Originally Posted by
fredward
For me when I started out into CL hookups, I would often bail for a variety of reasons: I felt more guilty than usual, the meetup sounded sketchy, I was worried about being see, etc etc. If I was a noshow, I usually emailed the guy and apologized. Some were very understanding, some were mad (which they had a right to be). One guy sounded positively psycho about it, so maybe I made a good call there. But usually I would show up.
With time, I felt more and more confident, and stopped bailing at the last minute. The regrets went away, my judgement got better. Maybe that will happen to you too.
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