Yeah, so I am female
I am afraid that I won't be able to satisfy my bi partner like another man would. For many reasons.
First there is the blowjob/handjob thing where men say that the best ones come from other men. But that's less of a worry for me personally
The biggest worry is the one with receiving anal sex. A deciding majority of bi men says that the most intense orgasm they ever got was from bottoming for a guy. At the same time it was their best sex ever. I am fully aware of the fact that a strapon feels nothing like the real thing and since I don't have a penis, I just won't be able to give the "best part of sex" to my partner.
I don't blame bi men for preferring sex with men but it is just hard as a woman, knowing that your partner has had better and you won't be able to reach this level of "better". One thing worth mentioning is that I overall don't support polygamy so an open relationship is not an option. Not a threesome either.
How can I make it sexually satisfying for us both? Even without the "real thing"?
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