Originally Posted by
Realist
Your interests were clear to me, Franz...so, you don't have a communication issue....it's just that others just have a "Not-listening" problem! Looks like you're in the process of finding someone, already! I hope all parties meet their goals!
I've long been aware that each of us are different and, if we're advertising for a lover, FWB, or a cum and run, being specific about what one wants, is important.
Personally, I've always been more focused on relationships and getting to know a person well, before intimacy. In the beginning, not making myself clear, caused some confusion with potential partners.
After learning to be a better communicator, I became more clear, about my interests and avoided some of the pitfalls. However, there will always be those who don't read the fine print, misconstrue intentions, or expect something different than is intended.
Still, as others above have mentioned, there are still those who are teasers, players, and also the guilt-ridden posers. I assume we will always be plagued with them!
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