fish because even if she had the fantasy of being gangbanged and fucked silly, it doesn't mean that she actually wants to experience it...

[Jazminedress]

I have friends that are in the "Lifestyle" as they call it, if I was married, no, I could not handle it. Yes I have had threesomes, foursomes and such..............but not married ones

[iamcontent]

Sometimes a fantasy best left been a fantasy for some people

[Kysquire]

Yeah we have talked about it but most of me thinks it should stay fantasy/dirty talk. Even now without it having happened I'm worried about stuff like what if she likes another dick more, what if she starts going without me.

You are definitely right, it's a serious thing.

Sounds like you should leave it alone for now. If she talks you into it and you really want to go through with it, go ahead. But you guys need some ground rules and a safe word. It can be fun if you are both of the same mind, but it could be VERY stressful to one or both of you if you are not prepared for all of this. Good luck to both of you.

[elian2]

With the number of daytime court TV shows I've watched it amazed me the first time I ran into a couple where the spouse wasn't "jealous" but some people aren't. Still, some good advice from others here.

For me, when I form a relationship with someone I want to put all of myself into that, I would like it to be at least somewhat meaningful. It takes a lot of energy to do that with just one person, let alone more than one -- so I prefer being monogamous but I have done a handful of threesomes. I'm grateful to them because at the time I really needed and was happy to have affection from both partners to help me understand what I really wanted, needed and/or deserved.

Some people just want sex, and if everyone is consenting, fine .. I have no problem with that -- I prefer if everyone knows and is cool with it, just because I grew up in a divorced household and I know that that can be like if there are children involved.

[fredward]

When my wife and I started swinging several years ago, I wondered how we would both feel. We were totally cool with it, it turns out. We know who we’re going home with at the end of the night. We know we are each other’s life partner. Specifically for me, I was kinda happy she was getting a new experience that I couldn’t give her (cos I’m a different person). Neither of us ever felt threatened. Neither of us worried that the other might find something “better” and want to do that only from now on. Sex is a lot more fun now.

[dicktrobing]

So there's this adult theater sorta near me, the kind of place with a screen and couches no booths. I went there once a while back just to check it out but I didn't participate, but I saw a bunch of guys messing around. So anyway my fianc? knows basically everything there is to know about my sexual history and and we dirty talk alot during sex so long story short I think she's open to at least going and checking it out, now obviously I'm not gonna push her because I love and respect her and I'm also hesitant letting someone touch her or me touching someone because I really do love this woman.

I think ultimately my kinks should maybe stay kinks because after I nut I lose interest in them but when her and I have sex I obviously don't lose interest in her. It's basically a case of big head vs small head.

That being said she did give away the other night that two big turn ons for her are her getting gangbanged and me riding a dick while she rides me or all of us in doggy.

Idk im just venting I guess, really love this woman and wild kinky sex is 100% not worth risking her over.

There's one thing her talking dirty to you as she has worked out what turns you on.
If you want to "swing" then you both have to be really confident in your relationship

[marine20]

i have had some of my best sex times at the adult theater we had in town. it kept losing money over the years , and finally went out of business. but while it was going on , it was fucking great. i got lots of pussy and lots of cock too. i urge you to go , just bring lots of rubbers, to be on the safe side.the worst that can happen is you don't like it , and won't be back. the best that can happen , is you fulfill all of your fantasies and you keep going back. maybe even meet some good FWB's.

[colfax129]

I went to the Jefferson Theater once, in Portland. It had two sides. One showing straight porn, (the larger,) and one showing gay porn. The sign in the lobby stated "Don't enter if you are offended by live sex." I spent about an hour there watching all sorts of sex acts. M/M, M/F. It was definitely an eye opener! Saw one guy sitting in the middle of a row, by himself, openly stroking his cock. I was attracted to his cock, and openly cruised him. His glance never left the screen, so I was too afraid to do more than sit in his row. He never gave any hint that he was open to a blowjob, so I chickened out. It would have been my first.

[julyguybill]

Used to have 5 or 6 in San Antonio
But as far as i
know all.have closed
down. I went almost once
A week . I loved going . You see the person
for me a guy . You make eye contact if all looks good you go for it. I almost always was able to suck guys cocks and get mine sucked as well. I went to suck
Guys most times sucked on at least two cocks. I think
The most at one time was six and four came. I
Truely loved every srcond i was there sucking
I totaly miss the action there

[Bi_Dave]

Anyone remember the Monroe theater in Rochester, NY? Before they raided it it was a real hot place to go and play. I remember standing behind a wall that blocked most of the seats, I had my pants down with a guys cock between my legs behind me and a guy on his knees in in front of me sucking my cock. That was one of my best time!

[BigAlNYC]

Ahhh, the good old days. Had my first real sex with a man in an adult theater near Detroit, an experience I repeated several times. Also once very memorably got a great bj from a nice looking older (probably in her late 30s, funny now that that was once so "old" to me) white wife while she repeatedly cumming hard from being fucked by a random black guy (who I don't think she ever actually saw) from behind and her man (husband?) was cheering her on. I'm amazed that any of these places are still operating.

[Highadventure619]

Please remember you will be bringing your lady into a sexualy charged atmosphere. There will more than likely be unwanted advances and It's important to keep her safe. However, I must admit, it is immensely HOT!

[Neonaught]

My wife and I are experienced swingers and we made a few simple rules before we set forth. Having already been married decades and raised two kids, our relationship was pretty secure, despite some infidelities on her part over the years. If you are going to interact with others, you must BOTH be absolutely secure and honest/open in your communications. Discuss likes and limits in as much detail as possible and do everything you can to ball park possible senecios and have a contingency plan ready to implement. I don't know your ages, personalities or how committed your are to each other so it not easy to give more than basic advice. You both decide you are ready, set ground rules and stick to them! You must both have the unquestioned power to bring it all to a screeching halt and get the hell out of there if one of you feels things are going sideways. Guarding your health is very important. You can't vet the health and STD status of a strange cock sticking through a hole in the wall and you'll probably find the other patrons may not want to use condoms. As the old saying goes "Lust is fleeting, but Herpes lasts forever.". Good luck and choose wisely.

[sissyjackie]

Back in the late 70's early 80's on the north shore in Mass their seem to be an adult theater in almost every town. Boston had a bunch of them down at what was called the combat zone. There was an adult dive-in on rt 133 in Georgetown Mass my girlfriend and I use to go to a lot. She would wear a dress with nothing under neath and I would wear baggy sweats. Before My girlfriend I would go alone and quickly found out how many married guys were looking to get blown.

[Tight1-4u]

I have been to many adult book stores over the years.. been involved in many multi man play sessions.. it was has always been me taking all the cock.. I just seem to attract men that want to fuck me.. they just seem to line up and get what they want..