This is my first ever time i've started a thred, but i'm curious to know peoples opinions on both monogamy and polyamory.
As a poly person looking back at my old monogamous lifestyle i remember how confuzing it was to be madly in love but still be interested in other people and how i was supposed to have to find ways to not be interested. I found it difficult to maintain the relationships and would have to hide parts of my thoughts and feelings which in turn led to frustration and jelousy.
Since discovering what poly is, (like discovering that being attracted to more than one sex was called bisexual) it's not only ok to have multiple partners, it better, much much better. I don't have to hide my feelings and partners don't have to hide theirs. I'm much happier now and though labels are frustrating at the best of times poly is one that is useful to use.
I'd like to know about your experieces of poly and mono relationships.
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