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    Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    So my experience with men is super limited... wondering if the sexual chemistry and satisfaction I had with an x girlfriend could be found with a male partner.. understanding it would just be sex and friendship as I am already married (women) and it’s sexless.. see my x girlfriend satisfied me so well but the heart ache and pain and drama is too much to go that route again . Anyone find a guy and find the sexual satisfaction Or feel it’s impalpable as other than a cock I have zero attraction to men ..

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    I have found sex with men better than I expected. Introduced to sucking cock at 13, I enjoyed doing it. Chasing pussy shortly thereafter. Pussy was never as gratifying to me as sucking cock. One day I was on my knees giving a blow job and knew that is my role in sex.

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    Thanks for the response... Sounds like at least for you sucking cock has satisfied you sexually which is great...

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    Ah the stereotyping of females again. I have a lot of female friends who are sex crazed, and I'm surprised so many men haven't met anyone like them... but I guess it's not what the topic was about sooo

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Very much so. I was 19, and had sex with a handful of ladies before I’d been with a guy, it was definitely an awakening to me to the point that I prefer having sex with men. Especially the kind where you spend all day naked in bed having fun and fall asleep exhausted and a little raw.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Thanks for your response. It is not about Stearotyping women at all I am not sure whey you feel that way. I am simply asking does any feel or has anyone found that sex with men (when you are a man) when your only attracted to cock not anything else Can it be as great as when you have sex with women; in my case as good as my x girlfriend.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    I have very limited experience, but have these take aways. Sex with a man was much more natural than I imagined before doing it. In many ways it was no different than sex with a woman. The goal is to please and be pleased with your partner. Cock sucking was even better than I had thought, but I also liked the feel and difference of being skin to skin with a man. It was fun to enjoy the differences as well as the similarities. Taking nothing away from what a woman has to offer, there are great experiences you can have only with a man. I believe that with the right man, you can have similar chemistry to what you had with the ex gf, but it won't be exactly the same experience.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    I used to work away a lot and maybe was pretty alone on the road. Endless hotels and hotel bars. I used to meet up with the same regular people male and female. Sometimes it could be two three weeks without sex with my wife. It would have been easy to pick up a women while away but steered clear although lots of subtle offers. It did not want to cheat on the Mrs as the guilt was I guess to much. Anyway used to meet up with a guy who travelled a lot in the same hotels. We became bar mates and dinner mates at the hotels. Alot of chat about work and family and home life. He told me it was frustrating while away for long periods and was fed up with the porn films the hotels provided to get the relief and able to sleep. Of course I understood this to well!! On this occasion we chilled out with a few shorts at a table in the bar chatting about sexual movies and women. The chat would give any a guy who was not getting any a boner and I was certainly puffing up in my work suit pants and suit pants tend to show a good boner and unable to hide. He was the first to say he had a boner and I laughed and said me as well. The guy peaked over the table and laughed and said I can see. I was abit embarrassed but he leaned back in his chair and pushed down on is crotch and it was my turn to laugh!!! He also said he could do with a movie and asked If I would join him. I was abit shocked but excited and buzzed from the alcohol. He said let's take some drinks to his room and watch some movies together. I agreed and we went up. Back in his room we both slipped off our jackets and ties and sat on the bed , put on the movie and started laughing nervously at what we were watching on TV. I could see from the corner of my eye the guy was rubbing his crotch and pushing down on it with his hand. I started to do the same and he looked at me. Think this gave him the signal to unzip himself and I could see his hard on silhouetting his white cotton boxers. I new I had started to leak in my boxers but I had never felt like this so excited and horny. I unzipped as well and played with my by now hard cock in my boxers. He leaned back against the headboard to get more comfortable. I waited then did the same . We both were staring at each other and we both kind of new what we wanted next. He looked down at my crotch and smiled and opened his eyes wide and nodded at by crotch. I just said go for it. His hand came across as I removed mine and he touched me. It was a like a bloody shock going through me. I did the same to him and he let out a moan. We ended stripping off and wanking each other off. To cut a long story short we met every time we could and even arranged our work to be in the same place at the same time. We progressed to sucking, kissing and staying in each others room over night so we would wake up at 6am and have fun before work.. I always found int exciting and fulfilling without the emotional ties and consider myself bi and love it.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    That is a great question and there are at least 100 million different answers. Myself, I found m2m sex to be vast and much more involved than I expected. It took me a good number men and more than few months to get my head around the possibilities of what two men can accomplish when they have sex together. In short, I feel there is no less pleasure and no less satisfaction with m2m sex verses m2w sex. For me they each have a world of wonderful things to learn and experience. I'm married to a woman, for 40+ years now and yet men are becoming more valuable in regards to their hidden secrets. My only regret is to have waited so long to get into men. My fault and our society get some blame too. Bit I ani't dead yet. Jim

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    thanks for the response , good info to consider .. in my limited experience with men I know I was excited and stimulated for sure lol but still did not have that feeling or chemistry like my x girlfriend yet.. I hope I can

    Quote Originally Posted by new day View Post
    I have very limited experience, but have these take aways. Sex with a man was much more natural than I imagined before doing it. In many ways it was no different than sex with a woman. The goal is to please and be pleased with your partner. Cock sucking was even better than I had thought, but I also liked the feel and difference of being skin to skin with a man. It was fun to enjoy the differences as well as the similarities. Taking nothing away from what a woman has to offer, there are great experiences you can have only with a man. I believe that with the right man, you can have similar chemistry to what you had with the ex gf, but it won't be exactly the same experience.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    thanks for the response . Does your wife know? Mine does not. Do you still have sex with your wife? I do not ... I too have started too later and started and stopped too often and wish I didn’t but here I am in hibernation now waiting for the time when I can try again

    Quote Originally Posted by JimmyPlays View Post
    That is a great question and there are at least 100 million different answers. Myself, I found m2m sex to be vast and much more involved than I expected. It took me a good number men and more than few months to get my head around the possibilities of what two men can accomplish when they have sex together. In short, I feel there is no less pleasure and no less satisfaction with m2m sex verses m2w sex. For me they each have a world of wonderful things to learn and experience. I'm married to a woman, for 40+ years now and yet men are becoming more valuable in regards to their hidden secrets. My only regret is to have waited so long to get into men. My fault and our society get some blame too. Bit I ani't dead yet. Jim

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Thanks for reply. That’s what I want sexual satisfaction without emotional ties

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    Every time I've given a guy his first experience, they've said things like, "That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be!" or "I don't know why I didn't do this before now!" Societal norms wants to hide this form of pleasure from everyone by pounding it into our heads that, say, guys blowing guys is such a bad, terrible, and very nasty thing to do so when a guy gives in to the urge to check this out, they tend to find out the truth: It really isn't as bad as you thought it would be or, really, as bad as you were told it would be. A lot of this has to do with what one thinks sex is and what it's supposed to be like; so many of us are of a mind that sex without an emotional connection is, well, pretty fucked up and many don't know why they think this way - and they do because this is pretty much how women are about sex. While some will give up the pussy without needing that emotional connection, it's pretty much their MO... and one that has been put on men as well. I'm not ever going to say that a man isn't going to want and need that connection with another guy but the truth is it's not needed - and men have always had the bad rep of being able to have sex without any emotional connection involved.

    Social norms say that this isn't the way it's supposed to be done but, yeah, that's not the real truth of things and a lot of guys find that when they have sex with a guy, it can be just as satisfying as having sex with a woman can be - just with the added thrill of knowing that you shouldn't be having sex with another guy. Many learn that it really is "just sex" and having that first experience with another man can sometimes change a guy's view of what sex is and how it can be done - with or without the emotional connection and just because having sex is still so very satisfying. Then there's the relative "ease" of having sex with guys; you usually don't have to go through all the hassles you do with women but I have a sense that this is starting to change. Just get the dicks out, get them hard, make them soft again. No promises. No commitments. Not getting into anything more involved when you might not - or cannot - be so deeply involved. Look at it like this:

    When we jerk off, we usually don't need a reason for it other than having the need to do it and while it connects you with yourself, yeah, it's really all about satisfying yourself in that moment. And truthfully, the only reason you need is that you can get yourself off. Extend this to sex with guys and it just works: You need to have sex and there's this guy with a hard dick who's willing to accommodate you and in whatever way you want to be accommodated. Maybe it's a one-time thing; maybe it becomes more than that - but the real point is that you understand that sex with men is really "better" than believed and realizing this takes a lot of weight and pressure off a guy's mind to know that if he wants his dick sucked (and wants to suck some dick) they can get with another guy and not have to worry about becoming boyfriends if they don't want to. Sex is... better without the pressure of being emotionally attached or otherwise committed to the other person because at the end of the day, most of us just want to bust a nut without a whole lot of hassles like begging and pleading and the like - and if this makes sex with men better than expected, it just is what it is.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Thanks for the detailed reply and good insight. Thanks I think it helps a lot ...

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    I didn't expect anything the 1st time a man sucked me and I returned the favor. It was my wife and his wife encouraging us. But more than that, I didn't expect that I'd enjoy it. But man, I did! Wifey and I were swingers and had done almost everything we could do together and in 4 somes. Up until then I'd had physical contact with our male 3some and couples male half. But the 2 things I'd never done or imagined doing was to feel a man's lips and mouth on my dick and then to return the favor and lick and suck his dick. It was an epiphany for me. That's when I realized I was missing out on half the sexual pleasure afforded me in life !

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Quote Originally Posted by Bisexual765 View Post
    Ah the stereotyping of females again. I have a lot of female friends who are sex crazed, and I'm surprised so many men haven't met anyone like them... but I guess it's not what the topic was about sooo
    I was young and dating women in the 1960, 1970,1980's.
    Totally, missed finding those women.
    The ones I meet were more oriented toward a long-term relationship.
    I was not enthusiastic about that at that time in my life.
    There are a lot of men that feel the same way.
    Check out the personals on this site, you will find a lot of desire for a friend with benefits adds.
    The actual act of having sex with either sex can be extremely enjoyable.
    But, for a lot of women and men an emotional attachment is required before they can enjoy sex.
    My experiences lead me to the conclusion that more men than women can enjoy sex without an emotional attachment, that includes sex with other men.
    JEM

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    good observation of you can get sexual pleasure groom both sexes it opens up a lot more opportunity for fun and satisfaction


    Quote Originally Posted by cuttin2dachase View Post
    I didn't expect anything the 1st time a man sucked me and I returned the favor. It was my wife and his wife encouraging us. But more than that, I didn't expect that I'd enjoy it. But man, I did! Wifey and I were swingers and had done almost everything we could do together and in 4 somes. Up until then I'd had physical contact with our male 3some and couples male half. But the 2 things I'd never done or imagined doing was to feel a man's lips and mouth on my dick and then to return the favor and lick and suck his dick. It was an epiphany for me. That's when I realized I was missing out on half the sexual pleasure afforded me in life !

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    well I know I enjoy both even though men has been real limited ... but I never came so easily or as hard than when I was sucking cock

    Quote Originally Posted by jem_is_bi View Post
    I was young and dating women in the 1960, 1970,1980's.
    Totally, missed finding those women.
    The ones I meet were more oriented toward a long-term relationship.
    I was not enthusiastic about that at that time in my life.
    There are a lot of men that feel the same way.
    Check out the personals on this site, you will find a lot of desire for a friend with benefits adds.
    The actual act of having sex with either sex can be extremely enjoyable.
    But, for a lot of women and men an emotional attachment is required before they can enjoy sex.
    My experiences lead me to the conclusion that more men than women can enjoy sex without an emotional attachment, that includes sex with other men.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    My first experiences having sex with men were not the best, I guess it was because I felt insecure and confused, but then I decided to try live webcams and experiment with men on the web until I had the confidence to try again to suck dicks and well, now I really like it.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Thanks for sharing your experience ... so you also have sex with women still? What did you try , figured out and learn by cam that helped you ?

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    I find M2M sex better by far!

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    The old saying that there is nothing like a good man is really true.His cock does not have to be huge but a nice size and if he can control it and does not cum as soon as he gets in you it can be fantastic! I have had a good bunch of cocks and some bad ones who were super alpha males that just want to "fuck you to death" just about.But that guy who can use his cock right is an OMG experience.You will go back for seconds and thirds I promise!

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    Do you still have sex with women sisboy?

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    Myself. It took a long time to make the move and be with another guy. When I was 17 or so I started going to a local adult book store. I would spend each trip in a video booth. Alone and jerking off. Back then all booths had holes to the ones on either side. Long story and multiple times of cocks and fingers showing through the holes, I reached down to touch one. The guy mentioned he would come to my booth. He did he was older and just took my cock and sucked it. I came so quick. After that night it was like the ice was broke. It wasn’t long before I started enjoying the cocks that were offered. Once I had my first experience with a guy at his house it was now just normal for me to seek men. I married and had great sex with her. But I knew that being with men was really good. Now I’m 61 years old. Fit and healthy. At this stage in life I find myself constantly thinking wanting a man. I like it and seek it as often as possible. While sex with a woman still happens at times. It is more often with men And I am very happy with it.
    Last edited by BiSNJGuy; Aug 7, 2020 at 12:35 PM.

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    Having been in the same boat as you. I've had amazing sex with women. The kind you wanna brag in a locker room to your buddies. However, when it comes to men. As a bottom, nothing compared to a couple of the men I've slept with. Not only was it amazing sex, but it left me in that orgasmic blissful euphoric high for what seemed like hours afterwards. None of them actually made me cum, or so I thought. It was prostate orgasms, and they kept going after we were done. At the time, I didnt know that was even a thing. But over a half hour after the fact I'd still just randomly start shaking and feel waves of pleasure radiate from my core all the way to my toes and finger tips.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    I travelled during my career, and frequently ran into others that had I met before. Simular to your story, we got th the stroking part quickly, and after a session, it would turn to sucking. Made my trips more enjoyable....

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Honestly, I started out with friends in my mid-teens, simply exploring. Just a bunch of horny guys watching porn, jerking-off, and then, eventually more. We sucked one another and me and one of my friends spent a summer sucking, fucking but not kissing, cuz that would be gay....Meanwhile he's sticking his moms dildo's up my ass and sucking and fucking in the shower and all over his house...lol

    I discovered sucking and getting sucked, and eventually anal. It wasn't until I was older, when I had serious encounters as an adult, with experienced adults, and in groups, that I fully came to realize how good MM sex could be. I truly loved MFM along the way for most in my life, but I had some scenes with a couple of guys in a MMM threesome that were pretty damn amazing. One couple I played with wanted another guy, so it was MMMF...and she wanted to sit back and watch the guys while she got off with her hand and toys, eventually joining us.

    With the RIGHT partners, any kind of sex can be amazing, but sex with males (for me at-least) was just another menu item on the sex menu UNTIL I had experiences that made me realize how hot and powerful this kind of sex can be ! It's been awhile, and now I have half a had-on at my desk...I may need to send some e-mails out ....lol.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    Quote Originally Posted by Bi-Rõnin View Post
    Having been in the same boat as you. I've had amazing sex with women. The kind you wanna brag in a locker room to your buddies. However, when it comes to men. As a bottom, nothing compared to a couple of the men I've slept with. Not only was it amazing sex, but it left me in that orgasmic blissful euphoric high for what seemed like hours afterwards. None of them actually made me cum, or so I thought. It was prostate orgasms, and they kept going after we were done. At the time, I didnt know that was even a thing. But over a half hour after the fact I'd still just randomly start shaking and feel waves of pleasure radiate from my core all the way to my toes and finger tips.
    OMG, that is amazing, it's so erotic! I would LOVE for that to happen to me. I have finally fucked my first man, as a top, and loved it so much. But I'm still a bottom virgin (except for the pegging my now ex-girlfriend did to me a bunch of times), but I fantasize about another man fucking my ass all the time and want it so badly. I've given myself many prostate orgasms with a dildo, pretending it's a real man's cock that is making love to me, and some of those prostate orgasms were even hands-free, and out of this world. For that to happen with a real man, that would be 1000 times better. But your experience, OMG, what a dream come true. Thank you for sharing, and in such an erotic way! ❤️

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    To tell you the truth, Tag, for the most part I have found sex with guys not as good as I expected or fantasized. But there might be many reasons for this, not least of which because it was anonymous oral sex in different gay sex venues for the longest time. So it was missing that personal connection that I might need. But there were some exceptions that rocked my universe. That was especially the case with the first man that I fucked, 20 years after the first cock (and 100+ cocks after that) that I sucked. I think it was because it was my first anal experience, with both rimming and fucking, and therefore, for me anyway, true intimacy with another man for the first time. It really awoke the more deeply hidden gay part of me like never before, and for the first time I was finally able to accept that gay part of me, and in fact love it. That rocked my universe, and changed everything for me.

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    Re: Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected

    "To tell you the truth, Tag, for the most part I have found sex with guys not as good as I expected or fantasized."

    Yep... that happens, too, and the reason, I've found, is that usually other guys just don't live up to our expectations or we're not having the sex in the way we really need to, like and as many say, because there's no personal connection other than sex. For most guys, that very first time is all that and a bag of chips: I mean, who really knew that having sex with a guy could be that much fun and so good? Then again, that first time doesn't make a guy feel that way... but if there's a next time, yeah - best thing since sliced bread and all that. And then it just loses its luster and appeal because all along the line, we change but our "perception" of how the sex is supposed to be for us doesn't really change so much. We set in our minds that this is the way it's supposed to be but actual experiences doesn't always register against what we've set in our mind. We know it... but it's "weird" because sometimes, if it's broke, we don't bother with fixing it or, worse, I think, we fix it in a way that will only result in it not being all that down the road... and the really fucked up part is that if it's not all that, it's not really your fault if some other guy isn't of a mind to give you what you want and exactly how you want it and that, fellas, creates a pretty big disconnect and, I also think, because we want what we want and in the exact way we want it, it makes us unhappy to have it in any other way, say, to get with a guy you don't have any "feelings" for or who doesn't have any for you. In this, of course it's not gonna be all that you hoped it would be.

    It really does ebb and flow and unpredictably because our thoughts and feelings do the exact same thing. It's da shit right this very moment... and five minutes from now, it ain't all that and now it's about why you think it isn't. And there is a lesson to be learned in this...

 

 

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