How did you feel when you discovered most of your friends had bigger cocks than you. My first guy was 11 inches id gave me a complex about my 6 incher
How did you feel when you discovered most of your friends had bigger cocks than you. My first guy was 11 inches id gave me a complex about my 6 incher
Take heart, guywholikesboth, your bone is well above average. Despite all of the fanfare about ubiquitous "huge cocks", the data is in and it tells a much different story.
According to a recent study involving over 15,000 dicks, researchers determined that the average erect penis is 13.12 cm (5.16 inches) long and that 95% of erect penises fall within the range of 9.8 cm (3.86 in) to 16.44 cm (6.47 in). The chart below shows the cumulative distribution of human junk size. Note the graph is in centimeters, so it's a bit tricky to read if you're inclined to think in inches (1 inch = 2.54 cm). It's pretty much a "normal" distribution with a tail on both ends, so as you'll readily recall from your favorite stats class, this means that only 2.5% of dudes would be observed to have dongs larger than ~6.5 inches. Let that sink in for a moment. You're in a room with 99 other guys, and only about 3 guys in the room are likely to have an endowment larger than 6.5 inches. And odds are that even those 3 lucky dudes aren't sporting much over 7, if even. And yea, this also means that about 3 unfortunate souls are harboring less than 4 inches.
Oh sure, there will be cocks in the wild that truly clock in at 8, 9, 10+ inches, but this data says that is extremely rare. While it may be tempting to think that a sample size of 15,000 is too small to be representative of the ~3.5 billion men on earth, the fact is that a sufficiently random sample of this size is accurate to <1% margin of error at a 95% confidence level. There may be variations among ethnic groups that they didn't account for, but that just means that for any group who is a bit bigger on average (I'm talking to you, BBC), some other group(s) would be smaller on average (show of hands, anyone?).
Yet, nearly personal ad, or reply thereto, seems to boast something well in excess of 6.5". Am I right? Someone's lying. Or not measuring correctly.
https://www.realclearscience.com/jou...at_109106.html
Link to the scientific journal article. Paid access required for the full article.
https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary....1111/bju.13010
Last edited by BeauKnerr; Apr 21, 2021 at 2:12 PM.
Well I soon learned, that some other guys had bigger cocks, than myself and that is the reason for making new friends. My own cock was my best friend and it has always provide me great pleasures so, I never felt that I had a complex about my size. Over the many years of meeting other guys, I never had any complaints. My first time one with neighbor friend and he was several inches bigger than me and he told me that he wished that his cock, was not so big and he enjoyed playing my cock. Even though his cock was longer, mine was a bit thicker.Originally Posted by guywholikesboth
Understand, life is but a short Journey, people must try to experience and enjoy any, and all, of various sexual opportunities that they can, while they are able to! The lasting memories can be great!
I never really had any idea of how I stacked up, because I didn't look at dicks in the shower room in high school, so I had no idea if my friends' were bigger, smaller or about the same size as mine. My wife measured me once in the early years of our marriage and subsequently proclaimed that I had about 7 inches. Frankly, I didn't think it was that big, but was ok with the fact that she thought I was above average. It didn't really matter until we started to play with swinging 40 or more years later.
It was then that I started to pay attention to claims in the profiles of potential play partners (for her) in ads on adult sites, like SwingLifestyle, OurHotWives, etc. After we had a few experiences, I observed -- and she confirmed my opinion -- that most of the guys' cocks were the smaller than mine or about the same. I can only remember seeing two that I could confidently say were bigger than me. I'm neither bragging nor complaining.
Now that I'm playing as a mature CD, there are a lot of opinions about what's most desirable. Some guys and other 'gurls' love the size of my appendage and want to experience both oral and anal pleasure with it. I don't top for a couple of reasons, mostly because my erections aren't what they used to be and an anus tends to be tighter than a vagina, so it would be difficult to achieve that.
There's another type of CD-lover, who prefers a small 'sissy clit' that doesn't get hard and flops around. If that were the best I could manage, it would be ok, but I like to be able to get fairly large and mostly-stiff, and delight my play partner with a pleasurable mouth-feel...
Last edited by SilkyHoseLover; Apr 21, 2021 at 2:44 PM.
Me and the fellas loved to compare our sizes and keep tabs on our growth and, yep, we'd note that this guy was bigger or that guy was smaller and even at the age we were - averaged at 9 - penis envy was setting in with the smaller guys. I got razzed about how big my dick was; one guy, while showering after gym class, gave me some shit about my dick being double jointed and implied that I wasn't getting any pussy because it was too big and fat - and I laughed and said I was getting plenty of pussy. Some guys who were as big or bigger than I was were getting the business and gave them what I called "reverse penis envy" in that they wished their cocks were smaller, understandable because girls (at the time) could be terrified of big, fat dicks. Girls would shame guys about their lack of size something fierce and adding to the dilemma... but I never had any envy over someone else's cock because, duh, I was sucking them and taking them in my ass and size didn't mean anything other than it might hurt going in my butt or it might not, that and I realized early on that there wasn't anything I could do to make it bigger or smaller... and neither could any other guy.
i have 6 med. thick and it got the job done i have had bigger cocks in my mouth and butthole but it was all fun to me
I do sometimes worry about it. I'm 6 ave, and wondered if it was enough.
I'm average, but somewhat thick and I've only had two women complain about it - one was a nymphomaniac - (no seriously - they are not fun for long) and the other had a pussy you could park a truck in. I've never had a man complain though and the almost 100 women I've had have never complained in fact some said they loved my cock. Don't base yourself on what other's are packing - it's about a lot more than size.
well, as someone who is on the other side of those penis................let me tell you, thats a perfect size. Yeah the big ones are fun to play with a little and look at, but at the end of the day, not so much.
When sucking, getting choked out because of the penis size while trying to give a pleasureable deep throat, takes the fun away from me. I dont know why all the pornos show the man slamming into someones mouth and forcing the head all the way down, I would bite a guys dick off for doing that to me.
Another problem with the bigger ones, many times, you are limited to positions if they arnt careful, they can do some damage.
As someone who has been on both sides of the equation, you bring your A game and your tongue and a willingness to get your partner all worked up before intercourse and no one will care whether your 6 inches or 8, we will be so worked up all we care about is making sure you are happy
I have never had that issue. Of all of the guys I have played with only one has a cock bigger than mine; few roughly the same size and the rest were in awe at my man meat.
I guess I am blessed. It's funny but I never saw myself as having a big cock. I'm a grower not a shower and reach right at 8" (20.3 cm) and neither men nor women have ever had any complaints about it hurting them (I am always super-careful). Every now and then I meet a bottom guy who can't take it but not often.
I recently started to bottom with my favorite versatile guy and believe me I am glad he's only average sized! LOL
For those of you who are average or smaller I say this: go forth with confidence and use all your skills and your partner won't care about getting out the ruler!
Im about 6 inches myself with a decent thickness. I admit I would like about an inch longer but it has never gotten complaints ( that I know of) so I am happy with it
Never worry about your size length/thickness a penis is a penis they come in all shapes sizes and colors but they work the same what matters is what you enjoy weather it is fondling , caressing , stroking , getting a warm wet mouth wrapped around it or slipping it into a tight warm vagina/ass just you and whom ever you are with enjoy the foreplay , enjoy the act , lose yourself in the result
Thanks Jazz, I'm definitely more info the passionate, kissing, rubbing, foreplay, building to sex type of guy
When I was younger I was insecure, nobody ever said anything to me, but I was nervous about it. Now I’m perfectly fine with my size, I’m below average at about 4 inches and not thick. I’m very happy with what I’ve got
I laughed about this, it seems when I was younger I seemed bigger than most I saw, now guys I meet are often bigger than me down there. It doesn’t bother me I’m turned on by whether it’s different, different head shapes, widths, size overall, amount of hair, balls, cut or uncut, complexion.
I think 6" is about the goldilocks size!
I like the way you put it
when I was 12 I discovered I was smaller than my friends, I really didn't think much of it. When i was older and having a lot of m to m sex i realized I was smaller than average. For quite awhile I was i top and most bottoms enjoyed me. With women I found most were more interested in how well I used my cock, as to how big it was, and had the ability to be sensual, and skilled at oral.. I also made sure I was an excellent cocksucker, and gained a reputation as such.
Over time I became a bottom, so size was even less an issue. I'm attracted to cocks 6 inches and up that have decent girth. I love how cocks that have a large head and a meaty shaft feel in my mouth, it is so sensual. I also become submissive to a guy that has a larger cock. My fiancee tells me I'm the smallest she has ever had, but she loves our sex life. Sometimes when she's very aroused she doesn't feel me very well, and foe those times we bought an extender and some toys.
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