Originally Posted by
dowmass
So I am 60, and my first bi experience was when I was in grade 9 or something - nothing big - just some touching JO etc. Decades later, it appears that my "bottom" ghost is alive in kicking - but here's the situation. When CL was around, I got topped twice, by two different people - great experiences, the last being in April 2017. Now that CL is gone, I cannot find anyone to be with.
I am married, and on DL and a TOTAL BOTTOM. I'd rather have a regular TOP to be for reasons of discretion and safety. The irony is that I can't find even one guy to have one top to have a ONE TIME F@CK.
At this time, I cannot think of anything other than Silverdaddies, this site and Double list. - All these have been useless because all I have found is flakes, picture collectors, time wasters and Non-Serious people, who write beautiful emails a few times, and then stop writing. There are times when I don't get a single reply on Doublelist. I cannot host- and the ones's that are interested either cannot either or don't want to and nothing happens.
So I did some analysis, but I will really appreciate getting your inputs.
1) The age of 60 may be a put off - even for TOPS of that age because they are looking for younger bottoms.
2) These sites probably have a high number of fake profiles or bots. 3) The people who write never intended to do anything other than write emails
Anyways - 1) I am at my wits end. I am horny and need to find someone. I am sure there is one person in Dallas TX who might be interested, but I can't find him why?
2) Doe anyone have experiences with Ashley Madison/Plenty of Fish/Adult friend finder etc. Other than these, are there sites that would work (I don't mind the $)
3) Am I doing something wrong or missing out on something - like is there an "IDEAL POST" that will connect me to my top?
Thanks for your replies!
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