Sucking Off Family?

[lovetoswallowcum]

I know this is a somewhat delicate subject, but has anyone ever sucked off a member of his family?

I had sex with my Dad when I was 13. I had already been going down a buddy in school at the time. But one night it just happened.

I don't know if he meant for it to happen. He and I were just talking nothing important, just guy stuff. He asked me if I would consider having sex with guy, and told him I was sucking Mike. He asked me if liked it and I said yes.

He then wanted to know if Mike was sucking me and told him of course. I was getting hard. Dad looked at me for a second and then stood up and took off his clothes. He had a massive hard on. He wanted to know if I liked his cock. I got down on my knees and started to suck him. I could hear him groan.

He asked me to stop and then told me to take off my clothes and we went into my bedroom. We spent the night sucking cock.

We would have sex a lot after that. My Mom never knew.

Dad had a nice cock and his cum tasted so damn good!!!

[tenni]

Do you realize that you and your father were guilty of statutory rape?

In California, the age of consent is 18 according to a quick google scan. Even though you were a minor you were guilty of statutory rape as well as Mike also a statutory rapists (probably based on what you wrote?). A minor may also be a statutory rapist even though they are under the age of consent. Some areas have condition for teens and two years on each side of the age of the teen as not statutory rape and permits consent to be used to protect the teen.

[jem_is_bi]

That type of conversation with my dad was impossible.
Further, if he ever found out about any male-male sexual activity by me or any of my brothers, the punishment would have been very severe.
Also, I never had any desire to have sex with him or my brothers (or sisters).

[jem_is_bi]

Do you realize that you and your father were guilty of statutory rape?

In California, the age of consent is 18 according to a quick google scan. Even though you were a minor you were guilty of statutory as well as Mike. A minor may also be a statutory rapist even though they are under the age of consent.

I suspect his situation is not common, but not rare.
While technically, it may be criminal behavior, seldom is it brought into the criminal justice system.
If situations like his were vigorously investigated and prosecuted it is likely more social harm than good would be the result.
When I was 5 years old I convinced another 5 year old to engage in oral sex activity a few times. So, I was technically a 5 year old rapist.
If those laws were vigorously enforced, prisons would be filled with rapists like him and me.

[NJwood]

Never had the conversation with my dad. Did see his cock when we would bathe together. Nothing sexual. I was very young. I remember it’s size and that he was uncut. I’m cut. What I didn’t know was that he was bi. That I learned when I cleaned out his apt and found gay porn videos. Never around family much when I was going through puberty.

[tenni]

I suspect his situation is not common, but not rare.
While technically, it may be criminal behavior, seldom is it brought into the criminal justice system.
If situations like his were vigorously investigated and prosecuted it is likely more social harm than good would be the result.
When I was 5 years old I convinced another 5 year old to engage in oral sex activity a few times. So, I was technically a 5 year old rapist.
If those laws were vigorously enforced, prisons would be filled with rapists like him and me.

Jem
Where I live (Canada), there have been several legislations over the past 15 years to try to deal with minors having sex together without legally having to use the courts for statutory rapists. The minor situation is dealt with by using the two years on each side of the minor rapist victim. i.e. A 15 year old may have sex with another minor as long as they are no more older than two years or two years younger than the victim. The 15 years old may have sex with a 17 year as the eldest or 13 year old as the minimum.

I'm not a lawyer but I suspect that an adult male having sex with a minor would be charged if caught. Two minors may have some form of counselling etc. rather than having to live the rest of their life with statutory rape on a rap sheet.

I don't think there is public reporting on statutory rape of minors in Canada? I do suspect that there are lists of statutory rapists...sometimes called pedophiles.

[Flypaper]

There are lots of intangibles in lovetoswallows post. First, if it was decades ago (like, the 50s or 60s?), and they had been discovered, perhaps no charges would have been placed unless it was his mom that did so. I think legal systems and mores in general have evolved to the point that nobody would think a father asking his 13 yo to suck his cock would be acceptable - if it ever was!

Ive heard the age difference thing for underage coitus. The Romeo and Juliet principle. Amd it reminds me - my first bi experience was when I was 11 and I went down to the woods with my friends to try and smoke our parents cigarettes and generally be pretend vagrants. I must have been starting puberty because my cock came out and my 9 year old friend asked to have a taste.

I remember nothing about how long I let him taste me or if I came, but I remember while on our bikes riding home he kept spitting and saying “it tastes salty!” Whether or not I knew about sperm or precum, I told him it was just a little piss he had tasted and we agreed never to speak of it again.

Ive known this guy all my life and our wives and kids know each other and I’ve never, ever asked him about his memory of the event.

The fact we were both underage back then wouldn’t have been statutory rape I don’t think, but I don’t know about now.

Jem
Where I live (Canada), there have been several legislations over the past 15 years to try to deal with minors having sex together without legally having to use the courts for statutory rapists. The minor situation is dealt with by using the two years on each side of the minor rapist victim. i.e. A 15 year old may have sex with another minor as long as they are no more older than two years or two years younger than the victim. The 15 years old may have sex with a 17 year as the eldest or 13 year old as the minimum.

I'm not a lawyer but I suspect that an adult male having sex with a minor would be charged if caught. Two minors may have some form of counselling etc. rather than having to live the rest of their life with statutory rape on a rap sheet.

I don't think there is public reporting on statutory rape of minors in Canada? I do suspect that there are lists of statutory rapists...sometimes called pedophiles.

[KDaddy23]

Any current laws just didn't exist in their current form decades ago; the age of consent where I live and back in the 50s and 60s was 10... and didn't include sex among males. I think we can all agree that such things should never happen... doesn't ever change the fact that they did and that for some, it is part of their bisexual journey. Whether such experiences were traumatic or not, shouldn't this place be a safe place for us to talk about these things since, again, for a lot of people, it's how they became bisexual. Underaged male friends throwing it down with each other? "Just" boys being boys and one of those "no harm, no foul" things that polite society is fine with turning a blind eye to; they even expect us to do it but with the caveat that once we get to be a certain age, all of that fooling around has to and should stop immediately. Even I know that back in my day, it was happening and wasn't being reported and I can remember only two instances where an adult got sent to prison for underaged sex - and both times involved girls.

It makes no sense to apply today's laws to acts that occurred before those laws appeared in their current form. Was it illegal back then? Probably was. The real thing is that, hopefully, no one in their right mind would do that today and knowing that in some locales, being prosecuted can result in a life sentence and being sent to prison with other men who take a very dim view of such things and are likely to end your life. But 2021 ain't 1950 or anytime before that. We come here to talk about being bisexual and that includes how we became that way and the experiences, if any, we had along the way. We don't promote such behaviors nor do we encourage it. It's good to be reminded how illegal it is today but don't get it twisted because there was a time in this country when it wasn't all that illegal, not as it is today.

[biwmtrucker44]

Everyone mostly talks about the Statutory rap laws but not the incest law. You may want to look at this map ...... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legality_of_incest

[marine20]

the original question was ( has anyone ever sucked off a member of his family ). not , what are the laws of the land . please stick to the question. BTW, no i have never done that .

[tenni]

Flypaper & KD

It is my understanding that there are no statue of limitations on how many years may pass in between the original sexual act and filing a sexual abuse complaint today. (where I live)

[guywholikesboth]

I sucked both my Fathers cock and my younger brothers One day my father was drunk and I was sitting in a chair in our living room where I had a clear view of of my father in bed his cock was hanging out of his boxers it was hard I sucked a few guys cocks and enjoyed it no one else was home I went into the room his cock was huge I touched it and got no response from him so I went down on him still no response to my sucking it he was sound asleep I continued until I got the taste of his pre cum i kept sucking and then he started to cum he gave me a nice load of cum made sure I got it all he never woke up. My younger brother was a sleep shared a room and bunk beds I came into the room and saw him sleeping with his cock hanging out I touched it it was soft was about 4 inches and thick as i played with it it got hard it was about 8 inches and thick I started to suck him and he was sound a sleep took about 15 min and he started to cum he filed my mouth with 6 blast of thick cum swallowed it all. I also had a sexual relations ship with a younger cousin that lasted for years. it only happend once with my father and brother. both had bigger cocks than me

[lovetoswallowcum]

Dad and I had sex together for many years. My mother did not know or did not care. His cock tasted so damn good. We would go away together on weekends and just spend the day in bed together sucking cock and swallowing cum.

Even when he was in his Seventies, we would suck cock. He would spread his legs and I would swallow his cock. I never got tired of swallowing his cum.

[Oborokybiman]

This site has helped me in the past. It has answered lots of questions that I never knew could be answered personally by people who are in the same boat as myself. I have not been with a family member same or opposite sex. It never occurred to me to do that. Only because the situation never came about. The person asking the question is just like myself back in 2009. He wants to know if he is the only one or if someone could relate to his situation. It’s about compassion. Not about judgement. This is the last place we should pass judgement.

[Bi_Rocker]

My two male cousins and their sister and I used to sit around, masturbate and go down on each other all the time from when I was in 7th grade till around a year after graduating high school. I still suck off one of my cousins once in awhile.

[ocaladouglas]

My first sexual encounter was with a cousin couple years older then me loved sucking him off and on for a few years after that. I also got to suck my brothers a couple times and an Uncle a couple times.

[Polar Bear]

Two people consenting to sex is a beautiful thing regardless of sex or gender. But what about age? Society draws the line at various ages for consent. Were these ages scientifically studied and arbitrarily chosen or were they driven by church "moral code"? Do you feel stigmatized by societal norms? Would some of this behavior be considered pedophilic when looked at by outsiders? Laws aside, did any of you feel victimized or traumatized? I'm trying to decide whether to put an anthropological research study together to answer some of these questions. I'm especially interested in the historical aspect. But for now, these are my personal queries. If you prefer to chat one on one and not reveal your answers here. I can provide an email address. None of this will be used in the research study if or when it occurs.

[Rvdude05]

I had a 60 year old uncle, that lived 2 blocks down the street. I would visit him often, and he would buy me comic books. One night I asked if I could sleep over, and he agreed, as long as Mom approved. Mom agreed, and I spent the night. At bed time he told me to undress for bed. I undressed down to my undershirts, and he told me to take them off, as it was unhealthy. I removed them, and watched as he undressed. He noticed I was staring at his penis, and he wanted to know why. I told him it didnt look like mine, and he explained it had been circumcised. I asked if it hurt, and he told me it felt good when someone touched it. He got in bed and wanted to know if I wanted to touch it, and I did. He got real hard as I inspected it, and checked his ball sack. He told me that it felt so good, and showed me how to jerk it. I was getting hard myself, and he suddenly asked if I would put it in my mouth, to make the milk come out.i put it in my mouth, he showed me how to suck, so my teeth wouldn't bit him. Me moaned loudly, and shot his milk into my mouth. I was surprised, and spit it out all over his stomach. He told me later, I should have swallowed it, that it was good for me. He played with my hard cock, and put it in his mouth. That felt so good, and in a few minutes my milk was flowing into his mouth. He swallowed and told me it tasted so good. From then on, he would ask if i wanted some milk, and if i said yes, he would take his cock out for me to suck... I spent several years of my young life, sleeping there, off and on, and sucked his milk out many-many times.

[Fzmr9t]

I?ve imagined it a few times but never have IRL. I did see my dads cock a few times when I was a kid. We had 1 bathroom and we both had to pee so we ?shared? the toilet. I recall it being very thick

[Fred_Brice]

I also live remember back in the 50s and 60s was still a pre-teen and did not include sex among males. I think we can all agree that such things should never happen, it does not ever change the fact that they did and that for some, it is part of their Bisexual Journey. Whether such experiences were traumatic or not, for a lot of people, maybe it is how they became bisexual. Underage male friends throwing it down with each other it is just about boys being boys and one of those "no harm, no foul" things that polite society, is fine with turning a blind eye to; they even expect us to do it but with the caveat that once we get to be a certain age, all of that fooling around has to and should stop immediately. Even I know that back in my day, it was happening and was not being reported. I did not try anything back then with another male, since I was more interested in learning about the females gender on a few occasions I was spending some extra time with a female cousins and her breast. Since my wife passing a few years ago is when I did turn to male to male sex and I now find that I do enjoy sex with another male.

[KDaddy23]

I also live remember back in the 50s and 60s was still a pre-teen and did not include sex among males. I think we can all agree that such things should never happen, it does not ever change the fact that they did and that for some, it is part of their Bisexual Journey. Whether such experiences were traumatic or not, for a lot of people, maybe it is how they became bisexual. Underage male friends throwing it down with each other it is just about boys being boys and one of those "no harm, no foul" things that polite society, is fine with turning a blind eye to; they even expect us to do it but with the caveat that once we get to be a certain age, all of that fooling around has to and should stop immediately. Even I know that back in my day, it was happening and was not being reported. I did not try anything back then with another male, since I was more interested in learning about the females gender on a few occasions I was spending some extra time with a female cousins and her breast. Since my wife passing a few years ago is when I did turn to male to male sex and I now find that I do enjoy sex with another male.

"Usually" handled under no harm, no foul for the most part. Knew a few of the guys I grew up with learned the ropes with dad's dick before sharing their knowledge with us. Later, you learn that, shit, okay, that shouldn't be going on but it changes nothing and if it's not reported - some guy calling foul on dad - then there's no "crime." The guys getting dad's dick were, I'd have to say, happy guys and more than eager to have sex with the rest of us. The 50s and 60s, it seems, was a period of time where such things were going on a lot; I definitely recall none of us thinking it was unusual - or "wrong" for a dad to introduce his son to dick because it happened and no harm, no foul. As Fred says, society likes to turn a blind eye to these things; they know it happens but as long as no one cries foul - or until someone does - society is happy to not pitch a bitch about it so much. That same society assumes that anyone who experienced this was victimized to the nth degree... but I know that the guys who got dad's dick wanted to get it. Loved getting it. Nothing to see here; just the way things were. And especially those guys who were the only child in the family. Shit, I even remember us being "jealous" about those guys getting dad's dick. It was still wrong, of course but, still. Don't condone it but it happens and unless someone cries foul and arrests are made, what can society do about it?

[Waylon]

Does getting blowjobs from mom count?

[Into_it_all]

My cousin & I would Suck each other’s Dicks when we were younger. He is a year older than me & we both loved to stay up late while we swapped head every chance we got. He ended up Fucking me a few times & I loved feeling his Cock inside me. We loved every minute of it.

[csreef]

NO --

[happymouthandtongue]

Sucked a couple of cousins cocks when we were young, no big deal, they were too young to cum. I always liked older guys that could feed me their cum. I did have an older sister that made me eat her pussy when we were young. I had grabbed her panties off her bed while she was taking a shower. I was sniffing them and jacking off when she open my door. I was scared to death, she called me a dirty little pervert and walked in front of me, took her panties back and then rubbed them on my face. Her being so close and the smell of her panties made me hard again. She told me to finish jerking jerking off, she wanted to watch. Then she dropped her towel and forced my face into her crotch and told me to lick her. All of a sudden I blew my load all over my hand. She stood back and said that she wanted me to lick my cum off my hand, I did. I always ate my cum and I’d been sucking other guys for years. After I finished licking my cum up, she took me in to bedroom and told me to eat her some more, she came and forced my head back and told me to get out. After that, I’d sometimes find her dirty panties on my dresser, a little gift from her to sniff.

[tongueteaser]

I am really surprised after reading these responses. I didnt realize that there were that many people having fun with their own relatives. Especially sucking each others cock. I thought about how I would like to try sucking a few cocks back in high school. There were a few feminine guys with a nice cock I wanted. Thing was you would never admit it or go about it or you would be chased and beaten from the school and neighborhood. You family would be ashamed of you to say the least. I used to stay away on summer vacation when schools closed and live on a nice farm with my cousins. I used to go out in the woods with my female cousin and admire her. I always thought about fucking her and eating her and exploring her sweet body. Never got that far though.

[KDaddy23]

It's our "dirty little secret" that a lot of men and women discover their bisexuality - and sex - in this way. I understand and appreciate the courage it takes for one to talk about how they got their love of dick in this very forbidden way because it's just one of those human things that happens and, yeah, legalities would prefer that they don't... but, again, hasn't changed the fact that some do have this experience... and it's not always as bad as we assume that it is... or that it should be.

Very sensitive subject... but one steeped in reality just the same.

[CockHummer]

I didn't yet have a clue about sucking cock one day probably at about age eleven, when out of nowhere (as in I no longer have a clue how we got started), my two year younger brother and I stripped in our shared bedroom and just started playing with each other's cocks. For some time we just stroked each other. Then I had him lie down in bed and pretended he was a girl and I was fucking him by moving like I was fucking a girl but instead of going in and out of a pussy (or his anus--that would not yet have even occurred to me), I was just rubbing my hard cock up and down against his, and it felt really hot. I no longer recall whether I came. As good as it felt, we never did it again and never mentioned it.

I first masturbated to orgasm in my father's bedroom on his bed when I was nine years old and my parents had divorced. My brother (I only have the one) and I would go to visit him on weekends, but he would often work on the Saturday and leave me and Todd alone for several hours. The craziest thing was that he left Playboy magazines out all over the apartment, generally open to pages with pictures of really hot naked gals. That was a big part of what brought me to my first orgasm jerking off, and it got to where I would spend hours sometimes on a Saturday, while he was working, down in his unheated bathroom stark naked with a pile of the magazines and I'd have a field day stroking myself while looking at tits and ass and deciding what shapes turned me on the most and imagining that I was in a real relationship with these adult women. Now, I never came close in any way to having sex with my father, like some here have described, but later in my adulthood, I must think somehow tied to the fact that I learned to masturbate in his bed as well as the fact that I had later developed intense sexual interest in cock, and years after he had died way too young (at the age of 36), I would masturbate imagining that my father was with me in the room on his bed, and he would make me strip naked but not touch me and while he was fully clothed but with his zipper down just have me take his hot cock out of his pants and suck him off, while I lay there in the bed stark naked with his cock in my mouth and an aching erection that he would just look at, and that fantasy would make me cum so hard!!! I know it was silly, but it made me feel somewhat guilty, so I would not do it often, but whenever I did go with that fantasy, it felt so damned good and I would shoot a bucket of cum!

A funny one, in a sense, was my mom. She was a beautiful woman with a really sexy body, but as I think is probably somewhat normal, I couldn't see her as sexually attractive as a child and adolescent. She was my mom. I mean, cognitively I knew she was very sexually attractive to other men, and I knew they weren't crazy, but I just couldn't feel it. And then, after the experience of getting off on imagining having sex with my dad, I decided what the fuck, and I allowed myself to cross that line (in a sense, it was more like I had to make myself do it, but I really wanted to, just to see what came of it, no pun intended), too, again, only in my imagination. I decided I was going to seriously and carefully imagine my mother's body naked, as I knew it had to be shaped, judging pretty well from what I always saw when she was dressed--I mean, she had big tits and a nicely shaped bottom that were very obvious when she was fully clothed, but now instead imagined without clothes, and I put her head and face on that naked body I imagined, with her hair really done up and her face made up beautifully as she always did, and I fantasized that she was not my mother at all but some beautiful, buxom woman who wanted to fuck me desperately. Imagining her naked and making the image as close to reality as I could possibly imagine it, and then allowing myself to drop all the natural inhibitions to that and letting myself imagine sucking her tits and eating her pussy and playing with her ass (while she, unlike my dad, gave me the hottest deep throat blow job) before I pumped my cock in and out of her pussy and came inside her, I could really understand what men saw in her, and I had another source of really powerful orgasms, which of course also made me feel guilty, so it remained very powerful whenever I let myself do it. For whatever reason, of the two, I would get turned on quite a bit more imagining reaching in and pulling my father's dick out of his pants to suck it, while I alone lay there naked next to him on his bed anxiously coaxing him to feed me, but they were both good and enjoyably very different, powerfully erotic experiences. Now that I think of it, my brother, my father, and my mother were my entire family, so I have either had sex or very successfully fantasized about having sex with everyone in my family.

[jimmy1664]

I'm getting hard just reading this!

[jjourneyman]

I never had sex with any male family members, but my older sister and I (she's one year older than me) started having regular sex in our mid-teens.

It started innocently enough with her rubbing lotion on my sunburned back and legs after spending all day at the pool together. I was laying on my stomach. The feeling of her hands putting cool lotion on me made me super hard to the point where the head of my dick was protruding down past the leg hem of my bathing suite. She kind of giggled when she saw it. When I asked her what was so funny, she reached down and put her hand around my cock and said, "Oh, there's nothing funny about this guy." I don't know if I was more shocked or embarrassed. Then she gave it a hard squeeze. "Don't pretend you don't like this," she said. "I've seen you jerking off before. Just the other day, you were in the shower. I went in to get my brush off the sink and there you were. You were so busy, you didn't even realize I was there. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. Everyone does it. I do it all the time." I was surprised to hear my sister talking like that. "Now, roll over. I want to try something."

With me on my back, she told me to raise my hips... that I needed to get my damp bathing suite off. She untied the string and undid the Velcro fly and pulled my suite down past my knees. There I was, lying mostly naked on her bed with my cock sticking straight up. Then she sat down beside me and laid her head on my stomach.

"What's it like?" she asked as she reached over and started slowly stroking me. "What's what like?" I said. "Having a penis, silly. How do you not keep from playing with it all day?" "I don't know... I could ask you the same question."

"I bet you love having it sucked, don't you?" "I don't know. I guess I would. I've never had it sucked before," I said. "Would you like to?" she asked.

Before I could answer, she leaned over and took me into her mouth. If I wasn't shocked before, I was then!

After a couple of minutes of licking and sucking my cock, she stood up. "Don't move," she said as she took off her bikini top and bottoms and climbed back on top of me in a 69 position. She was a lot shorter than me, so I couldn't reach her pussy with my mouth. Instead, I parted her legs and began fingering her. I might have lasted all of three minutes at that point before I had the most mind shattering orgasm of my young life. Being the champ she was, she kept me in her mouth the whole time as she ground her pelvis against my chest. By that time, I had worked three fingers in her pussy, my pinky in her butt and was using my thumb to rub on her clit. Then, with my dick still in her mouth, she ground against me really hard and came with a shudder and loud groan.

I remember we were both drenched in sweat and the whole room smelled like sex. We both laid there for several minutes, trying to catch our breath and thinking about what had just happened.

Finally, she raised up on her elbow, gave my cock a kiss, and said that we had better get dressed before mom or dad got home. She had barely finished her sentence when we heard the garage door opening. I jumped up, grabbed my bathing suite and ran down the hall into my room. I don't think either one of us said a word during dinner that night. I think my mom could sense something had happened, but she thought we'd had an argument or something.

We didn't talk about it for several days until my sister came into my room and asked if I was mad at her? I assured her that I was definitely not mad. A little surprised and confused maybe, but not mad. Then she asked me if I had liked it? "Hell yeah, that was totally hot!" I said. "Good, so did I," she smiled. "Maybe we could do it again sometime... not right now, but soon!"

"That's cool. I'd like that," I said.

Even though we would make out and go down on each other regularly, it was more than a year before we actually had intercourse. We were both too scared she would get pregnant, but that didn't stop us from having regular "playtime" as she called it. We didn't fully consummate our relationship until she turned 16 and started taking the pill. We were still really careful. I would ride my bike over to a gas station that had a condom machine in the bathroom and drown three or four dollars in quarters at a time.

I never have told her that I am bi, even though I strongly suspect that she is too judging from the double-headed dildo and other toys I found hidden inside an old pair of riding boots that she had stashed in the back of her closet when she was away at college.

We still have "playtime" on occasion. We even tried the Zoom thing a couple of times during the pandemic, but we both agreed, it's not nearly as fun as the real thing.