Originally Posted by
Leo Rabbit
I'm 57 and my wife and I are done having children. I've been considering a vasectomy but I'm curious about the sexual repercussions. With my wife I like that birth control will no longer be an issue. But as I'm delving into the Bi side of my sexuality I wonder if other men who have had one can speak to any changes they experienced.
There's the physical changes: the immediate need to not have sex in order to heal. But after that was there any change in your ability to get hard, fuck, cum?
Then there's the psychological changes: I'm still trying to wrap my head around the idea that I want to have sex with guys which is triggering lots of past conditioning about what I was taught about being a "real man". Second, I'm more a bottom/Submissive so I'm already feeling less "manly" and now the thought of taking away my ability to reproduce (despite no more desire to have any additional kids) feels like one more step away from the Masculine.
Thoughts? Advice? Comforting words?
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