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    Current bi thoughts

    I find my desire for men growing. I still desire women very much and have good sex with my wife. But the male desire gets a bit stronger every now and then. On the street i prefer women and mostly look at women, but if every body walked around naked id probably look at men , and now im thinking maybe more. I absolutely love tits and the female everything but am more for women because i don't see men naked as much? Maybe. Unfortunately my conscience usually only likes men as friends. Saw a hot guy the other day and as soon as i heard him talk my desire faded. Strange.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Eh, not so strange; our desire for both men and women normally ebbs and flows and literally from one moment to the next. Guys can go for long periods of time craving other guys and with little or no interest in women then, tomorrow, it's all about the girls and guys are just nice eye candy to look at. Some people are magnificent, appealing, makes your blood flow as hot as lava... until they open their mouth and say something - bummer. Interesting how a guy with a hot bod can eliminate himself from sexual consideration by having a whiny voice or even by saying something that you'd take as being stupid, immature, whatever.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Quote Originally Posted by KDaddy23 View Post
    Interesting how a guy with a hot bod can eliminate himself from sexual consideration by having a whiny voice or even by saying something that you'd take as being stupid, immature, whatever.
    I once dated this "Twinkish" guy. So after a few dtes, i asked him what he likes to read... His response was comic books.... Needless to say. . .

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Yeah, mine ebbs and flows too. Nothing in public either. It's all women I look at.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Mine ebbs and flows. I don't do one night stands so it's hard to meet people.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Quote Originally Posted by JasonS View Post
    Mine ebbs and flows. I don't do one night stands so it's hard to meet people.
    It amazes me, that in the 21st century, with the Internet, Ect, that it is hard to meet people.

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    Thirty years ago one of my class mates at the University who was Psychic . She told me " If you want something, you'll find it!

    Keep looking. . .

    Seek and you will will find, Knock, and it will be opened on to you. Ask, and permission will be granted unto you.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Is your orientation leaning in one direction? Wait. It'll change. Wait some more, change again.
    Maybe "change is the only constant".

    But don't worry that you are becoming gay, or that your orientation is permanently swinging one way or the other.
    That might be insecurity talking.

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    True , it might be insecurity talking. Also he didn't say or sound bad, it was just I was put off. Although i suspect that might be societies conditioning saying you can't be with a man. The more older i get the more into men i am, i doubt ill turn our gay, but at the moment its like this: clothes on i prefer women, clothes off it seems to be men, now that is something i never thought id say, even a year ago

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    Also, im now living close to the beach and see guys more, when the guys have few clothes or tight clothes im looking at them the way i do women. Oh and im certainty not complaining, my interest in guys has increased and thats a good thing

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    It's not that it's hard to meet people: It's hard to get the people you might be interested in to agree to meet you. If you're not a fan of casual sex, that makes meeting other guys even harder; while a lot of guys are turning more toward FWB, there are still a lot of guys who just wanna hit it and get in the wind. If you're FWB-minded, that's a more careful selection process because any candidate isn't just getting access to your body, they're getting access to your life as well and as much as you'd allow that; still makes meeting people difficult.

    Then there's your preferences and depending on how deep they run or, bluntly, how picky you are about it, that'll eliminate a whole lot of guys right off the bat. Worried about getting outed? That, all by itself, will make meeting other guys difficult and more so when you're likely to be always thinking, "What if somebody sees me with him and starts asking questions?" Best way to avoid that problem is to not arrange any meetings... but that defeats the whole purpose, doesn't it? Too busy with other things in your life and really don't have the time to at least try to meet other guys? Maybe some careful time management might be in order to make some time without drawing any undue suspicion should you be flying under the radar. Keep running into pushy or flaky guys? That'll curb one's desire to go on the hunt as well.

    The Internet has opened up the world to everyone who can access it... but one still has to decide what's going to be best for them in this. I'd say that the problem isn't meeting people - the problem is deciding whether meeting guys is gonna be worth the risks, both real and imagined, that and figuring out who might be that ideal guy for you to play with. The secondary problem is that in the absence of a meaningful, in-depth dialog, the only way you're gonna find out if this is "the guy for you" is to meet them face-to-face and, well, I'm sure many of us know how that might not happen.

    What does this have to do with the ebb and flow of things? A lot more than you might imagine! That is probably the "I like guys!" part of you telling you that you need some, ah, contact with a guy... if you could first identify a potential right guy... and then if you're willing to meet with him.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    If your desires Ebb and Flow, good for you ! You are Bisexual, enjoy it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Birobertb View Post
    True , it might be insecurity talking. Also he didn't say or sound bad, it was just I was put off. Although i suspect that might be societies conditioning saying you can't be with a man. The more older i get the more into men i am, i doubt ill turn our gay, but at the moment its like this: clothes on i prefer women, clothes off it seems to be men, now that is something i never thought id say, even a year ago
    I agree here I love both sexes.. but men are what gets my motor reving!! Man sex is my thing and I love it.. being naked and pleasing a guy is such an honor.. being a guy and being able to be with another guy and get him horny and hard and have him want to put his cock in me is very pleasurable.. to give up my pussy to another guy and have him fuck and want to fuck me is about the most erotic and exciting thing I can think of.. think about it you have sucked his cock he is now hard and wants to put his cock inside of you.. he wants to do to you what he would do to a girl.. but your a guy!! You have now made him so horny that he forgets all the stigma and he wants to fuck you.. kinda cool in my book��������

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    I am very much attracted to women - even though the feeling is rarely mutual. I check them out everywhere I go.

    By contrast, I am am not attracted to men and never even notice them when I'm out and about.

    For the last several years, since I've been alone, I have been curious about cock.

    I have never acted on the curiosity (and don't know that I ever will). It certainly does get stronger/weaker at different times though.

    That being said, it does not seem unusual at all that your feelings/attractions change as well.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Quote Originally Posted by whistle1 View Post

    I have never acted on the curiosity (and don't know that I ever will).
    If you don't try it, you are going to have regrets about what could have been.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Quote Originally Posted by csreef View Post
    If you don't try it, you are going to have regrets about what could have been.
    This. Gotta at least try it.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Quote Originally Posted by whistle1 View Post
    I am very much attracted to women <snip> By contrast, I am am not attracted to men and never even notice them when I'm out and about.
    This is a common theme in the forum -- you'll see a lot of guys, including me, express similar thoughts. There are various reasons for this. For many, I'd guess, it's the fear of being 'stigmatized' by others as gay or bisexual. Others, who may married or in a relationship with a woman, may question how this would affect that relationship or how their current partner would react. Lots or reasons!

    For the last several years, since I've been alone, I have been curious about cock. <snip> I have never acted on the curiosity (and don't know that I ever will).
    Whatever your choice, be honest -- with yourself, and with potential play partners. For your part of it, it you are reasonably well adjusted, you'll be the same person after you have had a dick in your mouth as you are today. You may find that you don't care for it. You may find that you LOVE it, and can't wait to gain more experience. Either way, or in between, it doesn't mean you're a pervert or a bad person.

    Also be honest as you communicate with someone in contemplation of that first step. There are many real, decent guys who enjoy M-M sexual intimacy of this type, and we deserve the courtesy of openness and candor. I can't count the times that I hear from someone who's hot-to-go, then disappears or doesn't show up to meet. We can understand and accept uncertainty. Disrespect and lack common courtesy are entirely different things.

    Good luck -- don't be afraid!

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    All true.
    Ive already quite a lot of male experiences. And still usually never noticed guys on the street, just women. I'm guessing what has changed is that I'm seeing more with less clothes on, like everyday now.
    I'm betting the guys that go to the gym have more male experiences or at least more male attractions than guys that don't or at least more than guys who never see guys with little clothes on.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    It is funny how a lot of male for male attraction becomes more evident as we age. I don't know why. I knew I was bi in my early 30's(now 65) but was married, we starting having children and remained focused on that. Fast forward 30 years and the focus has shifted. I still regularly (2-3x's week) have passionate sex with my wife so am sexually satisfied but the male cravings remain. I shall remain loyal to her for a sundry of reasons. If for any reason we no longer have sex I am fairly certain I will find an FWB.

    Gym, lots of guys checking each other out. I do like to shower w/ them.

    I still look at women, especially older gals that have stayed fit. Most American ladies unfortunately have not. Men on the street do not do as much for me, just like you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by emerging View Post
    It is funny how a lot of male for male attraction becomes more evident as we age. I don't know why. I knew I was bi in my early 30's(now 65) but was married, we starting having children and remained focused on that. Fast forward 30 years and the focus has shifted. I still regularly (2-3x's week) have passionate sex with my wife so am sexually satisfied but the male cravings remain. I shall remain loyal to her for a sundry of reasons. If for any reason we no longer have sex I am fairly certain I will find an FWB.

    Gym, lots of guys checking each other out. I do like to shower w/ them.

    I still look at women, especially older gals that have stayed fit. Most American ladies unfortunately have not. Men on the street do not do as much for me, just like you.
    Interesting.
    You don't look at men on the street but in the gym you do right?

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Our libidos ebb and flow. I personally think that the female body is the pinnacle of Gods creation. Having said that, when I watch porn and see a beautiful woman sucking a nice cock, I just as often want to trade places with her as I do him.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    wow, all I can say is wow. I really thought that this only happens to me and it made me wonder how bi I really was. thanks for bring this out and sharing, it helps to know that these feeling are common. for my part, I (depending on my mood) will look at women or men out on the street that can get my cock started.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    I am the first to admit my libido and my sexual orientation swing back and forth periodically. I love sex with a woman (even with my wife !! lol), but sometimes I just feel the need to be with a man, even if only for a little mutual oral or more.

    There are also many times I lose interest with the whole scene. I was on a few men's sites but (like the swinger sites) too many people talk a good good came, but many are dysfunctional people who frustrate more than they do excite me. Every few years I just get disgusted and kill off the profiles on these sites and take a break until my mood swings back.

    You can truly get burned out simply from the damn chases and time-wasting. "Couples" who write back as "interested" and you answer, and then they disappear...assholes. Guys who think they will meet a movie-star looking guy with a porn-star cock, even post wife pictures (!) and then magically convince their wife to play...sorry guys, it don't work like that. Then you find guys who are "curious" but cannot get themselves to take the plunge. Or you meet a nice guy who simply can't get it up... ... smh. I'm done ranting..

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    While I'm very aware of how sometimes im more into men than other times, the trend over the years is slowly but surely going up towards being more into men. Before i would be thinking of cock and then it would go for a while. Now I'm pretty much always into men on some level. I'm not sure what it is, am i more accepting with age, with male experience, who knows. I know to accept it, but as we all experience, sometimes I just can't help wondering why.

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    Re: Current bi thoughts

    Not sure I can add anything to this thread other then to concur with most of you. I too only look at women sexually. I was exposed to porn at a young age. (Much older brothers). Anyway I always found the woman’s body much more attractive but I think I always found a hard penis exciting. I liked to compare it to mine. I never acted on my “other” side until much later in life. I’ve never kissed a man or really had an intimate hug nor do I desire that. My feelings too , come and go. When I do desire it it’s a very strong desire. For me though it’s all about the penis That being said, I believe most men think like I/we do yet chose to repress it which is fine. For me it’s a tremendous release. It’s always good to talk to a read about men in similar situations.

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    This is an interesting thread. I was forced to suck cock at 5 years old and hated it. Started jacking with a friend at 10 yo and we sucked eachother once. Neither of us liked it. As I got older and sex with wife dried up. I started hitting on women and got a few chances. The best part for me was licking their pussies. I liked getting them off and they liked it. I should add here that the woman who lived next door to gave me my first blow job and taught me how to lick her at 13 yo. I was very popular in high school because I would rather lick than fuck. The girls liked that because they got off and no fear of getting pregnant.
    As ive gotten older and watched a lot of porn I've gravitated to cocks cumming and guys sucking. Still like to lick pussy and wouldn't mind an occasional good fuck. But I like to look at the guys cocks at the gym and show mine whenever I can. I have sucked a couple of cocks later in life and liked it. Now that I'm getting to a point in life where get and maintaining a hardon is tough giving a blow job or licking pussy is the way to go if I can find someone willing and have time away from the Mrs.

 

 

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