How Many Men Here Strictly Suck Dick?

[Blondeblowjob7]

I have a question for male cocksuckers who strictly suck dick with men. Why is it so hard for a lot of people to understand that someone like me is strictly a male cocksucker cum slut? Subjectively this seems to be an issue with me. I have absolutely no interests in getting fucked, or having any sex toy stuck up my ass. I have no interests in having my cock sucked when I’m there to have my mouth fucked. I’m not into kissing men or cuddling with men. I’m strictly a male cocksucker who only gives blowjobs, and who is a total cum slut who loved doing kinky things with cum when I’m with men. I’m not even really interested in getting naked with a guy when I suck dick. I’m not ashamed of my body. I take care of myself, eat a healthy diet, and other people have told me that I have a very attractive body. I just have no real interest in taking my clothes off when I give a blowjob. To me sexually with other men it’s only about sucking dick and cum. I’m still physically and emotionally attracted to women. With men I’m strictly attracted to thick and erect cut penises with big mushroom heads, getting my mouth fucked like a total whore, and having loads of thick and creamy cum to do really slutty things with.


A lot of guys I blow are men married to women who want nothing but a blowjob from me, and to treat me like a total cocksucker cum slut, because their wife won’t do those types of things. I know for a fact that a lot of married guys look down at me for being a male cocksucker cum slut, but I don’t care. I have fully accepted and embraced the fact that being a male cocksucker is my true sexuality, and I absolutely love it! On the other hand, I run into many gay and bisexual men who don’t understand someone like me who is strictly a cocksucker cum slut. It’s almost inevitable that many of those types of men eventually ask me if they can play with my cock, suck my cock, or play with my ass as I give them a blowjob. I’m really not interested in those things. Subjectively it seems to me that many men do not understand a male cocksucker like me who is strictly into giving head, and doing slutty things with cum. Do any of you other cocksuckers run into this problem?

[dan.woodlawn]

I believe I am similar, with a modification. The only part of m2m sex I enjoy is sucking (90%) of the time and getting sucked (10%). Not a kisser, into anal in either direction, or even romantic relationships with men...meanwhile, with women, I will do everything with them.

[Tag200]

Only into oral too but give and get

[SilkyHoseLover]

I have a question for male cocksuckers who strictly suck dick with men. Why is it so hard for a lot of people to understand that someone like me is strictly a male cocksucker cum slut?

I'd suggest that the question you've posed and persons you directed it -- 'cocksuckers who strictly suck dick' -- at do understand your viewpoint.

As for the rest of us who have a wide range of interests and desires that are different from yours, we also seek your understanding and acceptance.

It's a big reason to get to know someone a bit before getting together to have sex with him. You find out what each other are interested in, and if you're on the same page, go for it.

[Waylon]

I am a real good oral giver, that is my specialty and what I love to do.

[atxbi]

I would have to agree, that I’m only in this to find nice cocks to play with and suck on. I also am not interested in having mine sucked or any kind of anal. The only kind of kissing i enjoy is when i kiss a man with his load in my mouth. That’s a turn on! So yes, it’s all about the cock and cum!

[redngoldpride]

I still hve a hard time understanding why one would stand in judgement of what somebody likes , craves , desires , needs , enjoys I have met those who only want to suck cock , give head , perform blowjobs , some love to hear vocally as they do some like to be face fucked and some like to take the cock and make love to it we are all different in appearance , attitudes , thoughts , beliefs ............. Live and let live enjoy somebody for who they are , what they are , they way that they are

[Blondeblowjob7]

I still hve a hard time understanding why one would stand in judgement of what somebody likes , craves , desires , needs , enjoys I have met those who only want to suck cock , give head , perform blowjobs , some love to hear vocally as they do some like to be face fucked and some like to take the cock and make love to it we are all different in appearance , attitudes , thoughts , beliefs ............. Live and let live enjoy somebody for who they are , what they are , they way that they are

No, you misunderstood me, redngoldpride. I’m not trying to be judgmental at all. I’m simply asking how many guys who are strictly male cocksuckers have ran into problems with guys wanting more from you sexually, even after making it clear to them that you only suck dick and take cum from guys. I didn’t mean to come across as being judgmental at all. What I’m asking is a legitimate question, because it’s actually happened to me several times. I have found it to be a frustrating issue.

[KDaddy23]

Experience taught me a long time ago that just because you like doing one particular thing, it doesn't mean that other guys are gonna always be on board with it or they're not gonna have their own idea about how they want the sex to happen. I don't know how many times in my life some guy and myself have agreed to only blow each other... and somewhere along the line, he wants to fuck me and when (1) it wasn't what we agreed to and (2) I didn't feel like any anal and had made that clear before the fact. It happens and while some guys find it annoying, for other guys, it could make them feel some kind of way about what they prefer to do. You just learn to say no to anything you don't want to do and if they become unhappy, oh well. When I run into a guy who doesn't want his dick sucked - but he's wiling to go to town on mine, I just learned to go with it and to not try to change his mind in any way even though I'm starving to suck him off.

Just the way it's always been and the problem isn't that some guys might want more than you're willing to provide; it's when they start getting pissy about it when you say no to whatever else they want. It can be bothersome so the trick is first to understand that this is gonna happen and then decide what you're gonna do if and when it does - and then not be annoyed by any of it. It's not really that unusual for a guy to change his mind about something in the middle of things and this, too, is something to be understood and if he doesn't or can't understand that he's asking - or begging - you to do something you don't want to do, isn't that his problem more than yours? The "bad" part is that you never know when someone is gonna try to flip the script until they do so, as I learned, expect it to be flipped and then be happy when it doesn't get flipped... and don't get bent if it comes up.

[NakedInSeattle]

Yep. Only suck cock. Tried getting fucked and didn't like it. And, oddly, I don't like my dick sucked.

[tenni]

"even after making it clear to them that you only suck dick and take cum from guys."

Yes, this can happen depending on many factors. Perhaps, you are not taking enough time to keep each guy understanding your limits.

As far as your more generally question, no I do not want to only have my dick sucked and suck his dick. I want a sensual, caring interchange including getting to know each other on a couple of levels. I'm not interested in a guy who says I'm only interested in sucking his dick. I think such guys are missing the boat. I have the same expectations for women too.

[Ilikecum]

I’m like the poster, all I want is to suck a cock and swallow the cum. I think hard cocks are beautiful and I like the feeling of sucking them. The bonus is having a mouthful of cum to swallow. Not really interested in receiving, I’d rather jerk off later and lick my cum up. With women, I love everything, I love to be sucked off and I love to go down on them and lick up their juices until they cut against my tongue.

[notmacbi]

I agree that I’m really only interested in sucking cock, though I would love to be wearing lingerie and have my nipples rubbed while I suck him off.

[KDaddy23]

@Tenni: You say that like sucking cock can't be a sensual and caring experience and one that includes getting to know each other better and all that. It can be and it depends on the guy. Guys suck cock for "two reasons" and the first is they like doing it - period. All that getting to know each other better just isn't a priority for them. The other is just like you mentioned - the fully personal and connective experience is what's needed... and neither reason is really a "wrong" reason to suck cock. Where the disconnect happens is that what one guy is looking for may not be what the other guy is looking for and even this isn't something I'd say is out of place but, sure - for the fully immersive experience, it would be much better if both guys were on the same page with this.

Some guys just aren't; they can't go that far; they feel they don't need to go that far. More about instant gratification than something lasting and binding. Just is what it is and what it's always been. Look... all of us who are into sucking dick do it for our own unique reasons and even very specific conditions and the only "wrongness" in this comes when your ideas (not yours, Tenni) and the other guy's ideas don't match up and I think the smart move for any of us is to not really expect them to at every turn; if you discover, in the early moments of connecting, that the other guy isn't into doing this under the conditions you wanna do it, then don't even go there and keep searching for the guy who wants to suck cock under the same settings you do. Either your patience is going to be greatly rewarded... or you won't be sucking any dick any time soon and this, too, is what I call an occupational hazard in the world of sucking cock.

And, really, if one really needs to suck a dick and despite their requirements, you are allowed to change your mind about sticking to them and "just this one time" and if you aren't of a mind to change your mind, there's nothing wrong with that, either.

[iwantmore]

Bi oral only men are rare....I am one of them, bi oral give and receive. Anal play is so prevalent in the lifestyle. Try finding a bi oral only, non smoker, married and open with with his wife about his activities, "hwp" guy is next to impossible. Throw in covid19 now....not a chance.

[charman]

Love sucking cock and swallowing the cum I suck out of them. Anal never done anything for me, receiving or giving.

[RisingBi]

OP (Blondeblowjob7): It sounds like you are the perfect candidate for that wonderful invention, the Gloryhole! I don't know if you have ABS or other bookstore/video arcades near you, but many of them offer gloryhole sex. Some other places do as well, such as some porn theaters, some bathhouses (but that might not check all the boxes you're looking for), and even guys' private homes on the rare occasion. But the latter might be the homeowner wanting to bottom. You could of course set up your own gloryhole in your own home.

The ABS method: A guy wants his cock sucked, so he goes into a booth, puts some money into the video playing machine, picks his favourite video, and either immediately just sticks his cock through the hole and waits for a mouth to wrap around it, and hopefully swallow it, or he keeps a lookout through the hole waiting for a guy to come into the booth and get settled, and then sticks his cock through the hole. I personally have just loved to put my hard cock through the hole into an empty booth, and excitedly wait with horny anticipation for a warm and wet mouth to envelop it.

Or a guy, like yourself, just wants to suck cock, so he goes into a booth, puts some money into the video playing machine, picks his favourite video, and either sucks the cock already sticking through the hole (if he doesn't like the look of it, he just leaves that booth and goes into another), or looks through the hole to see if there is someone in the other booth, and if so puts a couple fingers through the hole to signal that he wants the guy's cock, or puts his open or closed mouth in front of the hole in hopes that the other guy sees his mouth there and waiting for cock. If he's a great cocksucker, guys exiting the booth might mention it, and he'll just have a steady stream of cocks to suck cum out of, if he's into that form of cocksucking completion.

Of course, you might not be open to the anonymous encounter like that, and want to know a little bit about the guy to see if he's safe to mouthfuck. But the gloryhole certainly checks all your other boxes: you can only be a cocksucker if that is your wish, without any complaints; you can keep your clothes on; and you don't have to see any part of the other guy's body but instead just focus on what you really adore, his cock. Perfect!

[RisingBi]

No, you misunderstood me, redngoldpride. I’m not trying to be judgmental at all. I’m simply asking how many guys who are strictly male cocksuckers have ran into problems with guys wanting more from you sexually, even after making it clear to them that you only suck dick and take cum from guys. I didn’t mean to come across as being judgmental at all. What I’m asking is a legitimate question, because it’s actually happened to me several times. I have found it to be a frustrating issue.

Actually, I believe you have misunderstood redngoldpride. If I'm not mistaken, I believe he was supporting your question and complaint (defending your argument), saying that he doesn't understand why people can't respect your wishes to just be in the cocksucking role and nothing else. You might want to read his answer over again from that point of view, and see how this is true.

[Jazminedress]

OP (Blondeblowjob7):

The ABS method: A guy wants his cock sucked, so he goes into a booth, puts some money into the video playing machine, picks his favourite video, and either immediately just sticks his cock through the hole and waits for a mouth to wrap around it, and hopefully swallow it, or he keeps a lookout through the hole waiting for a guy to come into the booth and get settled, and then sticks his cock through the hole. I personally have just loved to put my hard cock through the hole into an empty booth, and excitedly wait with horny anticipation for a warm and wet mouth to envelop it.

I always wondered if that was real or not...............I mean, I knew the gay bath houses where, I just didnt know if the bookstore glory hole thing was. IN this day and age, I wouldnt touch that with a ten foot pole without a condom. Between not only STD's, but TB as well

[Jazminedress]

I still hve a hard time understanding why one would stand in judgement of what somebody likes , craves , desires , needs , enjoys I have met those who only want to suck cock , give head , perform blowjobs , some love to hear vocally as they do some like to be face fucked and some like to take the cock and make love to it we are all different in appearance , attitudes , thoughts , beliefs ............. Live and let live enjoy somebody for who they are , what they are , they way that they are

So true.............the hard part is communication, too many never really speak about what they want. Some like me don't mind the name calling (slut,whore, bitch) in sex, or getting slapped in the face with a cock, but that shit doesn't go with me. But, I am very clear up front when I chose to be with someone.

As you said, we all have our thing, and everyone should be accepting of it

[teemann50]

I totally agree that sucking cock is all I need. The problem is I cannot find anyone who just wants there cock sucked. If anyone on here needs to be sucked to completion let me know.

[purely4fun]

Ironically I came to this forum today because this is my interest too, or close to it anyway. My spouse also has decreased interest in sex and I can't stop thinking about sucking cock. My wife and I have a friend (male) who we've fantasized about doing a threesome, but she has no idea that he and I have privately talked about sucking each other's cocks. Unfortunately, he lives in California and chance of getting together is low. As for sucking cock in general, I've been close, had a couple guys in my mouth over the years, but never to completion. I chicken out, but can't stop thinking about it.

[tenni]

KD your words
" You say that like sucking cock can't be a sensual and caring experience and one that includes getting to know each other better and all that."

Let me try to clarify. I did not say that sucking cock can not be sensual. If you are a sensual man there is so much more of your body and mind that come in to play while making love. It doesn't matter whether it is a woman or another man. Sucking a man's cock is a giving experience and I interact with how the guy is behaving. Rushing to suck cock and ignoring getting to know the guy first before the pants drop is dangerous and unsafe imo.

"and all that" seems dismissive or maybe you just don't want to show your sexy, sensual self with details? What about his nipples? his neck for kissing? feel both cocks together and stroking them together? running your hands up his inner thigh? running your fingers down his back and more touching erogenous zones.

As I wrote above, guys that are just into sucking cock may do that. More sensual men make love and are not inhibited about going beyond the genitals.

[KDaddy23]

@Tenni: Getting to know the rest of his body? Hell, yeah! I like male nipples and more so when we have sex with women, they tend to ignore our nipples. Rubbing cocks together? Good shit. Here's the thing: While a lot of us enjoy the more sensual approach, some guys just wanna get the dick in their mouth, work it over, get the cum, and whatever happens next is fine with all involved. ABS's? Kinda hard to play with his nipples with a wall in between. I am glad that you clarified what you wrote and I do appreciate that. Getting to know the guy is a good thing but some guys just don't want or need to know a whole lot about him - just the way it goes - and there is some common sense to be put to work to avoid any potential risk and danger. Other than this, there is no right or wrong way to suck a dick; we all do it for whatever reasons and ways works for us. If all a guy want to do is wrap his mouth around a dick and not be "bothered" with the other touchy-feely stuff, well, that's what he wants to do but it still remains true that what he wants to do might not be what the other guy has in mind nor does it not mean that the other guy could change his mind and go off-script. It is, at best, annoying; some might say that it violates the "gentlemen's agreement" made in the beginning; if we agree to suck each other and you (not you, Tenni) decide you want to do something other than that - and then try to make it happen - yeah: Some guys are gonna feel some kind of way about that because that extra stuff isn't what they wanted to do.

It's not a real problem but it is one of the many occupational hazards when you're primarily a cock sucker; can't begin to count the number of times when all I wanted to do was suck dick and the other guy wants more than that - now it's all about how you deal with that moment. Still, how any of us goes about doing this is the way we go about it and if it works for them, I'm happy for them and we all should be happy given how difficult it is to find a guy you can be comfortable with enough for dicks to get sucked.

[ScottSwallows]

That’s all I’ve done with my friend.

[SuckerMC]

I feel the same way Blondebowjob7. All I want is to suck cock. Now really I don't have to or I shouldn't have to worry about the guy wanting to suck me off or doing anything else. I am waist down paraplegic and can't feel anything. I also suffer with ED because of it. So any guy that I suck off should already know that there will not be no giving on his part.

[ScottSwallows]

So far all I’ve done to my friend is suck his cock.
If he wants to fuck me I won’t say no.

[Neonaught]

Over the years I have had 4 regular playmates that only wanted to suck me or get a deep throat-fuck and that was OK with me. Eventually all but one asked me to fuck them.

[Cjseattle]

I’m definitely in your camp. I have come to terms with my insatiable desire to suck cock and swallow every drop or get my face covered in jizz. I love it. I differ in that I do like to kiss a man if I’m very strongly attracted to him. I also don’t care to bottom but have used toys and fantasize about getting fucked by a certain type of guy. Maybe some day but not my priority. I’ve found my share of married guys who don’t get it at home but not too many. Now that Craigslist personals are gone, my main source for this is gone. I’ve used sniffies (a web based platform) as most straight married guys won’t take the chance of using an app in case their wife looks at their phone. Or the app order history. So, I’d be curious to know how to find these bi deprived men we know are plentiful in hotels everywhere on business trips. My most memorable experience was about 10 years ago. Met a really cautious guy on Craigslist who want me here in business and really wanted to get sucked off in his hotel room. He was so nervous and cautious that he met me at a different hotel bar in seattle because he wanted to make sure I wasn’t some nut job. Understandably. I’m very confident that he was being honest about it being his first time. He was a very hot, good looking, regular guy. Probably mid 30’s. After we had a beer and talked he got more comfortable and had me follow him to his actual hotel a short distance away. We were both nervous and I could tell he was apprehensive so I took it easy and tried to make him as comfortable as I could. I don’t think he ever kissed another guy either. So we sat on the edge of the bed and I waited for him to make the move. He went right for it and we kissed for a while fully clothed. We slowly got undressed between passionate kissing as he got more into it and seemed to be less nervous. I went down on his beautiful throbbing cock the first chance I got. I just let him lay back and receive a bj like he probably never had. I was excited to be giving him this first experience and wanted it to be memorable for him. Seemed like he lasted a good while before finally nutting and I took every drop down my throat. I had a function to attend that night so I didn’t stay longer after he came. I went to my function and all I could think about was blowing this stud again. I messaged him to see if he was up for another round. He was so I left the thing early and went back to his room. He was freshly showered and only in a towel when he answered the door. This time we were both more at ease and we got into bed and made out for a good while and then he said he wanted to try it. Sucking me that is. He took my Dick in his mouth, first one he ever had. Seemed a bit shy about it. Unsure he really wanted to be doing that I felt. Maybe he was just trying to be nice and return the favor but I didn’t want that. I just wanted to suck another load out of him. So I did. This time we laid there side by side and just talked for a bit. Man to man about this desire and how we both fought it. It was a great connection but I have no doubt he never did it again. Just a hunch he just needed to try it.

I would love to find a good source of married guys just wanting head. First timers would be the ultimate.

[Cjseattle]

Another guy was local and worked in a warehouse on my way home. Pretty sure it was Craigslist we connected on. Married guy, good looking and didn’t want anything to do with my Dick which was perfect. I only wanted to service him. We exchanged numbers band I would periodically check to see if he was alone at the warehouse as I was going to be passing through the area. Or he would ping me to see if I was available to stop by. Only once in a while he was alone at the warehouse near the end of his day. When it worked I would stop in, and he would let me in. We never spoke much. I was there to do one thing and I did. Probably half a dozen times before I lost touch with him. Every time I swallowed his load but once I turned my head and let his cum shoot on my face so I could leave it there on my ride home while smelling and tasting it. Fucking true story guys!