Straight men who have sex with men; anyone feel this is the besides me?

[Tag200]

I am Not attracted to men, I have no interest in romance with men, If I am at the beach I don’t look at men only women, and I only like cock nothing else on a man.. does anyone else feel this way? I know a few Of you and I have discussed on another thread!

I am interested in sucking cock and benign sucked and nothing more.. am I bi, straight gay or ..? Knowing labels are unimportant but jair a discussion to better understand me and others

hwre is just one article on the subject http://blog.lighthouse.lgbt/can-stra...-sex-joe-kort/

[Ebbtide]

I think you are bisexual.

[Tag200]

Perhaps that could be true, thanks .. but what about all the theories that it is not bisexual feeling of there is ki emotions or interest in men beyond cock?

I think you are bisexual.

[delpark]

You are a guy that likes cock. Accept that. It doesn't have to be anything else.

[Tag200]

thanks for your Response. I am and I do , just digging deeper and trying to have further discussion

You are a guy that likes cock. Accept that. It doesn't have to be anything else.

[Intoone]

I agree with you ...... I find shemale and even crossdresser that are Passable Attractive but
not men
the Closest I came to sucking dick was in an abs store and it was because there was a glory hole And
I can’t do it if I see the guy weird right

[Geoff Gregg]

I'm the same way, men don't make me turn my head. Women are always catching my eye. Eating pussy is divine, but a nice hard cock in my ass is very pleasurable. I plan to try sucking cock if the opportunity arises just to see if I like it as well.

[art0711]

I would love a passable shemale or crossdresser.

[cuttin2dachase]

Just accept the fact that men turn you on. It does not mean you will ever be gay. It does not mean that you will explore your fantasies with men. It only means that you are adventurous, curious and open to the other half world of sexual pleasure/fun (with men), but your hetero psyche or religious & moral upbringing beliefs "forbid" you from seeking it. There is no 11th Commandment from God that "thou shalt not have sex with your same gender".

[Tag200]

yes a sissy or ladyboy turn me on but not a man other than a nice cock

I agree with you ...... I find shemale and even crossdresser that are Passable Attractive but
not men
the Closest I came to sucking dick was in an abs store and it was because there was a glory hole And
I can’t do it if I see the guy weird right

[Tag200]

I could suck a cock in front of the guy no glory home needed but only focus on the cock and nothing else. It’s like a women I focus on one thing at a time

[Tag200]

thanks for your response I appreciate it. However again it is jsit dialog and digging deeper as to why this it that.. there is not religious guilt or anything per say stopping me .. and I am it denying I am attracted to men as some defense or denial I truly am it attracted to men other than the cock... and I have read plenty of other that feel the same and read plenty on it.. I am just trying to lessen and understand more

Just accept the fact that men turn you on. It does not mean you will ever be gay. It does not mean that you will explore your fantasies with men. It only means that you are adventurous, curious and open to the other half world of sexual pleasure/fun (with men), but your hetero psyche or religious & moral upbringing beliefs "forbid" you from seeking it. There is no 11th Commandment from God that "thou shalt not have sex with your same gender".

[Jazminedress]

I would love a passable shemale or crossdresser.

oh hell, me too

[Long Duck Dong]

its a difficult question, a person attracted to cock is not always attracted to men... males have cocks but so does my female intersex partner..... so it begs the question if a person could find intersex female partners ( imply there was a few 100k of them ) then would they ever suck a males cock again......

bisexual generally means attraction to both genders, male and female but attraction to cock and not the rest of the person, falls outside of that definition as there is no attraction to males, just genitalia and there is actually terms for that, gynephillia can be used as a term for a person attracted to the female anatomy, the male term is androphilia, they can both also be called gyne and androsexual ... the problem is that people blur the definition to mean attraction to males and attraction to females, NOT aspects of the persons anatomy.... and the attraction to males or females is gay or lesbian but its used in the context of attraction to the male or female anatomy of people that are non binary or do not identify as male or female......

now the argument can be used that its too many definitions and is getting stupid, thats a valid point but then people bitch about being blanket labeled with terms that do not actually apply to them or that other people are using the wrong labels.... IE MSM / men that have sex with men, are said to be gay / bi but they are not attracted to males outside of a sexual aspect and do not see themselves as gay / bi, which promptly results in them being told that they have internalised homophobic / bi phobia..... when in fact, they just do not have an attraction to males outside of purely sexual contact......

at the end of the day, we are all unique and different, with different interests and attractions, so yeah we do need the means to define our interests cos without it, you become a bisexual ( attraction to males and females ) that is straight ( only attracted to the opposite gender ) but has androphila ( sexual interest in cock ).....but because others do not want to fuck around with labels, just with you, its easier for them to label you as bisexual cos their interest is in your cock, not really you......

[Tag200]

Thanks for response “long”

[tenni]

The fact is that you are not a straight heterosexual. You are not gay. You are fluid as the article states.

[Tag200]

fluid, ok thanks .. I need to read more on that I guess ...

The fact is that you are not a straight heterosexual. You are not gay. You are fluid as the article states.

[Tag200]

not sure that fits upon first look but open to see... how do you define fluid?

fluid, ok thanks .. I need to read more on that I guess ...

[Bi_Dave]

I only am interested in the cock. I don't kiss, rim, lick balls. I don't fuck, although I used to like the feeling of getting fucked and I still like getting fucked between my legs. I wear dentures and enjoy sliding a nice cock into my mouth and down my throat. After he's cum and zipped up I leave. No, no kiss goodbye. Too bad we weren't closer.
Dave

[Tag200]

thanks for your reply. Do guys blow you too? How do you define yourself ; gay, bi, straight, fluid or ...?

I only am interested in the cock. I don't kiss, rim, lick balls. I don't fuck, although I used to like the feeling of getting fucked and I still like getting fucked between my legs. I wear dentures and enjoy sliding a nice cock into my mouth and down my throat. After he's cum and zipped up I leave. No, no kiss goodbye. Too bad we weren't closer.
Dave

[tenni]

not sure that fits upon first look but open to see... how do you define fluid?

Fluid is being open to changing who you are attracted to men or women or other gender.

Men's cock seems to be what you are attracted to rather than attracted to a person physically, emotionally, and psychologically . Perhaps understanding that you can be attracted to a man's all over body, mind etc. is not the same as finding a woman's all over body and psychological behaviour.

I wonder if a person is only physically attracted/interested in a body part is a different sexuality than being heterosexual, gay, bisexual?

It is also possibly is a phobia..ie internalized homophobia or internalized biphobia? i.e.. I'm attracted to cock and I will not accept that I can be attracted to men's bodies just their male body part. (that's too gay and I'm not gay..or bisexual).

[Tag200]

thank you very much for your thoughts... I will consider it all of course.. unless it’s really repressed I do it think it’s homophobic or other sick things as I am not anti anyone or anything and never have been..and ageism uless Very suppressed I am it attracted to men’s bodies etc , just not... there cock I am or if they are a TS girl then I guess I find them attractive but not anything else ..

Fluid is being open to changing who you are attracted to men or women or other gender.

Men's cock seems to be what you are attracted to rather than attracted to a person physically, emotionally, and psychologically . Perhaps understanding that you can be attracted to a man's all over body, mind etc. is not the same as finding a woman's all over body and psychological behaviour.

I wonder if a person is only physically attracted/interested in a body part is a different sexuality than being heterosexual, gay, bisexual?

It is also possibly is a phobia..ie internalized homophobia or internalized biphobia? i.e.. I'm attracted to cock and I will not accept that I can be attracted to men's bodies just their male body part. (that's too gay and I'm not gay..or bisexual).

[tenni]

thank you very much for your thoughts... I will consider it all of course.. unless it’s really repressed I do it think it’s homophobic or other sick things as I am not anti anyone or anything and never have been..and ageism uless Very suppressed I am it attracted to men’s bodies etc , just not... there cock I am or if they are a TS girl then I guess I find them attractive but not anything else ..

Yes, I think that your biphobia would be coming from a suppressed area of your mind. The number of male posters who state that they are only interested in a guy's cock is puzzling. The recreational aspect of enjoying sucking or being sucked without emotion or intellectual connection with another man suggest incomplete behaviour or impersonal interaction over a longer time period. Do you react this way with women?(no emotional, intellectual, only want tits to play with or some other sexual behaviour?)

[Tag200]

I do like the entire women’s body yes, I do have feelings for them sometimes it’s just friendship even if I sleep with them and on occasion it’s more ... I do feel when men just hook up for sex it often is without emotion or feeling , it’s jsit sex. Am I incorrect ? Is that wrong ?

Yes, I think that your biphobia would be coming from a suppressed area of your mind. The number of male posters who state that they are only interested in a guy's cock is puzzling. The recreational aspect of enjoying sucking or being sucked without emotion or intellectual connection with another man suggest incomplete behaviour or impersonal interaction over a longer time period. Do you react this way with women?(no emotional, intellectual, only want tits to play with or some other sexual behaviour?)

[CockHummer]

I find it interesting you describe finding a nice cock up the butt very pleasurable, as if it has been an ordinary part of life for you, but somehow sucking cock is an "if the opportunity ever arises" sort of thing. I don't understand how those two ideas go hand-in-hand. It seems to me if you've enjoyed having cock up your butt, you've certainly been in a situation where having it in your mouth would have been at least as easy.

[Tag200]

not sure who or what you are responding to here?

I find it interesting you describe finding a nice cock up the butt very pleasurable, as if it has been an ordinary part of life for you, but somehow sucking cock is an "if the opportunity ever arises" sort of thing. I don't understand how those two ideas go hand-in-hand. It seems to me if you've enjoyed having cock up your butt, you've certainly been in a situation where having it in your mouth would have been at least as easy.

[MikeW535]

I have no romantic interest in men but am very curious to share a guy with my wife. Partly to see her with another man and partly for her to see me with a man. It’s very erotic and a big turn on for me

[Tag200]

have you and your wife discussed it? Is she interested ?

I have no romantic interest in men but am very curious to share a guy with my wife. Partly to see her with another man and partly for her to see me with a man. It’s very erotic and a big turn on for me

[skycladinco]

I am the same way although I don't have any real desire to suck cock. I have not had much luck with women and need to be naked with some sort of skin on skin contact. I do watch mostly bi porn and fantasize about mmf threesomes. I'd like to be massaged and sucked by a man and woman together and would like to try giving anal. I must say though that I am attracted to smooth skin with no tatoos or facial hair as in younger twinks. I saw a smooth guy like this at a bathhouse once and was definitely aroused. I would prefer bi to gay though.

[twilde1952]

Is it lust or love or both? I would think that's its all of the above as in we all want to have sex, because we love it! Nothing beats having someone paying attention to our personal needs and pleasures.