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  1. #1

    Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Yes, I know it “feels good” to have a hard cock in your mouth, and it “feels good” when a jet of hot semen hits the back of your throat, but WHY does it feel good?

    We know it’s not a physiological/evolutionary thing like craving sugars or fats. Cock (clean cock that is) doesn’t really taste like much, and semen (let’s be honest) is not something you would order at a restaurant.

    And it’s not just gay guys (who are innately attracted to men) that like to suck cock. Plenty of cocksuckers don’t really find men attractive, don’t want to date them or wake up next to them in the morning - they just want a cock in their mouth.

    And we know most women don’t get off on it either. Most women do it to get a guy excited and maybe they get a little excited by the naughtiness of what they’re doing, but they don’t get off on it as much as male cocksuckers do.

    So what’s the psychology of men wanting to suck cock and eat cum?

    Is it a need for attention? You’re definitely getting attention when another guy shoves his dick in your mouth.

    Is it an oral fixation thing? Like a subconscious infantile leftover from sucking milk, so we do it when we need reassurance?

    Is it a beta male thing, like an evolutionary survival mechanism to please the alpha?

    In the end it’s kind of a submissive thing, isn’t it?

    Have any of you wondered where the drive comes from? I haven’t been able to find any studies on this.
    Last edited by JordanCD; Feb 8, 2021 at 12:42 AM.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    It’s a great question and one I think about a lot. I struggle to understand my desire and craving to suck another man’s hard penis. When it comes down to it, for me I think I get off on the thought of how naughty it is. I was brought up to think that is wrong To engage in sexual activity with someone of the same sex. I’m not attracted to guys, but the way it makes me feel; being on my knees and having a big hard cock use my mouth for its pleasure feels wrong. And I love it. I like the look of a beautiful big penis. I like to kiss it, sniff it, lick it, slobber all over it and really worship it with my mouth. Being responsible for it shooting warm semen over my face is the ultimate reward. I like filming my cock worshiping sessions too. They’re great to masturbate to when I don’t have anyone to suck.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Before I discovered by bisexual side, I really got off on getting a blowjob almost more than intercourse. Wifey was trained to service me just about any time I wanted some head and she was fantastic. Then I started feeling the need to see if I could make another man feel as good as I did when I got my cock sucked. I was attracted to a clean, muscular man with a good size dick and not much hair, kind of like myself. When I finally found a guy that was kind of like me and started sucking his cock, I did it like in the bisexual blow job porn I had been watching and copied my wife's technique pleasing his cock like I liked mine sucked. When he came I swallowed because it was part of the deal in my opinion. At that point, I knew I had oral talents and could please a man like I enjoyed being pleased, It turned me on knowing that and I realized how submissive I was, just like I had trained my submissive wife. There were times I pretended I was sucking my own cock when I had a man put his dick in my mouth. And that is why I get off on being a cocksucker.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    i can only tell you what it's like for me . i'm a very masculine man , so having a cock in my mouth is just the opposite thing that i should do . in other words it's taboo for me, and nasty , only something a dirty faggot would do. that's why i get off on it. i also love being on my knees while sucking cock , makes me feel very submissive. a bonus is being called a cocksucker , faggot , or any other demeaning names , while servicing another man. these are the things that turn me on while sucking cock. oh yes , a real big turn-on is having a woman watch me closely , call me a fucking cocksucker while sucking her husband !

  5. #5

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    I guess the feeling of seeing another man going down on a guy is a very nice set to seeing and its in enjoyable too hearing him moan as u do it

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    I get off being submissive.

  7. #7

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    The psychology is complicated since it could be all of the things you mentioned and could include being rebellious. Growing up sucking dick, I - and my friends - knew it was wrong for boys to do this... because that's what we were told... but we did it anyway and, yes, sucking a guy's dick felt good - a nod to oral fixation - and taste, eh, kinda/sorta didn't matter a whole lot but the biggest thrill of sucking dick was, again, knowing it was wrong and running the risk of getting caught doing it. At some point in our evolution as humans, somebody sucked a dick for the first time - whether it was a man or a woman is unknown. At some point, two males - and they might have been away from home and hunting - "figured out" that they could suck each other's cocks and cum... and over time, that sexual behavior got encoded into our genes but by the time religion came around, one of it's purposes was to dictate how people were supposed to have sex and who was allowed to... and it wasn't two guys blowing or fucking each other.

    So a guy could, if he wanted to (or had to) suck another guy's cock; indeed, a lot of first time cock suckers are usually scared shitless to do it even though every fiber of their being is telling them to do it and, of course, morality says never to do that or you're gonna die and go to hell or something like that. Mouth meets cock and, wow - this shit feels good! Most guys are surprised to find how quickly they take to sucking a dick and many realize that it feels both right and natural to do it... because it really is... but our morality very much plays into the psychology of it and depends on the individual cock sucker as why he sucks cock and some of that isn't easy to put into words except to say that it feels good, it makes them feel good; it satisfies... something in their psyche, like being submissive or, again, being a sort of a rebel to enjoy doing something that men aren't supposed to be doing to each other.

    I know I'm orally fixated and I'm a rebel as well. My first time was like flipping a switch somewhere inside of me and if didn't understand anything else, I understood that I liked it - and that was before I tasted sperm which, hmm, not all that bad. Sucking on a guy's dick just felt good and just like sucking your thumb can feel good - and why it's hard for some parents to stop children from sucking their thumb and it's not just because it can mess up their teeth. Shit, the second thing we do after we start breathing is we feed... by sucking either on a real nipple or a bottle's nipple. Feeding gets equated to feeling good and, well, take it from there to see that sucking a dick just feels good and cum? Not surprising that a lot of us say that we suck cock because we like being fed his sperm.

    It still always comes down to why; it comes down to the chain of events that led to sucking dick and how doing something known to be forbidden impacts our inner self. Some guys suck cock because it's a form of... self-validation and connected to their sense of self-worth; the list is very long when it comes to the different psychological reasons but the short version is... it feels good to suck cock and feels rewarding to get the other guy to cum - whether you consume it or just feel it on you is a matter of preference.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    As time passed, and just speaking only for myself, I have always had various curiosities, about any and all forms of sexual pleasures, for most human bodies, ever since I was a young tween, I was just too afraid, to acknowledge them, let alone act on them.
    As that young lad, I had soon discovered, that I really was turned on, by my very own small boy cock. Often, I became very fascinated with my cock, by just reaching down and touching it, and playing with it, as it started to grow hard! I loved that; I was able to make it hard. Sometimes I would keep stroking it and it all felt great. As time passed, I discovered using some, body cream and I found out that it got my boy cock harder faster. Little did realize that I would soon have a sexual climax, or an orgasm and I would soon be able to eject semen, from my own cock, at the same moment of a sexual climax. As time passed, I did have a few, weak sexual climax, and sometimes feeling a bit lightheaded, although I really did not know, what it was, but it sure felt great! Once I had noticed some, clear drops ousting from my own cock and I took the tip of my figure and removed it and place it in my own mouth, expecting to taste, like my urine, but to my surprise, it tasted a little sweeter and creamer, but I did know, that I had love it. I had found out later that it was pre-cum and I knew that I did love the taste. Every time I play with myself, I would always sample the pre-cum, even today, I now will always sample the pre-cum of every cock that I suck. Maybe that is why I enjoy sucking another man’s cock.
    Still today, I can only tell you what it is like for me.
    Out in public, I am basically, just a normal and masculine man. In private, seeing another man’s smooth cock is an incredible exciting. The thought of sucking his sexual organ I begin to crave to have that man’s most trusted part of his body, his cock in my mouth. That is why I get off on it. Often, I can enjoy him sitting in a recliner and I spread his legs to enable access to his cock and his male pussy while sucking cock, sometimes I feel somewhat submissive. These are a few things that turn me on, while sucking another man’s cock. I know that I have oral talents, and that I could please him, just like I enjoy being pleased, just knowing that and I realized how submissive I was becoming. There were a times, I had pretended that I was sucking my own cock when I had another man put his cock in my mouth and allow me the pleasure to please him. And that is why I get off on being a cocksucker!
    Understand, life is but a short Journey, people must try to experience and enjoy any, and all, of various sexual opportunities that they can, while they are able to! The lasting memories can be great!

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  10. #10

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Thanks for asking these questions!! I've been wanting to post about this myself for some time. I started to answer but found myself getting overly detailed in my answers. I will definitely be back to try to answer when I have more time. I like to discuss this subject with both guys who also suck, and also guys who only want to be sucked; straight guys.

    One guy I was about to suck could tell I was in a bit of turmoil about why I craved it. He was a patient and decent guy. When I said, "I don't really know why I do this." He said, "The way I look at it is, you like doing it and I like having it done to me. So, I don't see a problem." He took away my turmoil with that simple statement. It really is as simple as that, but I do continue to wonder what drives the desire.

    So, thanks for asking these questions. I will take a stab at answering later and am very interested in reading other's comments.

  11. #11

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    i just like it and its makes me want it in my ass

  12. #12

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Just as we see in every corner and facet of our lives as human beings, the diversity in the answer of why certain men love to suck penis is extremely vast. I have done an immeasurable amount of research on this topic in order to attempt to explain my own drive to suck another man's penis, and while there does seem to be some common threads that link one to another in very superficial ways, the overall theme seems to be that each man has his own very unique reasons. In fact, the common threads that do exist seem to only successfully present the what and not necessarily the why. For example, there is a good amount of evidence to suggest (to me at least) that bisexuality among men, and especially the desire to orally please another man specifically, is in fact a very common phenomenon and one that a staggering amount of men share. One theory that I have found extremely interesting (and one that I directly relate to myself) is the idea that we all have essentially two separate sexual identities - the 'things' that arouse us and get us going, and the 'things' that get us off. And as much as we tend to link the two and believe they are one in the same, there is very good reason to believe that they are in fact separate from each other. This has been my direct experience. A good example of this is the way in which I have never 'checked out' another guy, never entertained the notion of having sex with a specific guy or had a 'crush' on another guy, and have never fantasized about other men in the same way I do women. When I'm at the beach, my eyes and dick are naturally drawn to the half-naked girls. And typically what gets me going or gets me aroused is the thought of sex with a woman and all of the endless things that I love about the female body. However, when it comes time to get off, nothing does it for me like a beautiful penis or the thought of worshipping that penis. Dicks simply take me to a rarified place that almost no other fantasy can (except for my naughty wife, that is!). So, what does all this gobbledy-gook possibly mean? When it comes down to it, there are many human behaviors and desires that simply cannot be boiled down to broad, one-size-fits-all explanations - and sexuality is at the top of that list. And as much as we want to super-analyze our own behaviors and desires, this is one of those things that may be best relegated to the realm of the unexplainable; something that is explained best in the absence of words rather than with words.

    All of that being said, I believe that my own desire to suck another man's penis can somewhat be explained by the events in which my sexuality was developed and the fact that I never had a loving father in my life. I spent a lot of time playing with, visually examining, and eventually sucking on, my own penis for many years. I believe that all that 'dick time' for me caused a direct link between my notion of sexual pleasure and the penis in general. When I was very young (maybe 5 or 6), a friend and I used to give each other mutual oral (not really even knowing what the heck we were engaging in), and I also had at least one experience that I can remember of seeing another boy's erect penis right in the height of puberty. And I believe that the effect of not having a loving father in my life has also caused me to seek out a replacement for that in suckling at another man's penis (I think this is referred to as "feeding" ?). Of course, as I've attempted to establish above, my own reasons cannot be simply boiled down to these facts, but I think an understanding of these things at least gets me closer to an understanding of why I am an otherwise straight, female-obsessed guy with a gigantic 'penis fetish.'

  13. #13

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by mpine86 View Post
    Just as we see in every corner and facet of our lives as human beings, the diversity in the answer of why certain men love to suck penis is extremely vast. I have done an immeasurable amount of research on this topic in order to attempt to explain my own drive to suck another man's penis, and while there does seem to be some common threads that link one to another in very superficial ways, the overall theme seems to be that each man has his own very unique reasons. In fact, the common threads that do exist seem to only successfully present the what and not necessarily the why. For example, there is a good amount of evidence to suggest (to me at least) that bisexuality among men, and especially the desire to orally please another man specifically, is in fact a very common phenomenon and one that a staggering amount of men share. One theory that I have found extremely interesting (and one that I directly relate to myself) is the idea that we all have essentially two separate sexual identities - the 'things' that arouse us and get us going, and the 'things' that get us off. And as much as we tend to link the two and believe they are one in the same, there is very good reason to believe that they are in fact separate from each other. This has been my direct experience. A good example of this is the way in which I have never 'checked out' another guy, never entertained the notion of having sex with a specific guy or had a 'crush' on another guy, and have never fantasized about other men in the same way I do women. When I'm at the beach, my eyes and dick are naturally drawn to the half-naked girls. And typically what gets me going or gets me aroused is the thought of sex with a woman and all of the endless things that I love about the female body. However, when it comes time to get off, nothing does it for me like a beautiful penis or the thought of worshipping that penis. Dicks simply take me to a rarified place that almost no other fantasy can (except for my naughty wife, that is!). So, what does all this gobbledy-gook possibly mean? When it comes down to it, there are many human behaviors and desires that simply cannot be boiled down to broad, one-size-fits-all explanations - and sexuality is at the top of that list. And as much as we want to super-analyze our own behaviors and desires, this is one of those things that may be best relegated to the realm of the unexplainable; something that is explained best in the absence of words rather than with words.

    All of that being said, I believe that my own desire to suck another man's penis can somewhat be explained by the events in which my sexuality was developed and the fact that I never had a loving father in my life. I spent a lot of time playing with, visually examining, and eventually sucking on, my own penis for many years. I believe that all that 'dick time' for me caused a direct link between my notion of sexual pleasure and the penis in general. When I was very young (maybe 5 or 6), a friend and I used to give each other mutual oral (not really even knowing what the heck we were engaging in), and I also had at least one experience that I can remember of seeing another boy's erect penis right in the height of puberty. And I believe that the effect of not having a loving father in my life has also caused me to seek out a replacement for that in suckling at another man's penis (I think this is referred to as "feeding" ?). Of course, as I've attempted to establish above, my own reasons cannot be simply boiled down to these facts, but I think an understanding of these things at least gets me closer to an understanding of why I am an otherwise straight, female-obsessed guy with a gigantic 'penis fetish.'

    tbanks for sharing this , I identify and agree with a lot of what yoy say. I do not check out men I do not find men attracted , I have little experience but based on it I know I dos like cock and only the cock

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    There must be something about men that can get us going, why else would we risk everything in some cases, being outed or humiliated for the sake of just sucking a cock? With me it was a combination of dating dominant strong women who would not submit to men, daddy issues possibly, a need to please and just plain open minded dirtiness that opened up in me once I realized cocks were a turn on and men liked men like me, didn't hurt that I had a few girlfriends who liked to denigrate you by telling you how much of a man their ex with a 10 or 12" prick pleased them and made them come like no one else could. Not that I would ever want to be a cuckold but that's kinda how the idea started in me, thinking of my girl getting taken by a bigger man who she couldn't and wouldn't say no to as a young man.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by ScottSwallows View Post
    I get off being submissive.
    That's definitely a big factor for me also. I don't think that was the driving interest for me at the start though. It sure is now, after years of sucking. I find the excitement of doing it is in some part submissiveness and some part the 'dirty' factor.

  16. #16

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    I get off just being able to do it. I've never felt dominant or submissive in that sense but sucking a guy's dick excites the hell out of me and to the point that I had to learn not to be... upset when he cums and his dick gets soft because I just wanna keep sucking him... and sometimes, that's what I'll keep doing. Even a soft dick feels good to have in my mouth...

  17. #17

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    When I jerk off i always have the urge to suck on something like my finger or a dildo and i feel it enhances my orgasm. Also while I'm stroking my cock i always get the desire to catch my load in mouth but I dont. Its weird.

  18. #18

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    *shrug* Honestly I don't think it is any different than why some women really love it, and the reasons can be damn near anything. Gender doesn't really make much difference since most the 'wrong doing' behind it is a social construct. It's not like me going down on a guy is going to aid in procreation since his load will be going in my mouth...
    But some reasons?

    Submissive - Some LOVE being commanded to do it.
    Dominant - Same as above, only being in charge of when their partner gets off.
    Skill/Confidence - You know you're good and love proving it. A huge load as a reward can be a damn high compliment.
    Rebel - You know it's 'wrong' - which makes it even more of an 'upsetting the establishment' thrill. Rock on with your bad self.
    Fixation - Oral, visual, physical; you like cock. Flesh-popsicles are simply delicious. End of story.
    Desensitized - Pleasure is pleasure, you don't really 'see' genders - just the opportunities that they offer. You don't discriminate.
    Nature Reflex - We were born to suck... it was never specified to what end. Loopholes!
    People Pleaser - Hey, you just like the feeling of making someone VERY happy. Go you!
    Guilty Pleasure - Literally. Your ass is going to feel guilty or ashamed, but that kind of turns you on too. Don't worry - we all like to have our cake and eat it too.
    ETC...

    Personally, 90% of the time for me it's the People Pleaser. I like making my partner happy and sucking him off happens to do that. Depending on the setup it can also be Sub/Dom depending on who is feeling what mood.
    Last edited by demi_dame; Feb 9, 2021 at 9:16 PM.

  19. #19

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    It's part this and part that for me.

    #1. I like playing the role of submissive, which begs another 'why' question. Why do I find it arousing to be submissive for another guy's pleasure? I don't know, but it's a real treat for me to do so. I find myself whimpering and moaning and telling the guy thank you for letting me suck his cock. I find it arousing to equate my submissive dick sucking with being like a high school slut who finds it impossible to say no. Why I like being submissive, I do not know. When with a woman I enjoy being dominant along with also sometimes being submissive, especially if she will straddle me and 'make me' lick her slit as she rubs it all over my mouth. I also like for a guy to 'make me' suck it. While being on my knees and playing with his dick and balls I find myself saying, 'make me suck it'. I want to be coerced, seduced into doing something that's 'wrong'...

    #2. I simply love the feel and appearance of a cock along with all the sensations it provides, cum included.
    I started sucking cock in my late 20's and even though I had masturbated since I was around 12 yrs old, I was still somehow surprised at how a cock felt in my hand when I first stroked one. I honestly love the feel of a guy's cock when it flexes involuntarily while I am stroking it...and when it flexes and spurts in my mouth, mmm, it's an indescribable turn on. That silky sooth skin with the stiff muscle underneath...the mushroom head with the ridge slipping in and out between my lips...the way it stiffens rock hard at the point of orgasm...and the sensations of warm cum...I love all the sensations of making a dick go hard. Pussy is delightful and delicious, not to mention the silky incredible feeling of snug wetness it has when wrapped around my stiff dick, but there's an entirely different tactile sensation to playing with a cock...in my hand and in my mouth. So...a big part of why I like to suck is my admiration of cock and how it reacts to my efforts...the sexual responses.

    #3. I am turned on by the 'dirty'. From the first time I was sucked off and came in my ex gf's mouth many years ago, i've found it incredibly arousing to do dirty things. Back when I was first sucked off, it was a special treat for a girl to suck and swallow. Now it's not such a big deal, I suppose, but I still think of it as having a naughty edge to it, so I have found I like being on either end of that act...getting or giving, but with a preference for being the dirty slut cocksucker. I get off on hiding my secret sexual side. The fact of doing a sexual thing that is still not fully accepted in this day and age, makes me want it.

    #4. I think it is a bit of a fetish. I am not attracted to guys. I don't want to kiss or cuddle with them, nor do I want a romantic relationship on any level with a guy. I am, however mesmerized and under the spell of dick as soon as I see one. It is the object of my lust when I am horny. And the cum is the reward I get for being a slut.
    I fetishize cock and cum.

  20. #20

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    It turns me on like nothing else. For one, I love giving pleasure. The feel of a cock in my mouth is something I crave, and I think most of all, I really love swallowing cum. I love the taste, texture, everything.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Asspussy302 View Post
    It turns me on like nothing else. For one, I love giving pleasure. The feel of a cock in my mouth is something I crave, and I think most of all, I really love swallowing cum. I love the taste, texture, everything.
    What you first said is pretty straightforward..plain and simple. Like you, it's the ultimate driving force about giving head for me.

    **** "It turns me on like nothing else" ****

    It sure does!!! I must remember to question some of my female friends to find the ones that get turned on about sucking cock and ask them why. Maybe they can help me understand.

    As an aside, I love when a woman masturbates, fingering her clit while she sucks cock. That's such a turn on.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    There's just something cathartic and relaxing about it. I love feeling submissive on my knees, yet powerful enough to decide when he's allowed to release. There's a natural/instinctual element that takes over once he's in your mouth and you're in "the zone". It's like an organic stress reliever that allows me to feel my feminine side while experiencing masculinity in a totally different way. There's just something really nice about how flexible yet firm a guy's dick feels that makes you want to control and make it your own for a while.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    I’ve honestly never thought that deeply about it. I’m attracted to men, sexually, emotionally, etc, much more than I am to women. I love sex with men, and giving head is usually part of it, and I want the person that I’m having sex with to enjoy themselves as well. I enjoy doing it! Never had any complaints, so I must be doing something right without over thinking things, it just seems and feels natural and normal to me at this point.

  24. #24

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    it's a lot of things...as he gets close, you can feel how powerful his sex drive is...and he wants ME! It's the joy of pleasing another person. it's the excitement of hearing him say "oh God, I love you!" as he reaches that point of no return (even though you know he doesn't really mean it - it's still exciting to hear). It's the satisfaction of hearing him tell me how good it felt as he came in my mouth. It's the thrill of doing something naughty. .....and if he has a pretty mild, mostly plant based diet, his semen probably tastes good

  25. #25

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Why be concerned about why you want to suck a hard cock an receiving his hot sperm. JUST ENJOY IT WHEN YOU CAN

  26. #26

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    I've wondered this as well. I think for me it's definitely about the submission. Being a beta with a lot of things in life, it feels like such a comfort zone to be beta to an alpha's cock. When you're with a girl, it's kind of up to you as the man to decide what you want from the engagement. But when you go to suck a man's cock, there's a mission, there's a reason that you want to do it, because you want to satisfy him, so much to the point that you get his warm sperm. You'd be disappointed if you didn't make him cum. Cock is so much more straightforward than women. The fact that playing with penis is almost always going to end with hot cum and satisfaction excites me.

    Sucking cock is what makes me the most horny, when I really need to think of something to make me cum, I'll think of cock. I think I developed a desire to suck cock because of my addiction to masturbation and porn: my life revolves around cock, my cock. The focus is always on cock, so it makes sense to want to involve other cocks and focusing on making them cum too.

    I'm bi and not attracted to men, but moreso cock, so I feel like this is where my desire comes from. The thought of two guys getting together just seems taboo and super perverted. Like, you have to really be such a horny pervert so much to the point that you'll play with cock instead of trying to find a woman. The whole point of sex for a man is making yourself ejaculate, so when I'm with a guy, I enjoy that everything revolves around this goal only.

    Just the thought of penis, balls, and semen makes me feel deeply relaxed and at peace. I know that penis is a way for me to feel good about myself. I get that rush of dopamine from pleasuring a cock, I know how good it feels for him which it makes it so exciting to do it. When I first feel that warm sperm gushing into my mouth, the wave of serotonin hits me, knowing that I was successful, that I'm getting what I needed to validate me. It's a feeling of security and almost like the cock is taking care of me, knowing that he's making sperm for me, we're both working together so he can give me that hot mouthful, literally hot liquid pleasure. All I can think of is how good he's feeling during my own experience of tasting all of his sperm. It's just overall a great moment of love for cock.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by Elwood2112 View Post
    There's just something cathartic and relaxing about it. I love feeling submissive on my knees, yet powerful enough to decide when he's allowed to release. There's a natural/instinctual element that takes over once he's in your mouth and you're in "the zone". It's like an organic stress reliever that allows me to feel my feminine side while experiencing masculinity in a totally different way. There's just something really nice about how flexible yet firm a guy's dick feels that makes you want to control and make it your own for a while.
    Very well said. What are your thoughts when you're making him cum?

  28. #28

    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    For me it is all about me enjoying how much pleasure he is getting from my effort. Seeing, feeling and hearing it all at the same time. Doesn't make me feel submissive just an accomplished lover who knows how to make his partner happy.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by silkyheels View Post
    Why be concerned about why you want to suck a hard cock an receiving his hot sperm. JUST ENJOY IT WHEN YOU CAN
    I agree! I'd rather search for a hard cock to suck then answers on why I love to suck cock.

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    Re: Why does a man (me, you) get off on sucking cock?

    Quote Originally Posted by silkyheels View Post
    Why be concerned about why you want to suck a hard cock an receiving his hot sperm. JUST ENJOY IT WHEN YOU CAN
    The reason for one to be "concerned" about why is that for a lot of guys, the incredible urge to suck a dick often doesn't make sense given the rules around this and when one does, oh, hell, yeah - it feels fucking incredible to do it so asking why, well, it makes sense. Like, I know what thrills me about it - and I had to ask myself why it thrilled me so much; other guys have asked me what's the big deal - and no matter why they're asking and saying, "I dunno..." or waving it off like the answer ain't important doesn't answer the question. Sure: All of us here who suck dick knows to enjoy it when we can but the question of why it feels the way it does to us is still valid and more so when you do wonder if other male cock suckers feel the same way about it as you do.

    And for some guys, it's very damned important that they find out that they're not the only guy who is way over the moon about sucking dick and being able to read what others have to say about it? That can be pretty exciting, too. So if a guy writes how "freaky good" it makes him feel to suck a dick and swallow sperm - and other guys respond with similar sentiments - there's a lot of personal comfort to be had to know that, again, they're not the only one who gets off (in some kind of way) sucking cock.

 

 

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