I was wondering if anyone else goes through phases of being attracted to the same sex, before it levels off and then being happy with the opposite sex?
I am going through a man hungry phase right now (probably because I cant get one due to Covid restrictions) and its driving me insane. I can chat with my fwb daily but to be honest that isn't what I need. I NEED a MAN!
I too go in phases. I'm also having difficulties meeting people, so I get to a point where I give up on the idea for a little while. Then a few dAys will pass and my mindset changes
If I've learned anything from bi-friendly websites like this one, what you are experiencing is TOTALLY normal for bi guys.Originally Posted by BrokenQuill
I was wondering if anyone else goes through phases of being attracted to the same sex, before it levels off and then being happy with the opposite sex?
I am going through a man hungry phase right now (probably because I cant get one due to Covid restrictions) and its driving me insane. I can chat with my fwb daily but to be honest that isn't what I need. I NEED a MAN!
Don't sweat it, embrace it.
never been with a guy but I get pegged regularly, I think I think about it more when I haven't been pegged and if I am stoned , I can be a super needy bottom, or I don't even think about receiving... not much middle ground
Yep,100%..................heck, even with women, sometimes I only look at Aisan women, other times Latinas, then I switch to blonde hair blue eyes.
Nothing wrong with it, it seems like most of us go through it
This is me exactly...
Yep same here OP
Absolutely.......I tend to drift in and out of phases as well. At times I’m laser focused on guys and all the great hardware they pack. Then there seems to be periods where women are by far my main interest. I’ve often wondered just what exactly it is that switches my “birection”!
It's like I have a period(my bi-cycle). I only like the cock of a man. Don't care for face, ass, feet, etc. Just the cock. There are times when a cock just doesn't turn me on. A cock dripping pre-cum is NOT what I seek. I don't get turned on by uncut cocks. My bicycleness SUCKS! That's all I like to do is suck. Well I DO like to be fucked between my lubed up legs, but that is mainly a fantasy from childhood.
I was wondering if anyone else goes through phases of being attracted to the same sex, before it levels off and then being happy with the opposite sex?
I am going through a man hungry phase right now (probably because I cant get one due to Covid restrictions) and its driving me insane. I can chat with my fwb daily but to be honest that isn't what I need. I NEED a MAN!
Yep - that's pretty much the way it works or, as I like to say, sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't and it's not really all that different from those times when you're craving pussy like a fiend and those times when you could care less if you got some pussy. It can get even weirder in that you can be craving dick, get some pussy, and the craving for dick is still there and the reverse can be just as true. Some weird shit going on with this? Not at all - 100% normal.
I do that too
Absolutely true for me. I go through phases where all I think about is getting some cock, and I start looking at gay porn and cruising like mad. Looking to get together with guys for a while. But then there the other times, probably the majority of the time, where I'm looking at girls and thinking only about them and am not much interested in man-to-man sex. I've even turned down some opportunities for get-together or let ongoing 'things' peter out because I'm much more into women for a prolonged period.
Kind of weirdly, within those bigger cycles which run for months or years, there are also definitely smaller weekly cycles. For whatever reason, I'm feel much more likely to be interested in sex with men on Sunday, Monday, Tuesday. I think the majority of my sexual encounters with men have been on those days.
My mind is bi, but my eyes are not. (I have not yet seen the fellow that I fantasize about.)
This is very normal.. I too get cock hungry.. sometimes so bad that I can’t handle it.. it becomes a need.. and the only way to still it is to get fucked..
I have heard this phenomena as referred to as "being fluid".
The fluid aspect of being attracted to one gender and then suddenly switching to a different sexuality or gender. Some in the early young time of awakening and accepting their bisexuality struggle and wonder if they are going nuts. What is horny about an attraction to same gender can stop overnight or in one case several times a day (a young guy). You can be attracted to a woman and then lose all attraction to that female gender to the point of being repulsed. As some have posted this is not unusual for bisexuals. Not all fluid ness happens early in your life. People in their 40's who saw themselves with no attraction to the same gender suddenly can become attracted. Why? a variety of reasons environmental and behaviour repression etc.
One thing to accept is that it will not go away. It may be repressed for decades but it won't go away.
Last edited by tenni; Nov 7, 2020 at 11:00 PM.
<sarcasm>Bah! Out your nose! It goes away, everyone knows it does.
At forty eight years and being bisexual for most if not my entire life, no, this fluid aspect has not gone away. One day I may enjoy being taken by a man, the next taking a woman. Yes, this can also occur hourly, by the minute and possibly by the second. Can also very well enjoy transgender people, whom I call butterfly people with no disrespect or malice intended.
Okay tenni, you can call me a weirdo if you like. *chuckles*
I'm the same. Sometimes all I want is to fuck my wife, her friends (especially one of them), or the hotter neighborhood moms. And other times I'll fuck my wife and then immediately go downstairs and jerk off to pictures of big fat cocks. Sometimes I don't want to fuck my wife at all, and I'd rather jerk off with a huge dildo up my ass.
It's harder to find a man I'm attracted to than a woman, when I fantisize it's usually about men.
I don't know if it's just repressed feelings and the fact that I haven't acted on my attraction to men that keeps it in my fantasies.
I only recently started to try to hook up with guys. I wonder if I'll stop thinking about it so much once I've done it.
yes...I have the opportunity to suck 2-3 times per week (which I do)...last few weeks haven't really been into it...in another few weeks cock may be all I can think about...come and goes every few weeks
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The nice thing about being Bisexual is that, you have choices as to what you want sexually.
If it is to be, let it be with me
I'm 67 and my sexual desire for men (and women) is still strong. I prefer men now because there's so much less drama and equal pleasure to be had with men. It will be constant until I die. If I go through phases it's only because of my present circumstances at any given time. I'm a proud grandfather who spends a lot of time on weekends with my 2 grandkids, a girl 10 and a boy 8. Weekends would be my best times to meet men, however the kids come first. Sex is the furthest thing from my mind when I'm with those two. It's very difficult to meet my bi married friends or arrange a meet with new prospects because of spur of the moment timing and logistics. The fact that I'm online now on a Sunday night means my grandkids have gone home with their Mom. Now I'm horny in a search phase and looking around for men online. But as always the timing and logistics are not favorable. So it's not so much phases as it is hit-and-miss with me. All I can do is keep tryin when I'm in a horny mood...
Right? I would drool over a nice mushroom headed cock, though.
I am also in the phases boat. I will not think about it for weeks and then boom...it is like I am in heat or something. I can’t get the thought of pleasuring a cock out of my head.
I have heard this phenomena as referred to as "being fluid"
I call it being human. The urges never go away but they do ebb and flow. Many folks use the word 'fluid' to describe what's between Kinsey 0 and Kinsey 6, both of which are considered to be static while everything else is dynamic or fluid. It just stands to reason that if sexuality, on the whole, is fluid, so is one's desires. At any given moment, one can crave dick so badly that it can drive them to distraction and in the next moment, dick is the last thing on their mind... and the next moment it's back again and the same goes for pussy... and then there are times when you're not feeling either thing and then you want both at the same time.
Very normal and very damned human. Still nothing weird or strange going on here.
"I want to ride my bi-cycle, I want to ride my biiiiike."
That's almost me to a T. I don't see men as "attractive". I've had bi fantasies since Jr High, and I think I have had more than enough opportunity to act upon any urges... and they just weren't there. My brain housing group is my biggest erogenous zone because I can think it/imagine it and live it with my wife or online.
I just don't see guys in bi or gay video's as "damn, he's hot!" and then remember him for later when "relaxing with my thoughts".
Where does that fall or place me on the Kinsey scale?
No, it doesn’t go away after you’ve sucked a dick, at least for me. My desire does move about a bit, though.
OMG Never have truer words been written!
Glad i'm not alone! There are times when all I look at is naked women, then other times I could suck off a whole room full of guys! It's crazy, sometimes months will go by and it's pussy, then bam i'm lookin at cock pics! I don't have any other attraction to guys though, just the cock.
I'm a woman and I feel the same way.
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