Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

[tommyswing]

The first time I sucked a cock, I did it out of curiosity and thought it would be disgusting. I didn't feel attracted to the guy I was with. We were jerking each other off which bored us, so we decided to go down on each other. I was convinced I wouldn't like it, to my surprise I loved it. I was stunned at how pleasurable it was. I loved how hard and soft it felt at the same time, and how smooth and how it velvety it felt in my mouth. I knew then I was a cock sucker. I didn't lose my attraction to women which was confusing at the time.

[Bi-Rõnin]

I've had a few hook-ups. Usually just getting nailed. One of the first guys years ago rimmed me and took me from behind. Once he got his second wind he flipped me over, pinned my knees to my chest and really gave it to me. That had set the bar for me. Until a couple of weeks ago.
This time, I was on the receiving end of everything I wondered about. We met up at the hotel I was staying at (was working out of state) when he started to undress me and told me all the things you see in romantic porn. I wasnt sure what to do so I took his cock in my hand and slowly started stroking him. He felt like a steel telephone pole. I had never held another cock in my hand. All i could think of was how am I going to be able to get this inside of me when he came in and kisses me. That was another 1st.it wasnt anything like id heard before, his beard didnt feel weird, just felt natural. Guiding me to the bed he got me on my back, kissing the entire time. He went for my neck and really drove me wild as his fingers danced over my hole. I wasn't surprised when he worked his way down except when he went straight for my ass. Now for me, being rimmed from behind is way different than looking down between your legs and seeing someone burying their tongue inside of you. When he crawled up to get in position to enter me, he started kissing me again. Once he started burying his cock in me his tongue was deeply exploring my mouth. All I wanted at that moment was to wrap my legs around him and stay that way forever. It was amazing and I came hard. He actually stopped after I came and asked if he should continue, hell yeah continue. Mentally this was weird, he scooped up my cum and lubed his cock and started fucking me furiously. From that point on it just became more intense and thats where it becomes the better than ever expected. Being handled forcibly, not with aggression. But being pulled across the bed and grabbed hard as he rammed in me, being pu int different positions he put me where and how he wanted me. He took total control. All i could do was moan in acceptance. It was better than i ever imagined and more than i ever hoped for. Unfortunately, he set the bar pretty high now, gonna be hard to find someone who is willing to go all out again.

[smoothy7]

I was using female escorts to get massages, and found they were so disappointing and dishonest: #1 the pic in their ad wasn't them #2 Their ad had big promises of all the great things they would do for you, but none happened #3 They were terrible at massage, partly because I sensed they didn't actually like men's bodies ! Then on a hunch, I tried m2m massage...BINGO !....#1 They were honest-the pic in their ad was them #2 Everything they promised to do, they did, and very well ! #3 -Because they were a man, they liked men, and liked men's bodies, and treated me very kindly, nothing like female escorts......lesson learned

[Jazminedress]

I was using female escorts to get massages, and found they were so disappointing and dishonest: #1 the pic in their ad wasn't them #2 Their ad had big promises of all the great things they would do for you, but none happened #3 They were terrible at massage, partly because I sensed they didn't actually like men's bodies ! Then on a hunch, I tried m2m massage...BINGO !....#1 They were honest-the pic in their ad was them #2 Everything they promised to do, they did, and very well ! #3 -Because they were a man, they liked men, and liked men's bodies, and treated me very kindly, nothing like female escorts......lesson learned

I always wondered about that, their picture looks 25, do they show up looking 85

[JamieDanie]

My first M2M experience was in a gay spa. I went several times before I had sex. I would just watch or watch and masturbate. One night a guy started fondling me in the sauna. Blew my load immediately. Next time I started fondling a guy in the steam room. Finally dropped to my knees and started sucking. Had no idea what I was doing. He came in my mouth. I was hooked. Lots of oral before I finally had a guy fuck me. Threesomes (MMM) were next. I like to be in a guys ass and sucking the other one. Real turn on is to watch others (MM and MF and FF) and maturbate.

[Joboo]

The taboo of stroking and sucking another mans cock arouses me very much. Problem is I’ve only had a couple and I seem to have a very particular type I can enjoy this with.

[middleagedinnj]

It's a whole different experience, especially when I find a guy who loves to cuddle and kiss as much as I do before we get to my favorite part - sucking his cock to completion. I love the taste and feel and get very turned on when I feel a cock throb in my hands and mouth as it feeds me my delicious reward.

[a_bx99]

When I had mm sex I had never had mf sex so couldnt compare it to that at least.

That said, it was better than I expected in part because before I tried it I had no intention of trying it or even properly thought about it so it was a pleasant surprise in the end.

[RisingBi]

"To tell you the truth, Tag, for the most part I have found sex with guys not as good as I expected or fantasized."

Yep... that happens, too, and the reason, I've found, is that usually other guys just don't live up to our expectations or we're not having the sex in the way we really need to, like and as many say, because there's no personal connection other than sex. For most guys, that very first time is all that and a bag of chips: I mean, who really knew that having sex with a guy could be that much fun and so good? Then again, that first time doesn't make a guy feel that way... but if there's a next time, yeah - best thing since sliced bread and all that. And then it just loses its luster and appeal because all along the line, we change but our "perception" of how the sex is supposed to be for us doesn't really change so much. We set in our minds that this is the way it's supposed to be but actual experiences doesn't always register against what we've set in our mind. We know it... but it's "weird" because sometimes, if it's broke, we don't bother with fixing it or, worse, I think, we fix it in a way that will only result in it not being all that down the road... and the really fucked up part is that if it's not all that, it's not really your fault if some other guy isn't of a mind to give you what you want and exactly how you want it and that, fellas, creates a pretty big disconnect and, I also think, because we want what we want and in the exact way we want it, it makes us unhappy to have it in any other way, say, to get with a guy you don't have any "feelings" for or who doesn't have any for you. In this, of course it's not gonna be all that you hoped it would be.

It really does ebb and flow and unpredictably because our thoughts and feelings do the exact same thing. It's da shit right this very moment... and five minutes from now, it ain't all that and now it's about why you think it isn't. And there is a lesson to be learned in this...

I just read this again, I just have to say that you have such true understanding and wisdom, K Daddy. I love you, bro!

[Happy Cucky]

Interesting question. Personally, I have had many excellent sexual experiences with women and a very few with men. However, two experiences with men have been exceptionally satisfying. One was very handsome, very feminine, very nice and very loving. I really got off on his feminine energy and felt very comfortable with him. The fact that he was also hung extremely well gave him a great appeal. I totally loved our time together and I really loved sucking his big cock. The other was one of my best friends who became very taken by my wife and she with him and they became a couple sexually, therefor making me their cuck. That has worked out tremendously well. My wife and my friend are great together. The energy between them is incredible and I love watching them together and being their cucky. Of course, I get to play with him too and that works out fantastically well.
So, the answer is up to you finding your way. There are a lot of people out there having non-conventional lives and having a lot of fun. Good luck!

[babyrmd]

Even though I starting masturbating a friend at 11 and the sucked him for the first time at 13yo, I only sucked cocks until I was 32 when one of the men that I was seeing and sucking their cocks, talked me into giving my ass up to him. That was 34 yrs ago and can't tell you how many men and women have used my ass for their pleasure and how many loads I have taken in me. From one on one, to small groups to large groups, I have known what I am supposed to do and I do it. So, if anyone is in my area of Maryland, check my profile and pics and let's do it

[missn3njerry]

i love it when a guy is powerful and strong with me, with him fully in control of the situation and i simply surrender sexually to his strength, power and urges. If he kisses me, fondles me and whispers to me as he's getting pleased, that is even better.

It's not like that with a lot of guys, but when it is, it's magic - for me, way more exciting than with a woman.

[BrokenQuill]

I have had little experience with this as yet, but from what I have had I do enjoy it. The energy and thrill of sex with a man is so different, but intense. I hope to have many more experiences like this.

[LVTOGP]

My first mm after just curiosity for so long was fairly uneventful not much of a feeling, years forward I became incredibly attracted to a guy I worked close with and ended up hooking up and it was incredible, thick cock knew where to push and the first to cum in my ass, nearly came again when I felt the drip oit
of me

[Jozyxt]

The BJs I have had form men are mostly better than I expected. It is so much easier than courting a woman. Just agree on a time and place, both of you know what they are there for so there is little to do but strip down and cum. And guys want to suck your cock and are grateful for the opportunity. Some are very willing to please in any way.

I still haven't found the right situation to suck a dick myself, but I bet that will be much better than I ever thought it would be.

[Basin_Bouy]

Not only better, I prefer M2M sex

[Xantinan]

To be honest, I've never been satisfied with women. Men gave me just great pleasure and orgasm. For the last few years, I've been living with a guy I've liked for a very long time. I was surprised when he FIRST came up and confessed his feelings. In order to hide our relationship, I married his sister, so my parents and his parents don't know anything about our relationship. Only a small circle of our friends know about our relationship. If you think that I have never had a normal girl who could not bring me to orgasm, then you are mistaken. Once I specifically turned to the London escort agency, which is one of the best agencies in order to check my orientation. I had an erection and even came at the end, but I didn't get any satisfaction from it (by the way, I forgot to mention that I'm top).

[Robin Black]

I would say that it is definitely better. In fact, I found that nothing ever quite topped my earliest sexual experiences when a friend my age penetrated me when we were pre-teen boys. Besides the thrill of just being naked with someone else, and the wonderful physical stimulation of having his penis in my anus, it was unexpectedly thrilling to hear the noises he made and feel him shaking when he climaxed.

[proteindump]

I just like sex. At my age it is very difficult to find a woman interested in having sex, but happily it does happen every once in a while. Unfortunately I have never been able to give myself relief, I can pump for hours til I actually bleed and am in great pain, so I don't even try. To keep my sexual drive under control and get some sleep I turned to men and found sucking guys off was a real turn on for me and I get relief for me as I do enjoy a good load of cum which I always swallow. I also have found that this is an avenue to meeting women as well, apparently he tells her about a terrific blow job he got and it goes from there, I don't ask, I just enjoy eating her out as well. Our local ABS has a couples and guest room and I will meet up with one couple about once a month for a lot of fun. It has huge windows and guys watch us which is also a turn on for me.

[Bi_Dave]

Married twice. Neither woman enoyed sucking cock. Had to coerce them. M to M is a natural two way interaction. Women suck at sucking. I would eat their pussy for hours if they let me. I still love to eat a nice pussy.

[Robin Black]

You have quite a beautiful bottom and penis! I can tell that a great deal of pleasure could be gotten from either one!

[redngoldpride]

I truely believe that its up to you and whom it is that you are with(m/f or couple) if you are completely comfortable and totally uninhibited and honest about your needs , wants , desires , cravings , yearnings you can find satisfaction for all involved which is not only fun and exciting but so hot I have found this with couples , females , males and in groups both large and small .......... Have fun everyone

[curiousmwm99]

Haven’t had my first encounter with a guy but really looking forward to it.

[stonebow]

I just read this again, I just have to say that you have such true understanding and wisdom, K Daddy. I love you, bro!

Yup...KDaddy's response was most insightful....he said it all.

[stonebow]

[QUOTE=Robin Black;349243]I would say that it is definitely better. In fact, I found that nothing ever quite topped my earliest sexual experiences when a friend my age penetrated me when we were pre-teen boys. Besides the thrill of just being naked with someone else, and the wonderful physical stimulation of having his penis in my anus, it was unexpectedly thrilling to hear the noises he made and feel him shaking when he climaxed.[/QUOTE

You were thrilled by the discovery that you had given HIM so much pleasure? That's a pretty gratifying feeling, huh?...knowing that you could bring a man such delight. I don't know that I was aware of it the first time a guy shot his load in my mouth but I knew something had changed for me and that I needed to feel that again.