Curious Question! Looking forward to reading the replies
Curious Question! Looking forward to reading the replies
My wife found out when I told her when we first met. In a way, it's a kind of test I give women; I tell them and if they pitch a bitch about it, she's not the woman for me. I told her... and she was really hyped up about it and told me that meeting a bi guy meant a whole lot to her and more so when she'd been looking to explore her own bi side.
I've dated a number of women that I met thru the "Kink Community". And thru my profile on Kink social Media, they knew, and accepted that I was Bi.
Once I dated this woman, and over a few glasses of wine, I learned that she had an out right H-A-T-E for gay people. So, later in the date, I told her that I was Bi. Then I asked if that was a problem....Her response was " Well no, not at this point." Seeing "how well" the evening had ended, I never called her, and she never called me. I should have trusted my Intuition, but my Penis, and Id, had overruled my Intuition and Common Sense. Lesson learned.
Mrs. Jones, my current FWB, knows that I'm Bi, and HATES it!
Married for 33 years wife found a post I posted about what I like to do with men about 4 years ago so I told her about my past.
I told my gal after our second date. She told me that she teaches her kids to accept all sexualities. She too, had a confession to make about her curious side. Said she met a great gal that she fell for on a non sexual basis. And that they had kissed but as far as they went. But that they had an emotional connection.
There have been times when I've told women that I was Bi, and their reaction was :
"Wow" , or "You are so Kool, because you are sooo in tune with your Sexuality" , or, " You've got it so together", or I've heard from a few women, " You are pretty Kool".
Needless to say . . . On each of those nights, the music was soft, and cool, and the candle light was jussst right.
How did she find it?Originally Posted by xp243
I am openly bi and not monogamous. She knew from the very start.
There was never a 'big reveal'.
My present wife: Before we got married she consented to watch me with another man. Unfortunately he wasn't up for it. I would have liked her to see the joy of giving an all out blow job.
When my wife and I were dating. It was long distance and we were talking on the phone. Somewhere in the conversation it somehow came up. It may have been talking about strip
clubs. I told her about this one I went to outside Hull, in Quebec. There was an older guy that started chatting with me. When the club was closing he asked if I could give him a ride to his hotel. And it just went from there. She was totally turned on by it. Eventually she watched me via a webcam with a suck a guy. Major turn on for her.
For the most part I think she has always known at least on some level. We were friends for a long time before we started dating. When we started dating we became even closer and more trusting of each other. She had revealed to me she had been sexually abused by a guy who used to live down the road from her when she was younger and in return I had revealed to her my experiences with my brother when I was younger. I didn't tell her I was Bi at that point as I didn't really know it myself at that point yet or at least wasn't ready to admit it. I'm sure over the years the fact that I liked for her to finger my ass and loved so much the times when she'd allow me to fuck her ass she must have at least wondered. It wasn't until about 5 or 6 years ago I guess now after having been together and married for 30 years when the urges to be with a guy started to resurface when I told her what I have been fantasizing about and that truth be told I was Bi. Without blinking an eye she said go ahead if you want to I'm fine with that just not another woman. God I so love this woman even after all these years.
For my wife and I it was New Years Eve 2016, history here 1st.we have been married for 30 years raised 2 great kids who are now out on their own and starting families of their own. Being empty nesters with no after school activities to attend we kinda fell into an introvert lifestyle. That being said for some reason even though my wife is still very attractive and maintained her hot body sex became boring and just routine. I am an avid outdoorsman and my neighbor and I spend lot of time fishing , hunting and many other outdoor activities and after drinking one night acted out our man for man fantasies and have maintained that for a lot of years now. Unknown to me the same thing happened to the wife, she had another women that she played with while I was traveling.
I guess in our minds we thought the same thing that sex with with our private same sex friend was not cheating and we were good with that. New yrs Eve 2016 we didn’t have lot going on and my buddies wife was in California taking care of hr mother after her surgery so we invited him over for a night of drinking and fun games. We live in a very rural area in Centrl Wisconsin so I don’t have nosey neighbors to see what we do. I have a full wrap around deck on the house with a hot tub and sauna that comes in handy at our age.
After dinner relaxing we are sitting around playing games and perhaps the alcohol was helping but the conversation turned to sex and we talked about what each other sought from the other during sex. We decided to go out into the hot tub which I have a strick rule no clothes so without hesitation he and I got naked and went into the tub, she was still kinda shy but got naked and slipped into the water and after a few minutes my buddy needed another drink and got up and the wife got full view of his half erection sporting his awesome 8 inch thick furry cock and low hanging balls. All on purpose as he has said many times how much he would love to bury his cock in her. My wife whispered that that she was really turned on and said she was having trouble maintaining her composure with 2 big cocks in front of her. He returned and we started playing a dare game and the subject came up on sucking dick, that is her favorite thing to do is sucking cock.
What happened next is a sexual journey that is still ongoing, so during our dare game we dared her to suck my dick while he watched and sporting a hardon she swallowed my cock balls deep and it felt so good that my buddy was feeling left out and said what about me, and I looked at her and said you know he has often said he would love to bury his dick in you and she smiled and said really? I motioned for him to come over and he fed her his cock and I was like holy shit my wife is sucking his cock and I’m loving it. I grabbed her hair and said remember no cum in the hot tub, if he cums you must swallow every drop. She said no problem and after a few minutes he shot his load deep in her throat and as she made sure not a single drop got in the water I was fingering her pussy and I know she knew what was coming. She turned to me and I fed her my cock and within minutes she swallowed my load as well. Relaxing the wife whispered that she was embarrassed and sorry for not being in control, I assured her that everything was good and she had just fulfilled one of my greatest fantasies. She smiled and said so we are not done, I said no and all she could do was smile and say awesome.
After going back back into the house no one tried to cover up, we all were in the kitchen making our next round of drinks and as our cocks grew once again her natural instincts was to slowing stroke our cocks and had this smile on her face as she was realizing her fantasies as well, we walked into the bedroom and she prepared a sheet so we wouldn’t fuckup the bed and couldn’t wait to spread her legs for her 2 rockhard cocks. She laid on her back spread her legs and my buddy went to work eating her sloppy fuck box, I was straddling her breast feeding her my dick and balls and the moment he put his dick in her was surreal. I got off of her and enjoyed watching her get pounded and we took turns fucking her and she was in heaven. We switched up positions and she crawled on top of me sucking my dick as he pounded her and my front row seat to the hot action and that was when she found out I too am a lover of dick and cum, she could feel me licking her clit and me licking his cock as it slid in and out and when he filled her pussy I couldnt wait to taste his cock after he cummed. She got all excited and wanted to watch me suck his cock. She said to my buddy suck his dick and swallow his cum, and she helped him work a load from me.
After that night my budd has been a regular in our bed and sex is a lot more fun now than before New Years Eve 2016. Now it’s alot easier when he and I get together as now she knows what we are up to. Since that night she has revieled her personal friend that she now shares with me.
Because I used copy and paste on my phone
When I first met my wife 23 years ago I told her about an encounter I had with my best friend and his wife. Just to qualify things my buddy and I had grown up together and had sucked and fucked each other many times. To my knowledge his wife did not know about our sexual relationship. His wife was a kinky little gal and he convinced her to have a threesome with me. It started out he and I were taking turns fucking his wife. Then she an I got into a sixty nine position with her on top while my buddy started fucking her from behind while I was eating her pussy. I licked her clit and his cock as he was going in and out of her. Later I was on top of her fucking that sweet pussy and my buddy came over and started feeding his wife his cock. She and I were face to face with his cock so she pulled me in for a kiss with his cock in her mouth. We both took turns sucking his cock, then she backed off and I kept going until he filled my mouth with is cum.
My wife didn't seem surprised or shocked about my detailed account, but her pussy was soaking wet. I took that as a good sign and we fucked like here was no tomorrow. I don't think she picked upon how much I enjoyed the encounter or that I was Bi. Over the years I have mentioned bringing someone to join us so I could eat her pussy while hey fuck her but to this day she has refused. She will finger my ass while she sucks my cock. She will even put on a strap-on and have me suck it, then she will bury it in my ass and stroke me while she fucks me. But she still refuses to allow anyone to join us. Maybe one day; till then I'll keep trying.
I was in my 60s when I told my wife. She didn,t beleive me at first, but now she does. Just can't get her to watch me suck cock or get her to fuck someone else.
My wife came down into the basement to do laundry. I honestly didn't hear her come down the stairs and she saw me looking at some bi porn. She is an Italian-Catholic conservative gal and was pretty upset..."are you gay ?"...well, not exactly honey. At which point we talked things out. When she asked why I never told her, I told her I was afraid of losing her if I came out to her. It didn't affect my desire for her or women, it was simply an expansion of my sexual palette. I always thought of the guy sex as an additional outlet for a super-horned guy and it added a new dimension to my sex life. I never dreamed I would enjoy getting fucked, sucking dick or both at the same time !
See, I was born into a similar situation of being sexually repressed as far back as I can remember. Sex was "dirty" and all that shit.... SO: When I started to be sexually active, it was "all bets are off". I screwed anything and anyone I could. I had a group of friends in middle school that would meet at a friends house to watch porn. We'd split up the homework to save time and leave more time for beating off and watching super-8 porno movies. Eventually, one day a few of the guys left and it was just me and Mike (the guy who's house it was. His parents worked all day from 7 am to 8 pm in NYC). We watched some porn and then one thing led to another and we ended up sucking one another off. We were pretty blown away (no joke !). Eventually, that led to ass play (with his mom's toys and lubes). We both had girlfriends and enjoyed women, but this newfound male male thing...wow....Later in life I worked as a professional musician on cruise ships and toured the US and Europe with some bands. I had my share of encounters along the way, enjoying MFM play with another bi male involved the most.
So, back to the wife...I explained that before we'd met, I'd enjoyed sex with men, women and couples and considered myself bi. It took some adjusting on her part. She eventually accepted that, but always said things like "but you don't do that anymore right ?"...I said, not really and left it at that. I play these days below the radar and we're happily married 35 years. We do play with rubber cocks in bed. She'll sometimes fuck me with a strap-on or we will "share" a fake rubber cock between our lips while fucking, and she feels it's "a good way to keep me from doing that stuff". Over the years I told her if she wanted another man or woman in our bed, or we could experiment or maybe go to a nude resort, beach or swing club (just to watch and see how we felt), but she always took a pass on that.
Ironically, one night we were on the deck shooting the breeze. I had a few drinks and she toked a number and had a drink. She calmly brought up my bisexuality. "So do you miss doing all that kinky stuff you used to do ?". Wow, here's a chance to maybe open things up a little...I said "sometimes I do, yes. "I had some really fun times back in the day". She said "you did do some crazy stuff..". I told her I was thankful I never got a disease ever !! She asked what things stuck out in my mind. I told her about the time I met two guys on a cruise ship and we spent the night drinking, smoking pot, sucking and fucking. And another time I met a woman on a cruise, went back to her cabin and her husband walked-in ! I almost shit a brick, but she said "relax, we're swingers and he loves it when we do this". Of-course, he told me if I fucked his wife, he expected me to suck his dick while doing-so....little did he know how good I was at that...lol. The funny thing is how wet my wife got while we were discussing this. I hugged her and told her how good it felt to be able to communicate and discuss this stuff. I reached down to initiate maybe going upstairs for some fun and she was very,very wet....of-course, my daughter and her boyfriend then came up the driveway and we never got to the bedroom that time....
Last edited by NjbiGuy01; Feb 20, 2019 at 12:34 PM.
My wife found out when I started using bi talk to get her off, her orgasms when I would say I was cumming in a man's ass were earthshaking. I told her to pick us a guy and bring him home but she wouldn't do it. It woulda been hot, eating his cum from her sloppy pussy would have been so much fun.
I've written up the seminal (no pun intended...) incident once or twice on these pages in pretty explicit detail, so I'll just summarize, here...
Wife and I had been experimenting with swinging, and some of those episodes included a bit of M-M contact, both incidental and intentional. But, during a soak in a hot tub with my wife and another guy at a time when my wife had had oral surgery the day before, I intimated that I would provide oral pleasure for the other gentleman. That was my first longer-than-brief experience sucking a cock, and I was hooked immediately. On the way home, I was enthusiastic, and talked about what I had just done, and said "I really enjoyed this! I don't see how anybody could not like it!"
The next day, while waiting at a drive-thru window for coffee, my wife said: "I guess you can officially consider yourself bisexual..." I didn't say much beyond agreeing with her, but I was inwardly pleased and relieved that we both accepted this realization so quickly and easily.
I had been having a year-long affair with a friend of mine. He had some ED issues and I agreed to forego condoms. I was exclusive with him and he said he was exclusive with me. He went away for a week and we hooked up just before my wife and I went on a vacation, While on vacation we had sex for the first time in over a year and it turns out my friend had hooked up while away, caught Chlamydia, gave it to me and I gave it to my wife. I told her about my buddy when she confronted me.
my wife was the one that wanted me to try bi years ago but I said no. then one day I was looking at porn when a 3 way bi movie came up and found myself getting a good hard on. it took about 6 months to tell her. she said lets find someone. that was 10 years ago. the week of Christmas and new years we will be in key west. we both hoping to have some fun.
I came out to my wife as Bisexual officially a few years back. I am 63 now. She got really upset and asked why I didn't tell her sooner, before we got married and I reminded her about her own seriously Bi-curious feelings when she was younger. We were both going to go to Provincetown Mass and try to pick up a member of the same sex one night, then she chickened out, but told me to go myself, which I did not do. Another time we were in Provincetown and she told me to go try and find someone to blow. I tried to no avail, but she didn't believe me and insisted on smelling my breath! Unfortunately it didn't smell like cock.
Another time we were in NYC for the day and we walked by an adult bookstore. I went in, she went to the coffee shop next door. When I came back with a huge grin on my face, she was wanted to know what was up. I told her that there were glory holes and that I blew another guy. She was upset and wouldn't let me eat her pussy for the longest time, out of fear that I had something. It was bizarre, the mixed signals. I ultimately told her that I had blown 24 guys. That was true at the time, although now the number is 48. That she doesn't know. She may suspect that I still do it, but she doesn't want me to do it or to know.
We speak openly that I am Bisexual and a couple of weeks ago I told her how much I wanted to be on the cover of a DVD sucking cock and eating cum, just like on the DVD that she helped me pick out earlier this summer in Provincetown. It is called Cum Suckers 3 & 4. (I highly recommend it!) There is a guy on the cover with his tongue stuck out, with a load from a nice cock shooting onto his tongue. Anyway, I confessed that my DVD title would have to be Interracial Cum Suckers, as I have a thing for black cocks, something that I had never told her before. She took it in stride and said that I had better never fulfill that particular fantasy, about being in a DVD! I told her that we live in Massachusetts, not LA, so that wasn't very likely. Later on we were engaging in sex and I blurted out that I loved to suck black cocks. She wasn't happy, but not angry either, she just explained that it's sex that doesn't include her, so it doesn't turn her on, but actually off. Oh well. At least she is 100% accepting of my Bisexuality now, as long as she thinks that I am not acting on it beyond fantasy and Gay or Bisexual porn. For the record, of the 48 cocks that I have sucked, 5 were black.
This was easy for me. It was her idea! Her biggest fantasy was to watch two guys having sex while she watched. So she asked me one day if I had ever considered doing it with a guy. Of course I said "No". That was a lie because I already had experience with sex with a guy. So I told her I would do it one time for her. She found a guy, invited him to our house on the next Saturday. He showed up, knocked on the door and my wife let him in. After about 8 seconds of chit/chat my wife ushered us to the bedroom where all three of us got naked. He and I climbed into the bed while my wife sat in a chair next to the bed. He and I started touching and rubbing each other and my with started rubbing herself. He and I started sucking each other and my wife was beyond turned on. And when he shot his load in my mouth my wife saw this and climaxed bigger and harder than ever before. She screamed/moaned so loud I thought the neighbors would call the cops. He and I finished and he left. At this point my wife looked and me and said "Oh, you're not finished yet!" So I then had glorious sex with her.
Wife and had a conversation before we even got married,
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