This whole ebb and flow thing ha really melted my head, wondering why I was turned on at the idea of being sexual with a guy yet at other times pussy was all. I'm only now accepting I have been in denial about wanting, well cock really but at the same time as women. The female body I adore and lust after, my wife is perfect as far as I'm concerned, however I have never felt such raw sexual desire as I have now I'm out to myself as wanting cock.
I've had interest in guys from an early age... or was it just convenience? Through most of my years it has been all about women with the occasional interaction with an old buddy of mine, always just an oral exchange and happened only on rare occasions over the course of 20 years. Even then i frequently thought about what it would be like to get fucked by a man... I often played with objects and toys.. even seemed to lean towards panties and silky stuff but still was 99 percent female oriented. Even in the years my wife and I were swinging, it was always about women. When menopause took hold and my wife decided my sex life was over, I had to fulfill my owns needs which took me back to anal insertions and gay fantasies. Relationships with women can be complicated.. with men, things are much simpler so I wonder if these feelings are resurfacing or am I like the frog that changes sexes, no girls around? be a girl.... adapt to your environment. Either way, those feelings are much stronger today than when i was younger and sooooo glad I finally found a guy to experience anal with.. never dreamed it would feel that good. I wish I had started that years before.
I have always just exclusively checked out women, never noticed any other guys unless I was looking at their dick in porn. But, I can honestly say that as I get older my desire for men is definitely increasing. I still don’t look at other men in a sexual way, unless it’s in the context of sex or jerking off, but I think about sex with men more and more. And when it comes to women, I adore everything about them, while I’m really just into dicks when it comes to guys. But it is strange that sometimes I go through periods where the only thing that will do it is a penis. Sexuality is a strange and wonderful thing, and it’s ways will forever be a mystery to me! Even just the fact that I love dicks so much baffles me lol. Here I am, totally obsessed with women most of the time, and yet dicks turn me on so freakin much but not so much the guys they’re attached to.
I look at women, enjoy seeing tits and ass, entertain the thought of sex with them. I'd rather have sex with men, it is fulfilling for me that sex with a female never quite captured.
I am glad that I have explored my Sexuality, and by becoming Bisexual, I am now Living My Truth!
For me, the hot romantic feelings and sex with women is great...can't get enough of looking at them and would be all over them if I had chance. For men, it is all about the cock. Must be clean, but other than that I do not care....give me cock to suck and I'll be all over it, especially if there is a nice load to swallow...does not matter at all what they look like etc. Women, I prefer to feel romance with, but since I've been chasing (and sucking) cock so much the last few years, I'd also love to eat any pussy any time...focus on sex organs is the goal
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I was much the same loved women and men some times more, some times less, however since my wife passed away last year, I have much stronger like of men to the point that I don,t really look at women sexually any longer. I have done it before many years ago, so I think I could quite happily have a long term relationship with a man, well as long term as being sixty allows.
well said
I am still much much more likely to admire a woman’s ass boobs and body than those of a guy. Most of my male admiration is online or with my few regular masseurs. My bi desires definitely ebb and flow, but that’s a natural part of my fluid sexuality I think.
Occasionally I’ll be at lunch and joined by a coworker or friend of one and I can sense he is gay. I have thoughts but rarely have been attracted to gay men I meet. I do see how far I can get with flirting though, just in case....
I’ve always been & always will be attracted to women. But my attraction to guys is moreso with the cock. I’m not interested in a relationship even if I do go through with it 1 day & like it. Sometimes I have fun fantasizing about guys. I’ve learned to stop labeling myself & just go with the flow with how I’m feeling & where I’m leaning towards.
Good way to be.Originally Posted by LowkeyBreeze318
I'm primarily attracted to women, being a 3 on the Kinsey sale. I also have no trouble recognizing an attractive male with a nice bulge and a nice tight ass. It seems that would be the basic definition of being bisexual.
Equally attracted to men and women. My cravings change though. At the moment I’m craving a smooth blonde long haired twink about 25 years old with a perky booty. Tomorrow Incould be craving a shaved muscular built guy.
Yes! Same for me.
Women are wonderful to look at and stir thoughts of sex. But, for me, those thoughts rapidly turn to thoughts of sex with men!
JEM
Hi flypqper, how hve you been...still have some excellent video of your cock cumming...thanks.
Wanted to let you and everyone know that now that I am openly bi, I may have come across a new way to get some action. I'l be staying for over two weeks in a nice beachfront hostel with 10 beds in the room...I'm going to make sure all the other guys know all they have to do is come to my bed and they'll get a blow job or whatever. Since I no longer care if anyone knows, hope to have some bicurious (or outright bi or gay) join me when lights are out...looking forward to it.
- Now 100% openly bisexual...finally. Always looking to suck nice, clean cocks and swallow nice loads PM me here or email; slip4296@gmail.com or wgnorman@gmail.com
My desire clearly ebbs and flows...I have no sex at home anymore. Long story, but mostly on the wife having issues of various kinds and me being pretty tired and disgusted about fighting over the same shit. I have an awesome GF now who's amazing and fully open minded. My play desire has died down and the Covid-19 think put a damper on it. Sucked one dick, got a sore throat and asked myself "why bother and why take the risk ?"...
We both discussed our past and we are truly kindred sexual spirits and fwiw, I feel in a comfortable zone knowing she accepts me for who I am. It was like telling her I liked garlic, "so what ?"...she played with women (not really enjoyable for her, despite a few encounters), played with many men, but tells me I make her body and mind feel like nobody ever has. She squirts (never before), I work her ass and pussy for all it's worth, and she screams while we have a great time. Sometimes these sessions last 2 or 3 hours (at 62 I'm proud, she's 46), and we're really happy. Not sure if the future is together, although it's looking like it...
We talked about my being bi, my sexual needs and she is fully supportive. We discussed playing together and supporting one another, in whatever form that might take. Honestly, my drive for hookups has dwindled to near zero. Why ? Because she's such an amazing lover and partner and such an understanding, empathetic and smart human being. I don't yet know how me saying "would you mind if I went to a guy friends house and fucked around ?". Would she want a full report ? Would she want to do something on her own in response, or would she want to watch or join ? She's said she might want another man to join us (she's done two men before), but (in my mind), I'd really want the bi window to be open, so it would need to be the right partner. Not sure how I feel about another man just being with her...we're so happy and fulfilled now, not sure how this is even needed.....
Sorry if I ramble, I'm happy
I do accept my own Bisexuality, and my true desire, is for men! Although, I often and still do, desire women body very much and I did have great sex, with my wife, prior to losing her to Cancer. It can be hard, to find another woman, who was as my good, as my wife was before her death. I absolutely love, the female form and body. Since the passing of wife, I find that I still have sexual needs and the desire for a male, is just a bit stronger than being with a female. Taking in consideration and all the excess baggage and the problems, that most women have. Maybe if I was out and about, I would still, desire a women and I mostly do, look at women. After the wife passing, it was just much easier, for me to find another man, to exchange mutual oral pleasures with, since most men, are in a hurry, but they also they have desires and sexual needs, just to bust a nut or two with another man.
Like the thread author mentioned, if everyone walked around naked, I would probably be more attract to seeing a man, and his cock, because my own cock, has been my best friend, for most of my life, my cock was always available and it never let me down, nor was never ashamed, to play with myself!
My current thoughts or desire, for sex with anyone, has died down, since the COVID-19 pandemic. My big problem, I do still have cravings sex with another man, and sucking his cock, until he explodes his warm load of man juices in my mouth, but I can wait, until this pandemic, is under control. Why would anyone want to risk their life, for a brief sexual pleasures, with a man or woman, if they know how to "Jack-Off" their own cock?
Understand, life is but a short Journey, people must try to experience and enjoy any, and all, of various sexual opportunities that they can, while they are able to! The lasting memories can be great!
It's times like these I am glad I have a collection of Fleshlights!
I think we get too caught up in which way we want to go. Thankfully part of the joy of this is being able to see both sides and to Revel in both. It doesn’t mean you need to be mutually attracted to both or even one at the same time. Even straight friends talk about how their tasting porn varies. I think that is a reflection of our own human identity
...you were cognizant of the fact that people enjoy a wide variety of entertainment, and it’s foolish (as well as not a little condescending) to judge all content just because of the particular format it’s in?
I am new to exploring my Bi side and my first time was an MMF. I've only gotten more interested as I've gotten older. It ebbs and flows for me but I am glad I am exploring it. I am a switch that likes power exchange but not into humiliation of any kind.
I found as I aged, the desire became stronger and once I accepted my sexuality, time allowed me to become more comfortable with my desires and this is where my fluidity comes in. Started off as a Kinsey 2, went to a 3 shortly after and a year later, changed it to a 4. I guess sub-consciously a 2 made me more straight and 3 equal so at least my homosexual side didn't appear to be dominant. A 4 makes it dominant and I'm happy with that, but it did take time and I do realise that it may change up or down given more time based up situation or circumstance but at least it's not based on fear of being seen as more homosexual than heterosexual anymore.
It definitely changes throughout life. When I was young I was strictly straight, very little thoughts of sex with guys. I didn’t have my first mm experience until I was in my 40s. Right now I primarily have sex with guys. My emotions still love women, but at least for me the sex is better with other guys
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