Originally Posted by
KDaddy23
@easy-going: Coping with these feelings can be hard to do for some guys and can be very frustrating and one just has to find a way to not be frustrated - a hell of a lot easier said than done. In the world of male bisexuality, this is one of the big-deal issues: Wanting to do something but one's situation probably isn't going to allow that to take place. There's just no simple way to combat the frustration and a lot of guys, um, wind up jerking off a lot while fantasizing about playing with a dick but after a while, even that tends to not do much about the ever-present frustration over not being able to do it. A lot of guys try to suppress their feelings and that's not really a good thing to do and, besides: The desire never really goes away. So, were I to suggest something, it would be to just do your best not to be frustrated and whatever it's gonna take for you to accomplish this. I know this isn't all that helpful but maybe you can find some comfort in knowing that you're not the only guy who has found himself having to deal with this and, as such, you've come to the right place when you need to talk to someone because the worst thing ever is to feel the way you do... and there's no one you can talk to about it.
Well thank you Kdaddy. You've nailed it. I have managed two very brief sessions with men I met on an Aussie site biaustralia.com.au. But, and I know this makes me sound ungrateful and perhaps selfish, but they both wanted to suck and be sucked and both occasions we were in bush-land. I will not suck a cock until we have showered but it seems I'm on my own with that. Most guys on that site (and probably here) are married and can't host at their home, the others don't want to spend the money on a motel room. I've pretty much given up hope of finding Mt Right and from there stems the frustration. To compensate I spend probably a couple of hours a day watching videos of guys masturbating etc. It gets me by, just! The thing is though, that it sometimes seems I live in a divided universe, in one I'm happily married grandfather and as straight as a die but in the other I crave cock and desperately want to be with another man. I guess I'll just have to suck it up as you say. It's such a shame though.
The reality of life is that (I reckon) almost all men of all ages masturbate. Yet it's a taboo to broach the subject and to be found approaching a friend or acquaintance for mutual masturbation (pleasure) well that would be unforgivable and we'd never live it down. We live in an open minded society, why can't we embrace the reality and home truths and loosen up and enjoy each others bodies?
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