No I would not. It is much easier to be straight than gay or bisexual in the worlds we live in. IF he were to be bisexual or gay, I would support him and love him as I do now, but it is more difficult than being straight.
No I would not. It is much easier to be straight than gay or bisexual in the worlds we live in. IF he were to be bisexual or gay, I would support him and love him as I do now, but it is more difficult than being straight.
This is entirely up to him, but I have to say that children are influenced by their parents, as long as the son is happy.
Wouldn’t make any difference to me.
Had to deal with a issue over the weekend with a female friend whose kids ( 16 year old twin brother and sister ) have come out as bisexual and I got a phone call saying help us please talk with mum.... so I wandered over and mum was having a meltdown.... " poor kids, they were having to deal with bullying cos they were out as bisexual and they needed a counsellor and therapist to help them with this and coping with being out... and support with how to tell other people cos LGBT teens have a higher suicide rate and mental health issues..."...
I finally had to tell the mum to shut up, stop talking and listen to her kids... they had both been out for a year to other people including their father who said, thats cool, if you need somebody to talk to, do you have people you can talk to, about issues ? .... mum was the last person they told, cos mum overreacted, badly.... and I can only imagine what she will say when she finds out her husband is bisexual lol.....
I think the husbands way of handling things was great.... he listened to his kids and asked if they had support and people to talk with.....and he made me smile when he said, you know, even straight kids have to come out as well about their partners and some parents reactions can be just as hard with the no way in hell are we accepting your choice of partner but the part that I am going to find hard with my kids, is saying to them ok, how many partners are you bringing to xmas lunch cos we may need a bigger table lol...
The only thing more painful than a broken heart, is catching yourself in your zip and having very cold hands
My son was gay but, me being bi, he always knew we would accept him for who he was and not judge...other than sternly wagging a finger when he secretly raided my gay porn. LOL
I say "was" because he was kidnapped and brutally murdered 4 years ago by a pair of redneck methheads. We personally ran down the bastards who did it in 28 hours after he went missing and both are doing very long sentences. Accept your children for who they are, not who they chose to have sex with. You may not have them in your life for as long as you might think.
That is tragic beyond belief. I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
God Almighty, I'm so sorry for your loss.Originally Posted by Neonaught
If it is to be, let it be with me
Sorry for your loss
he is already
how old is he , and how do you know that he's bi ?
Don't have children can't comment
I certainly would not *want* them to be.
But I certainly would not want them *not* to be!
I think sexuality and gender are areas where parents explore preferences for their children at their peril.
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
I do not care about the sexuality of my children. I just want them to be happy and healthy.
my children will be whatever they are, thats not for me to be happy or unhappy, only to guide them into adulthood and be there for them
Good question, I'm glad you asked it.
Right or wrong? I don't think it goes there very well at all. That would really bring in the moral judgement aspects. I'm unable to speak to the morality of SEX.
My wanting any of this for my Son would be a very limited WANT. I want him to be happy, I want him to be accepted by his family and friends. I want him to have sex, be a sexual person and to share that with at least someone if not more. Only in a very selfish way would i ever think of wanting him to be a certain sexuality. It's a personal thing and for him and for only him and in everyway there can be. There is no place for Me within the concept of him becoming any specific Sexuality.
As for the Selfish Me, I guess I can be honest here and say that I have fantasized about he and I being sexual together. He will never know of those fantasies. A few here in this form have spoken to that idea and even to that fact where father and son were sexual together. I wouldn't let that happen. A fantasy is enough for me. If my son has fantasies of him and me, then those are his and not mine. I do in fact listen to him and maybe I'll hear something I could say was a tell. But only to listen and not to engage in a discussion. If he were to be confused about anything in the area of sexuality. There are plenty of very qualified men for him to turn to and not for me to recommend.
I wish I could say I have the same straight-arm defense when it comes to my daughter. That woman is too much for me and I know it. I her case I have to rely on my wife for help. Fingers crossed, xxxxx
If either of my kids came out as LGBT, I would be totally okay and supporting of them. My granddaughter is out as Pansexual in her social media profile. I couldn't be prouder that she is able and willing to be out like that.
And it doesn't hurt her that she is very pretty. She's going to be chasing the boys and girls off with a stick, if she isn't already doing that.
If I had a son, there's every chance he could be, I believe there is a element of genetics in sexuality. I maintain I was born this way, I didn't grow to be aroused by cock over many years, it showed up around puberty but the fascination was there from an early age. For me, I think the question is would he admit or accept it as there's every chance he got it from me.
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