I find it a perplexing that bisexual people cop flak from both the heterosexual and homosexual community. It's like we have to choose a side, we're not allowed to sit somewhere in the middle. Both camps call us homosexuals in denial. Is it that inconceivable that a man or woman can be turned on by another man or woman?
If I suck a cock or bottom, I must be gay but if I have my cock sucked and top, I can still be heterosexual and if I enjoy both (which is where I believe I will sit), I don't switch between heterosexual and homosexual rather branded with the later. That makes no sense at all. For me to top, I have to be hard, that implies sexual arousal, sexual arousal caused by another man. That's not heterosexual, it's bisexual at the very least.
The same can be said for situational homosexuality in prisons and the armed forces before women were allowed to join. Rather than masturbating, which to me seems the obvious solution, they choose gay sex. However what differs here is they both can be seen a heterosexual due to the absence of the opposite sex to fulfill their need.
Why is it that so many are scared of the bisexual label? It it because they don't want to be lumbered in the homosexual camp with the rest of the so called bisexuals? Do we remind them of their own secret same sex desires? Or is it because for the most part they can't tell us a part from the rest of the heterosexual community?
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