Originally Posted by
NjbiGuy01
This is going to vary depending on the person. Like anything, not everyone feels the same nor responds the same to a given stimulus.
My ex-GF (almost became my wife) got soaking wet when I told her I had a glory-hole experience. She wanted to share experiences, but we never got the chance before we broke up.
I find it interesting that some women will freely tell you they are bi (or their profile on websites indicates that), but will say they find MM sex "disgusting" or not a turn-on to them. I find that odd. You yourself are bi and yet you are closed-minded enough to say bi men are a turn-off ? Don't get that at all...
My wife got pretty worked up when we had a frank discussion about my past activities. She was mildly stoned and when we decided to strip down and fuck, she was totally soaked ! Yet, she carries resentment that I told her about being Bi after we married. I was afraid I might lose her if I told her and I do think it still bugs her that I'm so comfortable with who I am.
She sometimes (when angry) might say, "why don't you just go get fucked by a guy, that's what you want". That's almost like dangling a hall pass I can't have....I actually had a dude make an overture at a bar. I played with a band and while waiting for the other guys to move their gear (so I could easily remove mine), sat at the bar and nursed a drink. A guy nearby started talking me up. It sounded like he wanted to take things back to his place...lol. I politely declined (I did thank him for the offer !!). When I mentioned it to the wife, I got that snippiness: "maybe you shoulda went home with him"...wtf ? We certainly have to talk some things through.
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