Hard (ness) question for a top.

[dowmass]

I have bottomed only twice - and the last time I saw that I didn't get hard when I was with my top. Yes I had a heightened heartbeat, and I was fully excited. After my partner was fully in, as he kept going in and out, I found a strange pleasure inside my boy pussy. For the first time in my life I was having anal (prostrate) orgasms. In the 60 plus minutes I spent getting F*cked, I had multiple orgasms - that were not just pleasant, but mind shattering - and all along my dIck remained flaccid.

I think I felt like a bitch and a woman while all this was happening

• I am curious to know - have you been with a bottom with a soft dick, and is that a put off?
• Have you seen your bottom enjoy that?
• Would you top someone that did not have a hard dick - and that cums on the inside like I did?

Question for Younger tops - Would you be attracted to 60 YO daddy bottom? What would you like about such a bottom?

[Christopher South]

• I am curious to know - have you been with a bottom with a soft dick, and is that a put off?

I have and no it's not a put-off

• Have you seen your bottom enjoy that?

yes

• Would you top someone that did not have a hard dick - and that cums on the inside like I did?

yes

Part of the issue regarding a soft cock during anal is that some of the nerves that control erections run along your prostate. Of you are receiving anal sex, your partners cock can hit those nerves and disrupt your erection. That has happened to me plenty of times and once my partner has stopped my erection sprang right back.

[redngoldpride]

Not a turn off at all some bottoms stay soft and some get hard but they both love it and they know with me that they can just let go and do and say what ever is inside of them and needs to be let out in other words be completely and totally uninhibited and when they have anal orgasms it just gets me going even more and if their cock starts shooting or leaking cum and yes the soft limp cocks cum also it is so fucking hot , sexy , erotic .......

[yeahso]

A top should not care if your dick is hard. He should care about enjoying your ass, and if you are enjoying yourself. I would love to spend an hour drilling a guy and have him nearly pass out from pleasure.

[Neonaught]

You might give SilverDaddies a try.

[dowmass]

You might give SilverDaddies a try.

I have a profile on SD. I got nothing but fakes and flakes so far - that is interesting that even "silver daddies" turn out to be liars,

[NerdyBiGuy]

When I was bottomed, my top was rock hard, painfully so... He was too enthusiastic and his hard member tore my virgin butthole, it was sore for days.

[CTmale50]

I enjoy getting fucked. And yes, my dick is flaccid. I wish it wasn't, but it does. For guys that were tops, it was a turn off cuz they wanted me to cum..well it doesn't happen sometimes! But the feeling of having internal orgasms is natural and ok! It depends on the dick size though. Who wouldn't mind a 60yo daddy bottom!

[KDaddy23]

It happens and I have no idea why some bottoms are rock hard when being dicked and some aren't. I've rarely been fucked and my dick is hard enough to drive nails through stone... but sometimes it has been - no idea and it's just something I stopped thinking about. Now, I see gay porn (and who among us doesn't?) and the bottom is as hard as a diamond... but other stuff shows the guy limper than the proverbial wet noodle - which thing is the truth and reality and what is "movie stuff?"

Does a bottom who isn't rock hard mean the guy ain't enjoying what you're doing to him? Nope - he's just one of many men who can't get hard when there's a dick in his ass. I know that when a guy gets overstimulated, he can kiss his erection good-bye and I'm not talking about just being physically overstimulated; your body can be hyped for getting laid but any stray thought that happens to stick in your head can make and keep your dick soft... and when you really don't want it to be.

I've topped guys who were soft the whole time and have seen them "bust a nut" despite not being hard; I've even had that experience and it's weird because, supposedly, we can't bust a nut unless our dick is hard (and some other stuff is happening that I know you don't wanna really know about) but, yep, been there, done that, not 100% sure of why it happens.

Then there's this: Busting a nut - ejaculation - and having an orgasm aren't the same things; it's just that it tends to happen with us when we're busting a nut so we think the two things are one and the same but they really aren't. And even men can orgasm without ejaculating but, again, we tend to believe that this isn't true... but we see this very same thing with women, don't we? Not all women ejaculate - squirt - do they? Doesn't mean they didn't have an orgasm even when they insist that they didn't - but women have a strange way of thinking and looking at this; a lot of women who say they never had an orgasm usually don't know that they did because they're looking for that Fourth of July moment that's so greatly romanticized and hoped for - but the real thing for them ain't that spectacular so they say they've never had one.

They just didn't experience one in the fantastic, toe-curling way they think it should happen.

[Neonaught]

As a top guy I have noted over the years that about 60% of my bottom partners don't stay hard after penetration, but as was earlier mentioned this is almost certainly due to pressure on the nerves involved. Hard or nor it doesn't keep some of them from cumming hard hands-free just from my cock hitting their prostate just right. I love it when that happens!!!

[dowmass]

As a top guy I have noted over the years that about 60% of my bottom partners don't stay hard after penetration, but as was earlier mentioned this is almost certainly due to pressure on the nerves involved. Hard or nor it doesn't keep some of them from cumming hard hands-free just from my cock hitting their prostate just right. I love it when that happens!!!

Would you fuck someone that is soft even before you enter him?

Last time i was soft from the moment I met my top. Of course it didn’t matter to either if us. I had multiple prostrate orgasms!!

[lancer525]

I have a profile on SD. I got nothing but fakes and flakes so far - that is interesting that even "silver daddies" turn out to be liars,

Same experience as I've had.

And to address the OP's post: No, it's not a turn off.

[Neonaught]

Would you fuck someone that is soft even before you enter him?

Last time i was soft from the moment I met my top. Of course it didn’t matter to either if us. I had multiple prostrate orgasms!!

I certainly would fuck a bottom partner that was soft the entire time. Just knowing he wants my cock in him is all I need.

[cbb83]

Anal orgasms happen independently of "normal" orgasms. You can even have both at the same time for that "super orgasm".

Personally I think it's hotter when the bottom is also hard, but it doesn't really detract if they're not.