Originally Posted by
BiGuyinMA
I've spent a lot of time in hotels for business over the last twenty years and have tried numerous approaches. One thing that has surprised me, given just how many Craigslist/Double List posts end with 'You must host!', just how many no-shows there are, and how often you suddenly find yourself ghosted. It's still very 'hit and miss' but the way I do it is multi-pronged.
AdultFriendFinder... A few days ahead of my trip, I change my profile location to my destination and put up details of where I'll be staying. Do a search of members in the area and reach out to those who fit your criteria. Concentrate on Gold members, they've paid the subscription so they're serious about meeting.
Double List... Start putting up adds a few days ahead of time. Start a dialogue with interested guys. This also gives you time to start weeding out the flakes (you'll get plenty).
Sniffies.com Getting better and better as more guys sign up. You can see at a glance who's close.
Have a hook-up app on your phone. I use Scruff and on more than one occasion I've found guys staying in the same hotel. On one occasion I got a match with someone <25Ft away... He was next door in the adjoining room. :-)
Many of the posts on Double List are from married guys... just because you can host doesn't mean they can suddenly drop everything and come on over. But with a little advanced warning, if they're serious they can arrange reasons to be out of the house.
Even with all this, I strike out far more than I succeed. The thing is to be careful. I could definitely get more cock than I do but if I get the slightest weird vibe off someone, I politely decline. I've probably missed out on some great guys but don't compromise your safety.
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