Originally Posted by
RisingBi
If I may ask, I was wondering about your 5 days window. I've also read other people's posts here, saying things like, "Since we got tested the week before, we were good to go [for bareback fucking]."
But I have read things on the Internet that said, "It takes time for the body to make antibodies after it is exposed to HIV, and different people make antibodies at different rates. The window period for antibody tests is between 3 weeks and 3 months. Up to 95% of people will have antibodies after 6 weeks, and 99% of people will have antibodies after 3 months."
And when I first made advances to a female friend over 3 years ago, who shortly after became my girlfriend, because I had been sexually active with guys, up to even a week before she and I started seeing each other romantically, she insisted, and I totally agreed, that I needed to get tested before we even had oral sex and intercourse with a condom. The clinic also agreed with the numbers I quoted above, and basically followed the 3 month "near certainty" rule. She and I still kissed, and played around naked together with our hands, but we didn't fuck until we got to 3 months. But she still wanted to suck my cock after 6 weeks had passed, given that 95% number, which is pretty good, despite my assurances that I could wait. I think she really wanted to reciprocate the oral orgasms I had been giving her, and she really really loved cock, as I discovered in our 3-year relationship. So we also then did oral with each other, until we added fucking at 3 months.
So I was wondering about what you and others thought about the numbers, and your own 5 day rule. Since my girlfriend and I are now broken up, and since the pandemic is low enough here in Canada right now, I'd like to get out there again to have sex with guys, and if I meet the right guy who I'd like to finally for my first time go bareback with, anally speaking, I'd like to get a better understanding about testing and bareback fucking, which has always been my dream with men, giving and receiving.
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